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[1achilles]

I am new to this site (joined about 2 weeks ago). I find some of it very interesting and I sure can't ask any of my buddies these questions.

I need to tell some background. First of all, I pretty much get off on whatever my wife enjoys. I love for her to enjoy herself as that is the ultimate for me. I have joked throughout the years that i would love to see her getting fucked (and not thinking possible.)

We are mid 40's and married for 20 years with 3 teenage kids and both professionals. She is as good looking now as she was when we were first married and we have very good sex about twice a week on average. About 4 months ago we were lying in bed and I mentioned her getting a massage and then the masseur fucking her and how hot that would be (I love that thought) She gave me the usual "yucky". I then put my hand on her crotch and it was sopping wet! I immediately started in on her with "if its so 'yucky' why is your pussy so wet?" It triggered an immediate response for me as well as I got horny as hell in a hurry. Well, every time we had sex over the next few weeks (which was even more often) I brought up the aforementioned messeur story and the sex was incredibly hot. I started looking up sexy massage stories and having her read (which she willingly did) and I would talk w her afterwards about how wet and horny she was. Then about 3 weeks later I asked her (right after a fuck session) what she really liked and out of nowhere she throws out "how bout a big black cock?" My jaw hit the floor. I didn't make a big deal out of it trying to play it cool and then a week later she said basically the same thing after sex when cleaning up. She did not have to mention it a 3rd time as I jumped on her comment (I got horny as shit this time) and said as much. I need to say my wife is a very independent and strong woman and has never really told me anything out of he ordinary about what she likes sexually (besides orgasms, positions, etc.) She will tell me who she thinks is "cute" or possibly "hot" but never anything like this; "a big black cock!" I still cani't believe she said that, but eternally grateful she did.

Fast forward to the present. I have inundated my wife with IR porn (she always watches and gets wet as hell) and images as I got on Internet and found sites like this and realized that men watching their wives getting fucked is not so unusual. IR "cuckoldry" too. Well, I have let her know, as subtly as possible, how much I would love to see her fucked by a "big black cock". She would say I am NOT subtle, and I am trying to not push it too much and too fast. But 90% of the time she blows me off. There have been a few occasions where she engages me and ask if I would be there to keep her safe, what would I do, etc. I have assured her I would be the luckiest guy in the world and love her more! I think she does that to make me happy. I must also say that we are supposed to go to a swingers club as I have asked if we could "just do that" and she said ok because she is "curious" (her words). Somewhere I read swingers clubs are good places to take wife to get acclimated. She kind of likes that idea. But I know she will say no sex, but of course be horny as shit. I could write forever about how I am trying to make this possible. She says she will not, it's just fantasy. I am consumed as I realize I would give my left nut (and possibly right) to see her get fucked on a regular basis by a black dude w a bigger dick than mine and younger. Oh yea, I'm about 6-61/2 and thick and not at all gay.

I apologize for wordiness, my question, who has had this scenario where wife shows interest and husband needs no convincing? Usually it's the husbands (or wifes) total idea from what I have read. Please give advice for wife that seems to want it occasionally but is really adamant when she says "you might as well get that out of your head!" This sums her up when she once said "my pussy says yes, but my head says no!" Hotwives, please advise?

[Rodh]

You need to quit teasing her with the fantasy and place yourselves in a situational setting where your fantasies are allowed to play out during the evening. A swing club or just a nightclub setting with a leading conversation and wordplay along with access to a few selected guys can lead you where you want to be. If she gets as turned on at the thought as you say she does, she will succumb to her own desire and bring you along, keep the positive assurance that this is as much a turn-on for you as it is a fantasy of hers. Good Luck!

[gatorrdw]

1achilles, if my wife were was still living she would tell you that while your wife is "interested" don't push too hard. We had discussed her being with other men and we would go to clubs and parties, where she had the opportunity to mix and dance with other men- who we would often talk about in bed of what she thought they would be like and if they were "hung" or not and what it would be like to be with a black man, older men, etc..
Then at a New Years Eve party she took the leap with a black co-worker of mine and we never stopped. Just continually reassure your wife of how much you love and care for her and all that you want is for her to enjoy the freedom of the sexual skills and talents of other men. GTR