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[WorriedDad]

Hi all,

I'm doing this account to ask you advice about my family situation. My daughter recently started chatting online. She told me she got a black boyfriend. They havn't met yet. She seems super in love with him.

But don't really like this idea for so many reasons:
- older
- met online
- muslim
- since to be bad influence

I talked with my wife about that and immediatly yelled at me that I was just a racist.

I don't know how to handle this situation. Is it true that I'm a racist for thinking like that?
It may be true... I never thought I could ends up racist.

What do you think?

[tommy46]

hey thanks for the chat you got friends here so come in the chat again I hope you understood what I was trying to tell you

[tommy46]

your no racist just a concerned father and you have justified concerns

[Curious scott]

Think you need to weigh up your concerns. Like how much older is he compared to your daughter? What’s your distrust Based on? Islam is always an issue with compatible lifestyles, because it’s followers never compromise. How Much in love is she??

[andi38]

Originally Posted by WorriedDad

Hi all,

I'm doing this account to ask you advice about my family situation. My daughter recently started chatting online. She told me she got a black boyfriend. They havn't met yet. She seems super in love with him.

But don't really like this idea for so many reasons:
- older
- met online
- muslim
- since to be bad influence

I talked with my wife about that and immediatly yelled at me that I was just a racist.

I don't know how to handle this situation. Is it true that I'm a racist for thinking like that?
It may be true... I never thought I could ends up racist.

What do you think?

Dad,
Perhaps you, along and your wife, should join your daughter online to meet this man. With this added knowledge of him, your concerns may either be assuaged.....or validly escalated. You should also be sure your daughter realizes that sessions with her boyfriend can be recorded and posted all over the web (in case she has been exhibiting herself or having virtual sex over the cam).
I wish you the best,
Andrea��