Originally Posted by quietblackguy39 (Post 43025)

I have over 50 friends on my list, no women has contacted me back. What I'm I doing wrong?

Originally Posted by Menageurtrois69 (Post 46812)

I don't know you personally so I will not try to speak to the man that you are. But I'm guessing from your profile name that you are quiet and reserved? Which is cool, no worries there. But have you ever heard the term "squeaky wheel gets the grease?". If you don't put yourself out there, they'll never know who you are. Look at the number of men on this site. (Legit black men, not the fakes and stuff.) One thing that I know about my brothas is that we are confident in all that we do. I know cats who don't have a dollar in their pocket, but they walk and carry themselves with an heir of confidence. Women like that. They want to be intimate with a man who they feel is in control. Not necessarily in a dominating/submissive role, but self-assured in all that he does. If you got it in you, put it out there. Maybe state in your profile that you have pics available for those who are interested? Maybe put together a quick paragraph of what a night with you would be like? Catch their attention. The real ones are on this site for a reason. And there are some damn good ones too! Let them know who you are. Good luck.

M.