What kind of a man shares his wife with black men?
 

What kind of a man shares his wife with black men and what kind of a wife does it, was the question that I was asked on a forum. I was chatting about one of my wife's experiences, when the question came up.The person that asked it was obviously not into sharing and assumed that I'm a loser and my wife is a dirty slut. After a bit , I let it go and moved on.

But, it did get me thinking about the subject. I don't know about the other men and women here but I do know myself and my wife. For starters, I don't consider myself a loser and my wife is definitely not a dirty slut. We have a good marriage and a nice home in the country. We're hardworking and appreciative for the good life that we have. If you saw us on the street you would probably never guess that we were into the cuckold interracial lifestyle for over 4 years. We're an average white married couple from small town America.

The love we have for each other and the bond of our marriage are reasons that we took the plunge and started living out our fantasies. I admit that I was concerned we were opening Pandora's Box. But, my wife was always there for me, proving that our marriage was good, better than good, it was great. Even after 4 years, when things started going sideways, she was and is committed to our marriage.

What kind of people are we, we're good people love for each other and love for life.

John and Amanda

Shared
 

Men have been sharing me since I was in junior high school....Becky:p

Nothing better than being shared. Variety (of cocks) is the spice of life.

Getting shared
 

I luv being shared. Black, white, black and white. Variety is the spice of life....Becky :p

A well written, thoughtful, entry. I would like to know what you mean by "when things went sideways" though.

tjean.

Who was turning you out in jr. high school?

My English teacher. After he got me “trained “ he started sharing me with his friends. I was a hot little slut at 14....Becky :p

Hot at 14 and you haven't "cooled down" since. Good for you.

I was 13 when he got me. I was 14 when he started sharing me and already a 3 hole slut. I really liked sex....Becky :p

I'ts great that you started at a young age. I will forever regret that it took me so long to "discover" the joys of sex. I firmly believe the sooner you start the better, especially with black cock. The sharing experience makes one feel "worthy" knowing your body is "wanted" by many men.

I did my first gangbang at 15. My dear daddy shared me with a bunch of his bar buddies on one of their poker nights at our house....Becky :p

shared
 

after my mom taught me about oral sex with her black lover she told my dad and he started teaching me things too. he was so helpful and arranged my first mfm and my first gang-bang there always seemed to be a black man involved in my parents life. they belonged to a group of friends a total of 21 couples and a few singles so after i started at 14 i really enjoyed having fun, my husband and i experience different lovers and we enjoy the lifestyle

My dad divorced my mom because he caught her in the motel room getting gangbanged by a bunch of black men so sharing me with black men was out of the question. My loss I guess. I’ve made up for it though many times over....Becky :p

Becky,

You are a beautiful sexy gem of a woman. Anyone that's had the joy of being with you should thank their lucky stars.


John

Thank you
 

tjean, Thank you. Things went sideways when my wife started becoming emotional attached to her bull. I could blame her a bit, she was seeing him on a regular basis for 4 years. At first it was all about having some sexy fun. But, as time went on they became very close. Not just for sex, but, in everyday life. I suppose I could have said something to her, but, being selfish I didn't want to break up the good thing we had going on. After a while, it was actually my wife that wanted to quit the lifestyle. I think she knew she was in too deep and it was messing with her head. I think she was at a point of making a decision, him or me. I'm damn glad she chose to me.

Thank you sweetie. I do luv to spread as much joy around that I possibly can....Becky:p

Husband who shares
 

In our marriage, my loving husband is much older than me and started suffering from chronic ED and a fading libido soon after our wedding 7 years ago. Knowing that my insatiable sexual appetite wasn’t being met, he lovingly suggested that I go out and find a high quality sexual lover or two. I jumped at the opportunity and never looked back. White lovers did not satisfy me so I soon turned to black men and I quickly became addicted to BBC.

So my open minded husband has lovingly shared me with black men. I am very grateful for his gift of sexual freedom.

Anne, I'm glad you have such an open minded husband. He obviously loves you and wants you to be happy.

John

Cuck Husbands.
 

In real life, 'cucks' are controlling personalities who only let a certain type of man fuck their wives.

Wife
 

A husband who wants to fulfull his wifes desires

fanara, Yes I suppose I do have a controlling personality. But, I can't really control my wife. Ultimately who she fucks is up too her.

why not?
 

why not allow my wife to enjoy sex and get filled up. I cannot do that.

I have no complaints about it more white Pussy for us niggas
Especially the pawgs gotta love me a big thick booty

cannonballs, Sharing your wife with someone with a BBC is not for everyone. Your wife has to be willing and you have to be able to keep it all in perspective. I wrestled with the idea for a long time before I mentioned it to my wife. In hindsight I wish I would have brought up the subject sooner. But, seriously, if you think you or you're wife are going to regret the decision then it's best left as a fantasy

John.

Realized I'm a Buill
 

I'm white, but I've been with about 10 married women, and God knows how many single ones. I'm 75 now, so those days are completely over. Only two of those situations directly involved the woman's husband. One of those occasions went really well, although the husband, my friend, was really pissed the next day. He and his wife had set it up, so I had no sympathy.. The other situation was kind of a bummer because the wife had so many fetishes she wasn't very sensual, although she was a little doll in appearance. My first wife and I had about five three-ways with single women. These were pretty good. One of them turned into a six-year affair for me.

I never have had any interest in sharing my first or second wife. My first wife and I had an open marriage, but I had no interest in knowing what she was up to. I enjoyed my freedom during this time.

I certainly enjoy interracial porn, both B-w and W-b. But I think I always identify with the guy. Just another perspective.

It's hard not to get feels with someone you hit it off with.

I envy your High School Teacher! He trained you well! Youre Hot!

Same with us
 

Much the same with us. I wasn't blessed with a large penis, I don't think my wife should be deprived or considered a slut for enjoying herself with a larger man and she says she likes the skin color contrast. We have been together 29 years and like you and your wife we are always there for each other, that is all that counts.

Jim & Sue

I would be happy to share my wife with black men or white men- any men who want use her...

My wife?
 

I would be glad to share my wife with any guy who wants heer- black guys especially.

My fiancee is very loving and very giving, always making sure i have the best in life..this is just an extension of that allowing me to be pleased sexually in the best way too.

True! My wife had relations with black men in the past, when she had moved into a black neighborhood out of economic necessity. She was a widow and was married to a white man for 16 years! When she moved into the "hood" she started to date black men ( she discovered that she found dark black men attractive). So then she started to make love with black men!! She wanted a long term relationship but it never worked out! Susan & I met and were monogamous for four years, I felt that she still craved chocolate delights so with the help of this site, Susan went black again!
Outside the bedroom I am the Alpha male but in the bedroom, I know my place as Susan's black lovers always go first and I get sloppy seconds!! I have accepted my role as a cluck and it has improved our love life!! I get more hard ons and cum more when black men plow my wife!
What kind of man shares his wife with black men? I can only speak for myself, I'm an open minded man who loves his wife, a voyeur, a sex fiend, a horny cluck who enjoys the beauty of black men making love to my white wife!!

i'd imagine it wood b one that knows she'd like to be with one

Same with us here as well. It also makes me happy knowing he enjoys to be there, part of it or maybe just enjoying the view when we are with other men our couples

We enjoy the lifestyle. If you don't so what. Our sex life is Incredible!!

I'd say a guy would have various and fluctuating reasons as the situations and dynamics fluctuate.

As for me being a senior bi white male switch who's been an interracial Lover all my life; the ONLY white woman I'm interested in is the One who likes black dick more than me. I've known a few over the years; they are rare indeed!

Strong Relationship
 

Interesting question
My answer A man that is in a strong secure relationship as if its not the marriage wont last. My wife always had sex with various white guys and her best friend got her introduced to interracial sex. Like everything some good some bad.

I have sex with other women and we have been together for 35 years and have a strong relationship. There is making love as a couple and then there is just have meaningless sex

I think people overthink it to much

the kind of man given over to eroticism in its purest form, without malice and wanting to enjoy his wife getting all the big cock she could possibly want without guilt, or actually..regard to color.. got Big stick..udaman!