Username: bigthickblkdick Date: 25-11-2012 17:44:46 Mood: horny Music:

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Username: bigthickblkdick Date: 23-11-2012 13:06:24 Mood: horny Music:

Not an easy task.  Either emotionally or physically.  Despite all the free-sprited women, we are all animals, and as such, when you fucking nose get's opened, it is a matter of conditioning to get it under control.  You'll never have your nose closed again.

Same for women as for men.  Women emit all types of hormonal signals which bond them to a man.  If you're getting pussy from a bitch, then you're getting sprayed with this stuff.  Men "get thier nose opened" around the 4th-6th time they fuck the same bitch.  It takes that much to get us settled, somewhat.  It's when your pussy has the capabilty to bond with a man.  It's why women saying "I am like am man when it comes to sex."  simply isn't true.  We can overcome many things except our biology.

Mistresses, I've fallen in love with each and every one of them at some point.  But the bonds are not so deep that me pulling away for months at a time has no effect on me.  But it does them, which is why the fucked like a fury when the dick came around.

My mistresses have fallen in love with me.  But due to the nature of the relationships if I may use the term, demands on all sides were low to achieve maximum felxibility and comfort.

Cheating is simply wrong though, not a huge advocate of the practice, BUT I understand why people do it and abide it.  I think there would be less of it in the USA if we could just recognize our sexuality.  The society should provide consent to ones adulthood.  In reality, if more couples had frank discussions about sex and intimacy here in the US, our divorce rate would shrink and our kink factor would go up.

I'm just sayin'!

Username: bigthickblkdick Date: 06-04-2013 13:40:22 Mood: in love Music:

This is one I've always wanted to write.  What makes the "ideal" mistress to me.  This has been a subject of conversation between me and every mistress I've had, and I 've seen it's evolution.

I'm not a cheater anymore.  I simply gave it up because it is just fraught with bullshit and nonsense.  It doesn't matter the venue, here or AFF or in life, it's just too much trouble.  The reason is the same most marriages fail; unrealized expectations.  See, the one gaffe people in any scene make is that constant contact will not yeild feelings of a bond.  Intimate behavior, fucking, sucking, licking, sticking, will get you emotionally involved.  In the end you're going to be thinking about this person you're fucking on the side, and you're going to slip up and not pay attention to something, and fuck yourself up.  It simply happens, and really there is nothing you can do.  My wife tells me of true confessions of her GF's, and some, well let's just say I say hello to these women in very public places.  Just safer that way.

Just some initial qualifications, I have been both an avid swinger and a mischevious cheater.  I've been with enough women, and fucked near husbands and boyfriends enough to know , at least from doing this for real, my preferences.  so without any more babble...

The Ideal mistress:

1. I'm married, you be married.  It sucks but this is the BEST arrangement.  Divorce is serious and people do not step lightly into that realm.  Look for someone who is looking for something extra and have at it.  Set some rules in the beginning.  Condoms or not, B/C or not.  Get it out there  it's the least you two skunks can do. ;)

2. Don't ever say the phrase "I love you" to each other.  Keep it on the lust tip.  By your actions and frequency it is obvious.  But words betray the hearts intention.  Stay away from it, and just deal with the knawing angst of the impending fuck sessions and the cloud 9 afterward.

3. Keep the affair short.  Doing anything else invites mischeif and expexcvtations of priority neither of you can afford to give without dissolution of your marriage.  This is a bit perilous too, since you must weight this against finding a reliable "partner" who is disease free, and you can eventually bareback with.  Trust is a huge component in these matters, especially for us who ride bareback.

4. If you're dating a swinger, tell her to stfu about how many dudes she is fucking.  This is PARTICULARLY true of my BBW mistresses.  I'd put in good dick work, at pussy till the break of dawn, given them 6:1 on the orgasm chart, and to prove their hotness they can't stop talking about dick parties.  At first it's kinda cute, but like all aspects of a relationship, yes, that's what this is, you achieve your pecadillos.  She's prattling on about conquests is amusing but ladies, keep it rare.  And keep it hot.  Show him what you've learned, stop talking about it so much.  Sigh...I've found this a sure sign you're either a terrible lay or the pussy is sore.  He'll never know so just keep it to yourself honey.

5.  No limits.  I'm not interested inpedestrian sex, but I want sex how I like it, and I'll give you what you like  This is reciprocal 100%.  That means sometimes I will have to take a finger up my ass.  That also means I get to fuck you up yours.  That means I lick your ass clean, that also means you swallow my sweaty balls and eat my cum.  Havent deep throated?  Now's YOUR time, gaggings fine, you're amongst a trusted friend!  You can be a sweaty pig too, that is fun.  But let's not leave any marks on each other, that is the hard part!

6. Be clean.  Enough said, you should smell sweet as should I, all crevices all folds if you have any (I've none but a tight asscrack).  Even after 6 fuck sessions in a day, we should be smelling like pussy and cum and aromas of a fine distinction.  Be sure your hygeine is tip top.

7. Stop the shy routine.  We're whores, let's act like it and get busy.

8. Foreplay is essential.  I know we have limited time, but let's make sure we're locking lips and licking each others sweat off.

9.  Do not call unscheduled.  Respect it on both sides.

10.  Do not talk about our bullshit affair.  You made one promise, and broke it.  Can we really trust one another on this one?  Probably not, but at least talk about who you might tell.  There are two confidants I have on this planet who have my secrets all locked up.  You're going to need this too.  The trust goes hand in hand.  Also make sure these people never meet (mistress/friends).  Keep your deposit boxes happy , sane and secure and trustworthy.  You have to know that even AFTER your friendship might end with them, your secret is safe.  Good luck with that one.  I'm lucky.

I am not condoning or condemning fucking around.  It's become a fantasy for me at this point, which is probably where it belongs.  I already had at it, it was fun, but now  meh?!  The reality often falls short of the fantasy.  Ask how many swingers met men who couldn't perfrom in a crowd ;).  I get close but keep a distance.  Like smelling residual cigarette smoke from a long not forgotten nasty habit I suppose (I never smoked cigs).  Women are still everywhere, and I keep my powder dry until I come home to drill my wife's sweet thick hungry pussy.  But dayum, if I knew then what I knew now, my rules woulda kept me neck deep in hot pussy.