Username: annwill39 Date: 16-06-2014 17:29:23 Mood: full of life Music: Al Green

I took about a 10 month break from anything in the lifestyle thanks to some family difficulties, and it was like things had changed totally during that time. I went back to put ads on the swinger sites that made it easy to hook up, and the results were dismal. Tried a few new sites, same story. 

I don't think how I like to play it so difficult--it worked very well in the past, but truthfully right now it has been very hard to find fuck buddies. 

The obvious question here is how do I play it. So here's the list:

Black men (have a white man at home)

Preferrably mid-40's or older, professional, enjoys conversation over drinks as well as getting crazy in the bedroom. 

Doesn't have a problem with hubby being there for photos and video for our own personal enjoyment only. Remembering the day in pictures--and keeping us aroused for a repeat sooner!

Willing to email a g-rated photo, have a phone conversation before we meet, perhaps an email exchange with hubby to work out the boring stuff concerning a face to face that I don't like to handle. 

That about it for the requirements. What is amazing to me is how many men prefer to meeting a total stranger on craigslist with a half-hour notice. 

And the most important thing I left out--being real. I've been on these sites long enough that wannabe's tend to stand out,

If you've read the above and said to yourself, "That all sounds reasonable to me," and you are in the Atlanta area or get there from time to time, perhaps it is time we start a conversation!

With me you get a 50 plus woman that is most often described by others as pretty (and a few nicer words than that but of course that is up to everyone's pesonal opinion). You also get eager enthusiasm who thinks the most fun in the world is enjoying sex with a black man.