Was the fantasy of having your wife blackened better than the reality of it?
 

I'm wondering how you all compare the fantasy of having your wife / gf blacked compared to the reality of it ? Fantasy is a good thing, we all do it and we can totally control the outcome. Reality on the other hand, can and usually does get complicated. In reality, the other people involved have their own ideas of how things should go.

For me, I'd say it's a toss up. Fantasy is always fun and exciting. But, nowhere near the excitement level of watch your wife, the woman that married you, in bed, having sex with another man. Watching the two of them arousing each other to the point of orgasm, is incredible. I guess I'm lucky, because so far, we've all been able to keep our heads in the right place. But, I could easily see how it could all get messed up.

What do you all think?

John

reality
 

For me/us when reality happened, it was everything we expected and more. My young wife and I talked about her/our experiences, her getting her first black cock and me watching her get it, and as we discussed it we both got turned on about it and I had my cock in her a second time that night. It really was everything we wanted it to be and when I thought about it some time later I was really glad that he had a bigger cock and that he fucked her real well two times that night, I think that it gave my wife a lot of confidence that she could enjoy another man and that they would enjoy her. GTR

The fantasy was mine but hubby set it up. The sex was the most erotic and exciting I had ever experienced and I was hooked. That was over 25 years and hundreds of black men ago.... Becky:p

Reality was better!
 

It was my wife Jeanette's idea, I was apprehensive but it was great, especially as there was more than one wife being blacked at the same time - so quite a lot to look at! Definitely reality was better than fantasy and this is still the case.

Key we've found is to keep it fresh - so Jeanette produced a cock cage two blackings ago, which was deeply embarrassing- in the presence of her latest bull who found it hugely amusing! That said it was also a huge turn on being the guy with the white dick in the corner while Jeanette was blacked! Part of the turn on was the physical uncomfortableness as my cock strained against the metal unable to straighten out as she enjoyed her latest fuck. We've also combined it with other stuff, such as spanking ( me obviously).

If you're thinking of trying it we say go for it!

it was worth it much better theni could ever imagain

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yes
 

it didn't happen for many years finaly at 62 it happened . a black guy approached her at the gym and started to flirt with her, then chat with her on messagenger. anyway it was the most awesome thing I ever watched. far better than I ever imagened

For my wife and I the reality was much better than we imagined. Fantasies are great but actually watching my wife on her knees in front of a black man, enjoying sucking his black cock and balls, seeing him fuck my wife until he was ready to cum, then put my wife on her knees, tell her to open her mouth wide and then shoot his cum in my wife's mouth, which my wife happily swallowed, was very exciting and wonderful. I also thanked the black man for fucking my wife and letting her suck his cock.

I think sometimes people have bad experiences because their standards were a bit low and they could have tried harder.

You don't HAVE to have sex with black men you don't find attractive just because they are black you know.

You'd be amazed how easy it is to find athletic, attractive black men to cram their cocks inside you/your wife if you just ask them to do it.

As a matter of fact, the second you let young black men know they're allowed to fuck your wife, she will probably be on her back spread eagle being pounded for all she's worth before you get to even finish the sentence:

"Hey guys, my wife was considering the idea of fucking black men and... OH SHIT! Hey uh, you okay honey.. um, I'll go get the camera I guess. be right back, have fun guys..."

we agree with this

mandingoman1972, The first black man that fucked my wife was the perfect type of black man to use my wife as his slut and fuck toy. He controlled and dominated my wife, using her anyway he wanted to in front of me, but he did it in a pleasant pleasurable way. I was very excited when my wife told me she wants him to fuck her again the next time we go to Las Vegas. She told me again a couple of weeks ago, so I know she still wants him to fuck her again. He was a considerate black man also. After he shot his cum in my wife's mouth, I asked my wife if she had already swallowed his cum. My wife told me yes she did finish swallowing his cum. I told my wife that it was a shame that I could not get a picture of his cum in my wife's mouth. He must have seen the disappointment on my face. So without asking my wife, he pulled my wife's head back between his black legs and told my wife to open her mouth wide, which my wife did obediently, no questions asked. Then he told me to get my camera ready so that I could take a picture of his remaining cum as he squeezed it out of his black cock into my wife's wide open mouth. I was very excited and got my camera ready. He then squeezed his cum out of his black cock into my white wife's wide open mouth and I got the picture I wanted. I love that picture and still get excited every time I look at it. Then I thanked the black man for fucking my wife and letting her suck his black cock and for helping me to get a picture of him cumming in my
wife's mouth, and for giving my wife and I so much pleasure. He seemed shocked, got a big smile on his
face and said that it was his pleasure. I guess he had not have a white man thank him for fucking his wife
before.

That's the whole point of having an african lover: he puts his jizz everywhere the married couple wants it.

It's very empowering for the wife, and the husband gets to see the woman he loves enjoy being a slut. It's better than any porn to see the wife doing wild things like that,

Hell I even catch myself watching a lot of the time, waiting my turn or next turn for a gangbang.

These women are wild, and never boring! They're so rare too, less than one in a hundred married women does this sort of thing regularly.

mandingoman, I was very pleasantly surprised to see that the black men that fuck my wife's face and cunt do figure out where I would enjoy seeing them cum in or on my wife. I agree it is very empowering for the wife, and the lucky Cuckold white husbands like me get to see the woman we love enjoy being a slut. It's better than any porn to see my wife doing wild things like that. I know my slut wife is wild, exciting and never boring. I am sure many more married white wives would loved to be fucked by black men but can't because they are afraid their husbands would not enjoy them being sluts for black cocks. Too bad.

Reality much better than Fantasy
 

Like others here, it took a few years of coaxing my wife to try this since she was never into Black guys growing up. But my wife was willing to try this once she met the right guys. Infact her first time with a BBC was all on her own, while out of town for her work. I'll never forget the rush I felt when she called me the next day and said, "Well, I did it!" I asked her, "So, how was it, would you do it again?!"
She was like, "It was good, he was really nice, infact we're going out again tonight!" So, she really enjoyed and was willing to try more when she came back home.

So the first time I got to see her was at a party involving people in this lifestyle, when I told her about the party she was all for it, infact our Frat Boy pics are actually from that night, and my first time seeing her being taken and enjoyed by another man, a Black man at that. It was a real rush, just as the rest of the times I have seen her enjoy and be enjoyed by Black men.

I guess to answer the question, the reality of seeing her has far outweighed the fantasy side of it.

contrastcpl, I am happy that you also had the great pleasure of watching your lucky white wife sucking a black cock and enjoying many intense orgasms on his black cock as he fucked and then shot his cum deep into your white wife's pussy. You are a lucky man.

Our first time with another guy wasn't planned. I had fantasies but they were more about swinging and swapping. We had 1 MFF before and had done a soft swap on xtc with our neighbours which got me interested in the 'lifestyle'.

So when it happened (after a drunk night with my best friend) I was mostly aroused by what was happening. During the sex there were so moments where I felt some kind of jealousy or an insecure feeling or two, but it was always mixed with extreme excitement, which made it kinda hot!

At the end I loved it and even though we never had any foursomes or other lifestyle experiences this experience surely beat any fantasy I had! I even enjoyed the MMF's that followed much better than that MFF!

Beyond better!
 

I know this is an older post but I just have to comment. Our first time we expected to be wonderful but that word doesn’t even begin to describe how good it was. One black cock and I was cut off and my wife was a black cock slut immediately. I saw the looks on her face when I wasn’t watching his beautiful big black cock, as he stretched her and filled her and then stayed hard inside of her. things I could never do!
He used all three of her holes and didn’t even ask her about anal. Loosen her ass with a couple of fingers and had me lube her hole and his cock and then guide him up her ass.
That was the first time I had touched a cock since I was a kid and the first time I had ever touched a black cock. It was like an electrical shock when I saw it in my hand and I realized how wonderful it felt. It didn’t feel like my tiny little dick. It was big and thick and hard and he have no problem showing it right up her tight ass hole. She started out by saying she didn’t think it would fit but within a couple of minutes his balls were slapping against her hairless cunt as he was taking ownership of her married white asshole, as well as taking ownership of me.
She has multiple orgasms from having his cock in every hole but while he was up her ass it was just one orgasm after another until she was just a quivering mass. The unexpected part of this was the fact that all I could think about was how much I wanted to suck his black cock after he pulled out of her cum filled asshole.
Unfortunately I didn’t get to do that, but a week later I suck him clean after he did the same thing to my ass hole and turned it into a pussy.
The whole thing only made our relationship even better. Our love grew deeper for each other and we both loved to share the other one with a big black cock and see each other getting used.
We learned that first night that’s exactly what we were made for, serving a wonderful delicious powerful BBC and I wouldn’t change a thing