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[tina76]

We think it preferred that you & Hub get more intimate.....MUCH more.....maybe some "anal play" you could encourage him to tickle your sweet butt......Just keep it up.......Later, somewhere down the line you can mention to Hub while you are "in play" that you hear BLK men do "this or that??" & watch his reaction.......Hopefully he won't get annoyed.....

IF you know or work with BLK men, whenever their names come up you can make a comment about that........Maybe you know a wht girl dating a BLK & ask him about that ?? Go S L O W L Y
......Don't just go out & buy a BLK dildo !! Actually the best is to tell Hub about some people who were "gppd,decent folks" You heard they play around.....BEST is IF you can get him interested in swapping OR going to just "observe" a swaping party.......

I suggest the 1st step is see IF he might invite another gal or guy for MMF 3-some sex.......Then go from another wht guy to mention a BLK guy........I talked my fiancee to dating a BLK guy & instructed her to do "anything" he wants to please him....I started emailing her IR pics & asked her IF she like ?? (this the opposite of your situation)......I guess this much depends on HIS background...and your relationship w/ him.......

A comment on racism.......There can be a guy who may use the "n" word occasionally......May freely make a comment about a BLK guy like OJ Simpson & actually dislike him intensely.......AND still hold secret desires for IR sex.....OR at least hold those fantasies!!
The best of both worlds is to continue the marriage to the man you love & get his support for you to fulfill your IR fantasies........Perfect IF you can do this in moderation......Good LUCK !!

[wyldsyde4]

Kristine that's a tough place to be. I'm totally not envying you right now. Being in the lifestyle is not the norm. I'm sure that there are more people that don't than do. I have asked husbands and boyfriends how do you do it? For myself its hard for me to imagine my girlfriend having sex with some other guy. I wouldn't get off watching either.

I think if you told him that you had a friend who's husband let her have sex with black guys. Tell him she confided in you. Seem shocked about it, and ask him what he thinks about that. If he handles it well tell him you've been entertaining the thought yourself. If he doesn't take it well, I guess you'll have to decide what's more important to you. You can have it all, all the time!!

Good luck,
Wyld

[FLmaleseekingit]

You should go out an dfind what you want...bring him home and let your husband catch you two together, I think he would join in it's worth going for it and skipping conversations. He may submit immediatley, it does happen and I have seen it first and second hand.

Good Luck in any event.

[bricker]

Girls! If you need to feel him out, go buy two porn dvd's... One with white people in it, and another one with interracial cuckolding in it. Buy them used, then swap the cases, hide the other one, when you "open" your standard white porn, "oops, they made a mistake, and here I got all dressed up and had the wine chilled! Damn! Well, I'll have to take it back, but let's watch it to make it worth the trip, maybe its not so bad." You get him watching, and you'll have your answer soon enough.

[george362]

Originally Posted by Kristine

Hi Everyone,

I'm Kristine,26 and married to my high school sweetheart. i really love him but i have been discreetly fucking black. but the encounters are rare as i'm careful of my sophsiticate prim and proper reputation.

I really want it more often and i dont want to hide it from my husband. i dont know how to tell him everything. i fear losing him. i love him and i love black too

what should i do, how can i tell him and not lose him

HI Kristine,


I think I can help you!

I moderate several Yahoo interracial groups and I have helped women in your situation before. My experience is that most white husbands, once they have been exposed to interracial porn and imagery, do develop an interest into seeing their wives with black men.

Here are my groups:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/friendsoftheblackexperience

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Bethanys_Choice

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/black_licorice_gallery


What I would suggest you do is to send me your husband's email address and I will send him invites to my groups. Once he joins the groups, I will follow up with an introductory letter, and attach some of my articles about the interracial lifestyle.

If you want to start with YOUR email address first so that you can see what the invite looks like, that is fine.

My experience has been that these husbands rapidly get excited over the possibility of their wife enjoying black men. Then I will work with him and coach him in how to approach YOU and talk you into trying a black man.

Thus you get what you want as long as you are willing to play along and let me guide you, we can do this without your husband feeling betrayed, because HE will be the one offering you this opportunity.

Of course you will not tell him of your prior experience with black men. Let him feel as though he is introducing you to this.

Result: You save your marriage, protect your husband's ego, and get the black cock you want more often and with his support.

I have done this before with several wives and it has worked out quite nicely.

Sound good?

email me at:

bclbm2003@yahoo.com

and lets talk about the steps we can take to make this happen.

Sincerely,

George

[george362]

Originally Posted by kristyforblacks

Hi Kristine, I have the same problem as you and I have not cheated or shared my interracial fantasy with my husband yet either. I thought about leaving hints like faking an email address and sending his email pictures of black lovers and beautiful wives, but I am to scared to even do that! It would be so wonderful to share this fantasy, but remember it could wrong and you will loose your husband forever. That's what keeps me from taking it any further than a fantasy!

Good luck sweetie! Kisses, Kristy

Kristy, I just answered Kristine's question and offered to help her with her problem. I moderate Yahoo interracial groups and one of my specilties is helping couples go black, or a husband or wife to get their partner into the idea of the black experience.

Check out my response to her and drop me a line at:

bclbm2003@yahoo.com

and I will describe the method I have used to help others with this dilemma. Basically what I do is to send the husband invites to my Yahoo interracial groups. Invariably what I find is they soon develop an interest in seeing their wives with black men.

I then coach them into easing their wives into this lifestyle.

I can do the same for you without you having to admit to your husband that you have been seeing black men.

So, drop me a line and lets talk about how we can make this happen for you.

Regards,

George

[Randall M]

George, I really like your innovative approach to introducing and then encouraging white married couples to the joys of an IR lifestyle involving the white wife and mother. However, in most real world cases, it's the white husband who desires his prim and proper wife to take the plunge to black, because he knows what a sweet satisfying experience it would be for her...and open her eyes to the sensual joys she has been missing out on all her life.

While there are probably far more white wives out there who secretly harbor black fantasies than we would think, but unfortunately few have the courage to stray in that direction. Most wives who have these repressed urges are fearful to mention them to their husbands...and this is often mirrored by a reciprocal feeling the husbands have who secretly desiire their wives to go black but are afraid to make their thoughts known to their wives. ..resembling a Mexican standoff.

Your approach shows a great deal of promise since the invitations you extend for the various IR website groups are given as a third-party, so there is not necessarily any chance of either husband or wife knowing that one or the other has actually instigated your offer "for assistance".

I know of several couples in my area who would benefit from such an introduction, but I have to be careful how we approach the subject. Perhaps we can discuss the various options in a personal message format.

Thanking you again for your efforts to promote what many of us in here are striving for.


Randall

[george362]

Originally Posted by kristyforblacks

Hi Kristine, I have the same problem as you and I have not cheated or shared my interracial fantasy with my husband yet either. I thought about leaving hints like faking an email address and sending his email pictures of black lovers and beautiful wives, but I am to scared to even do that! It would be so wonderful to share this fantasy, but remember it could wrong and you will loose your husband forever. That's what keeps me from taking it any further than a fantasy!

Good luck sweetie! Kisses, Kristy

Kristy,

Your black yearnings can be a very beautiful gift to your husband and bring the two of you closer. If you will write me at:

bclbm2003@yahoo.com

I will show you how. Also, see my thread on "Getting your wife into the interracial lifestyle"

JD(George)

[lickalot864]

Originally Posted by jillwagner10

just let him catch you with a big dick black guy and tell him that you need more then he can give but want to stay with him. Let him watch and he will never complain. Here is what my husband looks like and next to one of my lovers he understands

I THOUGHT THAT WAS A NIPPLE?!?!? DAMN.... (and not trying to be funny)

[geedds]

Does he drink?

If so get him drunk and over a few times drop a few sentences to him when hes drunk about you fucking black guys.

Don't just come out on the 1st time you try this and say your fucking black guys work up to it over a few weeks it should work out.

Has time pasts (a few weeks/2 months) get him drunk again really drunk and but this time have a black guy over and suggest you have sex but want the black guy to join in.

From there... i don't know.