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[1one300]

Hello to all:

maybe I am not the typical member of this forum, but I am absolutely mesmerized by the potential frame of such a "Lifestyle".

Just some words about me: I am from Germany, single and white, but for some years now I am craving for this kind of relationship; at first it was very hard for me to accept my notions, because I see myself as a proud and self-determined character.

We also have some "black men" here, but mostly from Africa - some seem to be real dominant and somewhat possessive if a white girl gives in to them.

My phantasies are typical for a man like me and I think I could go "all the way" (under the right circumstances) ... but nevertheless it scares me to the bones, for sure ... On the other hand, it's hard to let it go ...

But now my question (because I couldn't much find about it in the threads):

Is it still possible for an "cuckold-couple" to live a happy and quite "ordinary marriage" with quite normal things? And: can a woman whose husband gives way to an "alpha-male" still be respected, treated decent and even loved or will most "men with my penchant" become somewhat of a grotesque picture of a man?

I would be interested what all parts of you (Bulls, Hotwifes and cuckolds) are thinking about it ...

I have the courage to face my desires but I do not want to throw away my option of a happy and fulfilling relationship / marriage.

Thanks for every genuine and open comment. But please don't try to talk me into it, only because you want to see the decline of another white man

Greetings -
1one300

[gatorrdw]

1one300, my wife and I had a very "ordinary" life for over 35 years of living a "cuckold/shared wife " lifestyle. My wife and I were both professional people in very different fields, and we were able to keep our personal lives to ourselves. I'm an Alpha-type male myself and many of the men that were involved with my wife were alpha's. They quickly understood from my wife and I that we were just "sharing" her because we wanted to. If memory serves me correctly there was only 2 men that seemed to think that they were some sort of "God's Gift to a Woman" and they were promptly dropped by my wife and she made herself very clear that she no longer had any interest in them. So I am quite sure that you can enjoy this lifestyle and also have a very "ordinary" marriage and life if you and your GF/wife work at keeping the what you are doing from being anyone else's business. gatorrdw

[1one300]

Originally Posted by gatorrdw

1one300, my wife and I had a very "ordinary" life for over 35 years of living a "cuckold/shared wife " lifestyle. My wife and I were both professional people in very different fields, and we were able to keep our personal lives to ourselves. I'm an Alpha-type male myself and many of the men that were involved with my wife were alpha's. They quickly understood from my wife and I that we were just "sharing" her because we wanted to. If memory serves me correctly there was only 2 men that seemed to think that they were some sort of "God's Gift to a Woman" and they were promptly dropped by my wife and she made herself very clear that she no longer had any interest in them. So I am quite sure that you can enjoy this lifestyle and also have a very "ordinary" marriage and life if you and your GF/wife work at keeping the what you are doing from being anyone else's business. gatorrdw

Thank you very much for your reply "gatorrdw"; you touch indirectly a point and I am aware of that; at the moment I only have my abstract phantasies and not a concrete relationship with a woman I love ... So my images are probably more than "two steps beyond" ... The point that maybe differs from your lived constellation, but thrills AND (understandably?) scares me, is, that I like the thought of being humiliated. Maybe it can be played as a game, but some part of me wants more than that ... I hope I can encounter my desires ... step by step.

[cuck?]

I am also single and would be scared to go into this type of lifestyle, however i would try it. I am not sure what "all the way" exactly is, because the most i know about cuckold is from porn movies that almost involve eating black seed from a woman, and i dont know if that gets white women off when there boyfriend does that?

[Hardpeniscuck]

Hey 1one300, i would like to know what the interracial dating scene is like in Germany. Have you ever seen a white german woman dating a black man? Are white german women open to dating black men?

The thought of a white german woman fucking a black man makes my cock very hard. I always wonder whether interracial cuckolding is happening in Germany.

If you are not in a relationship with a white woman, you could perhaps fantasize about white female friends getting fucked by black men.

I usually fantasize about my white female friends getting fucked by black men.

I don't tell my white female friends that i would like to see them get fucked by black men, it's too embarrassing. If i told them they would probably think i'm weird or perverted.

The thought of a blonde white woman getting fucked by a black man makes my cock EXTREMELY hard. Whenever i masturbate i think about white women getting fucked by black men.

For a white man to admit to getting turned on by interracial cuckolding and interracial porn could be very embarrassing. This is exactly the reason why i don't tell anybody of my interracial sex fantasies.

Some of my white female friends don't approve of interracial dating and some have even said they would never date a black man. They don't know that i watch interracial porn.

[matureslutncuck]

I STRONGLY believe it is disappointing, perplexing and almost that a mature, seemingly secure, mature man would be embarrassed because he's turned on by the thought and idea of HIS lady being royally fucked by a black bull with a big thick cock! WHY? What exactly is your motivation, reason and intention behind your voyeuristic desires? Is it about HER pleasure and satisfaction or YOURS? THAT, I believe is the fundamental question AND determining factor deciding the appropriateness or inappropriateness of ones desires.

I consider myself VERY fortunate in that I am an AWESOME lover, whether it be a "one night stand" or a continuous "loving" relationship. I am sexually satiated ONLY when I KNOW my partner is! I naively thought that was the "norm" until female friends of mine felt comfortable to confide in me about their sexual frustrations (including my BEST friends girlfriend whom wanted to fuck me without his knowledge or consent) I have done a lot of "fucked up" things in my life but betraying a TRUE friend never was or will be one of them! At the age of 57, I know all too well that I can count on ONE HAND, IF I'm lucky, the number of true friends I am blessed with in my life! My code of ethics is you NEVER betray a FRIENDS trust! Furthermore, if my woman does not respect our relationship to the point of wanting or needing to go out and get fucked by other men, why should I expect a complete stranger to? My problem is NOT with him, but HER!!

God made sex the 2nd strongest innately driven, primal drive next to eating for a reason! That being to insure survivability of the species. Why the hell do you thing it is so pleasurable?? NOT because you are supposed to torture yourself with self denial! Nor are we supposed to feel guilty for our desires. I firmly believe our culture is tragically influenced by religiously driven, irrational, dangerous, cruel zealotry when it applies to sex and sexuality!

In a nutshell, when it comes to the appropriateness of one's sexual behavior or actions, I simply say, CHECK YOUR PREMISES! if is is selfish and only about YOUR satisfaction I totally understand your hesitation, embarrassment and confusion. If it is about the pursuit and desire to provide ECSTASY, than what the fuck are you waiting for or give a shit what others think or say? FUCK THEM if they don't approve!
Peace,
Dr Art
Innate provides and so do I!
GWG

[PaulRuth]

The answer to your first question is in our case a resounding yes. And Alpha Male or not seeing your wife being mounted by another male is so exciting in our case it brought us closer together, I didn't lose 'face' or my place in her affections. You say you are single but don't mention your sex life is it active or do you masturbate a lot while fantasizing, either way totally normal, or are you like me a voyeur?. And do remember when dating a new romance that the vast majority of women have tasted more than one cock, so your desire to lead a potential cuckold lifestyle may not be as distant as you fear.

Very briefly after 16 years of a uneventful and poor sex marriage, my wife was a ardent church goer and had little taste for sex, we went on holiday where she was seduced by the owner of the holiday resort, this became an affair from which she became pregnant, but seeing the change in her from a dower young woman into a cheerful outgoing type arrested any objection from me,I found out then that I was a born voyeur and got my kicks from seeing her with this chap who introduced us to the wife swapping circuit to which we became eager and enthusiastic members.

There are two pictures of my wife on our profile, one at 36 during that fatal holiday, and one at twice that age at 72. We are still together after 55 years.

Paul and Ruth

[latingermancpl]

i think that it works fine if you set boundaries and respect them. It was not the same for us. She is german (bavaria) and our love was pure until we starting swinging and she discovered her inner slut. We agrred that the next one i found for her and let her know with a cue to take the next step. But she jump the gun and i stepped out for a few seconds And saw the bull that i brought home making her suck his cock right away. she let him fuck her bare back without me able to say a thing. I never saw her cum so hard and i had to watch him emtty his balls inside her pussy as her orgasm contined. He left pretty fast after that and she had me crawl under her and she sat on my face until gobs of his cum dripped to cover my open mouth. I felt like a total female with him she told me. I have never felt like that with you. I want to see him again soon. I tried to be supportive and i allowed her to go to his hotel alone. I was afraid to become emasculated even further. He wanted us to continue be in love but have her pussy belong to him. I was not prepared to accept this at that time and became afraid that if i played with him he would make me suck his balls to humiliate me. We broke off for a while but i am back with her and if we meet such a bull again, we will both surrender from the Beginning .
I think culturally german women enjoy total surrender to big african males and we know want an exprienced bull that lets me know that he will fuck my girl and handles me like a sissy cuckold in some way

maybe I am not the typical member of this forum, but I am absolutely mesmerized by the potential frame of such a "Lifestyle".

Just some words about me: I am from Germany, single and white, but for some years now I am craving for this kind of relationship; at first it was very hard for me to accept my notions, because I see myself as a proud and self-determined character.

We also have some "black men" here, but mostly from Africa - some seem to be real dominant and somewhat possessive if a white girl gives in to them.

My phantasies are typical for a man like me and I think I could go "all the way" (under the right circumstances) ... but nevertheless it scares me to the bones, for sure ... On the other hand, it's hard to let it go ...

But now my question (because I couldn't much find about it in the threads):

Is it still possible for an "cuckold-couple" to live a happy and quite "ordinary marriage" with quite normal things? And: can a woman whose husband gives way to an "alpha-male" still be respected, treated decent and even loved or will most "men with my penchant" become somewhat of a grotesque picture of a man?

I would be interested what all parts of you (Bulls, Hotwifes and cuckolds) are thinking about it ...

I have the courage to face my desires but I do not want to throw away my option of a happy and fulfilling relationship / marriage.

Thanks for every genuine and open comment. But please don't try to talk me into it, only because you want to see the decline of another white man

Greetings -
1one300[/QUOTE]

[Scarletandblack]

The key thing is to talk very openly . If one of you doesn't want to do something then quite simply don't do it . If you both do , and your are close and secure in our relationship , then do it . The other key point I believe is how the woman regards sex . Does she think more like a man and as an enjoyable experience with no emotion , no ties just lust. If she can't think that way don't do it . The last thing is to avoid a women doing it because she loves her partner and wants to please him but doesn't ' feel stirred to want to do so herself

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by Scarletandblack

The key thing is to talk very openly . If one of you doesn't want to do something then quite simply don't do it . If you both do , and your are close and secure in our relationship , then do it . The other key point I believe is how the woman regards sex . Does she think more like a man and as an enjoyable experience with no emotion , no ties just lust. If she can't think that way don't do it . The last thing is to avoid a women doing it because she loves her partner and wants to please him but doesn't ' feel stirred to want to do so herself

Yes both have to be on the same page with this type of lifestyle. Even if one decides to take a break for awhile, it shouldn't become an issue as it is "Extra" to the marriage. Also most Bulls enjoy this lifestyle without the commitment to anything other than pleasure.
I have pushed the limits by suggesting going out in public and becoming friends outside of the bedroom, but things could get carried away in public and both of our careers are at stake so It's just a fantasy for now.