Where are all the real people?

Username: annwill39 Date: 16-06-2014 17:29:23 Mood: full of life Music: Al Green

I took about a 10 month break from anything in the lifestyle thanks to some family difficulties, and it was like things had changed totally during that time. I went back to put ads on the swinger sites that made it easy to hook up, and the results were dismal. Tried a few new sites, same story. 

I don't think how I like to play it so difficult--it worked very well in the past, but truthfully right now it has been very hard to find fuck buddies. 

The obvious question here is how do I play it. So here's the list:

Black men (have a white man at home)

Preferrably mid-40's or older, professional, enjoys conversation over drinks as well as getting crazy in the bedroom. 

Doesn't have a problem with hubby being there for photos and video for our own personal enjoyment only. Remembering the day in pictures--and keeping us aroused for a repeat sooner!

Willing to email a g-rated photo, have a phone conversation before we meet, perhaps an email exchange with hubby to work out the boring stuff concerning a face to face that I don't like to handle. 

That about it for the requirements. What is amazing to me is how many men prefer to meeting a total stranger on craigslist with a half-hour notice. 

And the most important thing I left out--being real. I've been on these sites long enough that wannabe's tend to stand out,

If you've read the above and said to yourself, "That all sounds reasonable to me," and you are in the Atlanta area or get there from time to time, perhaps it is time we start a conversation!

With me you get a 50 plus woman that is most often described by others as pretty (and a few nicer words than that but of course that is up to everyone's pesonal opinion). You also get eager enthusiasm who thinks the most fun in the world is enjoying sex with a black man. 

Comments:

YingTantraYang
2014-06-18 23:42:30

well said........and great to vibe with on all levels

trry47
2014-06-18 15:13:18

" These requirements are very simple and ' do-able." " Only( right now), the Atlanta area is too far out of reach for me at this time...,' Such a shame for this ' Real Unwannabe."- Take care.

Mustang Alley
2014-06-16 19:23:26

Real meets real. Love to. Cam verify y'all so the guys know that y'all are indeed a real couple. Plus there is a list of verified men on the forums. That will help cut down on the "no shows" that you speak of. 🔴🔴. Cam verification is done by skype or the chat room here. Just a hi and bye is all that's required.

ancientone
2014-06-22 19:35:43

Sounds reasonable to me. Seems as if you are right in your observation about dismal results. The wife was traveling in State a lot but could not get any gents to step forward. One wanted a picture but would not cam. The wife liked the idea of playing around in a larger city where she would not be recognized. But no luck.

bbc.snake
2014-06-26 12:15:49

I am cool with all the requirements you listed, professional, REAL and a gentleman. Would like to converse to see what things spark interest. I enjoy a mature woman a married one wirh a chill husband that allows hee to have fun. Have been friends with a couple in the Cobb area that has moved and would like to become friends with you. Live in west metro, work downtown Atlanta and know the metro are pretty well. If interested please get in contact.