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Old 06-02-2009, 09:27 PM
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We think it preferred that you & Hub get more intimate.....MUCH more.....maybe some "anal play" you could encourage him to tickle your sweet butt......Just keep it up.......Later, somewhere down the line you can mention to Hub while you are "in play" that you hear BLK men do "this or that??" & watch his reaction.......Hopefully he won't get annoyed.....

IF you know or work with BLK men, whenever their names come up you can make a comment about that........Maybe you know a wht girl dating a BLK & ask him about that ?? Go S L O W L Y
......Don't just go out & buy a BLK dildo !! Actually the best is to tell Hub about some people who were "gppd,decent folks" You heard they play around.....BEST is IF you can get him interested in swapping OR going to just "observe" a swaping party.......

I suggest the 1st step is see IF he might invite another gal or guy for MMF 3-some sex.......Then go from another wht guy to mention a BLK guy........I talked my fiancee to dating a BLK guy & instructed her to do "anything" he wants to please him....I started emailing her IR pics & asked her IF she like ?? (this the opposite of your situation)......I guess this much depends on HIS background...and your relationship w/ him.......

A comment on racism.......There can be a guy who may use the "n" word occasionally......May freely make a comment about a BLK guy like OJ Simpson & actually dislike him intensely.......AND still hold secret desires for IR sex.....OR at least hold those fantasies!!
The best of both worlds is to continue the marriage to the man you love & get his support for you to fulfill your IR fantasies........Perfect IF you can do this in moderation......Good LUCK !!
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Ouch!!
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Old 06-23-2009, 09:36 PM
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Kristine that's a tough place to be. I'm totally not envying you right now. Being in the lifestyle is not the norm. I'm sure that there are more people that don't than do. I have asked husbands and boyfriends how do you do it? For myself its hard for me to imagine my girlfriend having sex with some other guy. I wouldn't get off watching either.

I think if you told him that you had a friend who's husband let her have sex with black guys. Tell him she confided in you. Seem shocked about it, and ask him what he thinks about that. If he handles it well tell him you've been entertaining the thought yourself. If he doesn't take it well, I guess you'll have to decide what's more important to you. You can have it all, all the time!!

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Old 06-24-2009, 01:06 AM
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You should go out an dfind what you want...bring him home and let your husband catch you two together, I think he would join in it's worth going for it and skipping conversations. He may submit immediatley, it does happen and I have seen it first and second hand.

Good Luck in any event.
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Old 07-31-2009, 03:09 PM
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Girls! If you need to feel him out, go buy two porn dvd's... One with white people in it, and another one with interracial cuckolding in it. Buy them used, then swap the cases, hide the other one, when you "open" your standard white porn, "oops, they made a mistake, and here I got all dressed up and had the wine chilled! Damn! Well, I'll have to take it back, but let's watch it to make it worth the trip, maybe its not so bad." You get him watching, and you'll have your answer soon enough.
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Old 11-04-2009, 06:45 AM
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George, I really like your innovative approach to introducing and then encouraging white married couples to the joys of an IR lifestyle involving the white wife and mother. However, in most real world cases, it's the white husband who desires his prim and proper wife to take the plunge to black, because he knows what a sweet satisfying experience it would be for her...and open her eyes to the sensual joys she has been missing out on all her life.

While there are probably far more white wives out there who secretly harbor black fantasies than we would think, but unfortunately few have the courage to stray in that direction. Most wives who have these repressed urges are fearful to mention them to their husbands...and this is often mirrored by a reciprocal feeling the husbands have who secretly desiire their wives to go black but are afraid to make their thoughts known to their wives. ..resembling a Mexican standoff.

Your approach shows a great deal of promise since the invitations you extend for the various IR website groups are given as a third-party, so there is not necessarily any chance of either husband or wife knowing that one or the other has actually instigated your offer "for assistance".

I know of several couples in my area who would benefit from such an introduction, but I have to be careful how we approach the subject. Perhaps we can discuss the various options in a personal message format.

Thanking you again for your efforts to promote what many of us in here are striving for.


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Old 02-09-2012, 08:13 AM
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just let him catch you with a big dick black guy and tell him that you need more then he can give but want to stay with him. Let him watch and he will never complain. Here is what my husband looks like and next to one of my lovers he understands
I THOUGHT THAT WAS A NIPPLE?!?!? DAMN.... (and not trying to be funny)
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Old 02-10-2012, 03:25 AM
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Does he drink?

If so get him drunk and over a few times drop a few sentences to him when hes drunk about you fucking black guys.

Don't just come out on the 1st time you try this and say your fucking black guys work up to it over a few weeks it should work out.

Has time pasts (a few weeks/2 months) get him drunk again really drunk and but this time have a black guy over and suggest you have sex but want the black guy to join in.

From there... i don't know.
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Well, any updates?
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You don't say if either one of you watches porn. If not try to bring the subject up and say you wondered about the movies. Let him know it would be nice to explore it together. Watch them together and the one time get one that shows black on white and go down on him. If he likes it then start asking if he liked what he say. Depending upon what he says lead the conversation into would he like to see you do the same. Hopefully while you are fucking him. If he says yes then make him think it's his idea, set it up and go for it.
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Just leave him.
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Old 09-19-2015, 05:30 AM
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Kristine, girl just up and leave him. Your hubby is leaving you unfulfilled or there would have been no reason to look outside the marriage. Truly you cannot love him or you would never have cheated in the first place. Marriage is about sharing your life and experiences together. As a couple my hubby and I choose this lifestyle. We share in it as equal partners. Since we both fuck other people and we know what the other spouse is doing or who they are with then it is not cheating. But fucking around without your spouses knowledge or permission is just low! Tell him before he finds out because no matter how discreet you think you are he will eventually find out. So, tell him now that you just like the idea of being married to him but you love fucking bbc. And then call your divorce lawyer.

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