Is it a good idea to ask our best friend to fuck my wife
 

We have been discussing the cuckold lifestyle for a while and I'm still not sure how to start. Neither of us is comfortable in contacting a total stranger but I was concidering asking a good friend that we have both known since high school if he would be interested in helping out. I would start by asking him if he would want to help me fuck my wife in sort of a threesome. We would each take turns (tag team) of about 5 minuets each and repeat until everyone has cum. In later meetings I would provide some private time for the two of them. My main issue is:

Should I approach our friend first, to see if he is interested and if so, then present the idea to my wife. This wasy if he is not, it's just locker room talk between friends rather than have my wife regected by our friend.

Or: Should I discuss this with my wife and then take a chance that our friend will be interested.

Should I approach our friend alone or should both my wife and I ask him together.

Or: Should I spproach my wife alone or should both ore friend and I ask her together.

I don't woant to fuck up our friendship or piss off my wife by involving a friend but I think that this arrangement has some merit and could work out for all of us.

Any comments, suggestions are welcome.

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Get the wife's permission FIRST.......
UNLESS your friend seduces her. But if your wife doesn't, she probably will be upset with you and your friend..
So... talk more with your wife. Perhaps watch porn together if she will.

You could also take her to nightclubs, nice bars, and see if she likes it or likes the attention some men may give her. Another time gave her go ahead of you so you can observe her with interested men...

Please let me know how it is working for you.

Yep, ask your wife first. Ask her is she'd prefer a stranger or someone she already knows (and possibly feel comfy with).

Over the years my husband has invited a good many of his black co-workers to our house to fuck me. I enjoyed every one of them....Becky :p

A Friend, or an Acquaintance?
 

A friend, probably not.

Acquaintance, perhaps, depending on a lot.

I have fucked two of my husbands friends in the past with both having similar but also mixed results. The first was in college. His really good friend moved in with us for a short time. I really never got along with the guy but since he was one of my hubbys best friends and needed some help I agreed for him to be a part time roommate. It was a two bedroom apartment but with only one bathroom. One afternoon I was home alone and just got done working out so went to take a shower. While I was showering, the friend got home early from class. Not knowing he was home I walked out of the bathroom completely naked with my towel wrapping up my hair. He was just coming out of his bedroom and was shirtless and we literally ran into each other. He grabbed me to keep me from falling. We didn’t say a word but just started to go at it. Next thing I know his pants are off and I am on my knees sucking his rather thick cock. He ended up fucking me for the next hour. It was rough, raw, hardcore fucking it was almost like he was hate fucking me and came inside of me twice. The sex was amazing. Afterward it was a bit awkward with us, especially after I told hubby what happened. Not sure if he ever talked to his friend about it but things didn’t get normal until long after he moved out.

The second friend was a drunk episode with a friend and a hot tub. After a late night of drinking with a bunch of friends we end up at this one guys house. He has a hot tub and I want to soak. I don’t have my bikini with me so decided to get I. In just my thing and bra. Hubby is in his boxer briefs and the friend was in swimming trunks. Somehow the guys convinced me to take my bra off and one thing leads to another and I am eventually bent over the edge of the hot tub getting fucked by the friend. After he finished in side of me we all went inside and crashed together on the friends bed, me between the two of them. In the middle of the night I feel the friend playing with my pussy and I turn my back to him and stick my ass out toward him. He fucked me next to my sleeping hubby. He fucked me again in the morning after we all woke up. Again the sex was amazing. However, this time there was no awkwardness and I ended up sleeping with this friend on a regular basis.

So, besides both situations being extremely exciting and sexually fulfilling, the after affects were very mixed. I guess just be easy for just about anything after it happens.

Me and my wife had a few threesomes and they were all with good friends as she has no interest at all to meet with strangers :(

She fucked 3 different friends. With two of them things went fine. We even had repeat threesomes and had a lot of fun. With the last one though things got awkward. He started to avoid us for a while. My wife tried to talk to him a few times but he always responded that everything was oke etc, but he still avoided us as much as possible. This changed after he got a steady girlfriend, now things are a bit normal again, except that he still never meets us alone.

I guess he felt uneasy around us after what happened.

So things can work out for you and they can go bad. That's always a risk when meeting up with friends I guess.
In your case I would start by checking with your wife if she's interested in any of your friends to begin with. And when (if!) she has one or more candidates you can start trying out those friends by sending them sexy pics of your wife. When they react with a 'WTF' you can pretend to have sent them by accident. Then you can proceed by asking him if he liked what he saw...etc etc....

This way you can check out if he shows any interest or none at al (believe me, it happened with another friend of us!)

Actually Happened to Me
 

A friend and his wife asked me to fuck her. He had had a lover at a previous college he taught at, and she wanted to even things up. Well I decided to take it upstairs so it could be a three way (not my fave, but I had an instinct about this.) She and I had a very good sexual lock, and she kept coming with me. Loudly. He got us to stop at one point. (Yes, he and I had been trading off.) After a while, I said I wanted to finish. He said, "okay," and watched from a chair. Jacking off.


Three more orgasms for her, two of them sitting on me, the last a simultaneous in missionary when I came.


The next day, he was royally pissed at me, and stayed this way for five years.


My instinct to do it in front of him was so he just didn't hear her downstairs, and imagine...


I think she was very angry with him, and I shouldn't have triangulated, but... it was one of the best fucks of my life. She looks a lot like Winona Ryder.

When I was in my 20s, a friend used to share his wife freely with me and some other friends, Everything was going fine until one of the other guys decided he wanted to be more than an FWB and tried to steal the wife away. After that, my friend cut us all off from fucking her. He kept sharing her but only with strangers and other people they met just for that purpose.

Poor Misinformed Dude
 

Sorry it worked out that way. Guess your friend stepped over the line and ruined the scene.
As a consolation, it's not uncommon for guys to fuck up a good thing in that manner. Some get attached, others think they have more say, or influence, in the couple's relationship.
Who knows? You may have gained useful knowledge for the future.

My husband thought it was. He brought up the subject many times before a weekend BBQ and lots of drinking. Inhibitions down found me in a threesome. Once it happened the first time it opened the door for more. All was well until I turned up pregnant with no possibility of it being my husbands do to him having a vasectomy 20 years earlier. Choose wisely

I talk to wife in the doing friend but he said he didn’t want to fuck up the friendship then send her flowers on Monday and said he wanted to do or didn’t want me to know about it and she asked me what to do and I said sure I want you to do them and she also said size makes a difference to her that I told her he was bigger and she got home she said she was wrong bigger is better and think is best she said she’s never been fucked and filled up like that in her life and how great it was we were married 11 years at a time and she fucked him for seven every other day and she started making me wear a condom and he won’t be here in there that he told her it was better for her is coming to be in her and she agreed

My wife fucked a white friend of mine after we got drunk at a party at our house. He had a big fat 8 inch dick, mine is about 6.5. She made him wear a condom to start, but when I stepped out of room he asked her i he could take it off. When I came back in she asked me and I said sure. He fucked her and squirted huge load on her belly. He came over and we did a 3some a few more times, then he secretly told her he wanted to fuck her alone. She asked me later and I said yes. He came over a few times while I was at work and fucked her thinking I did not know. We had a voice recorded set up so I could relive it later. The hottest thing was when she sucked him off in front of our TV while he watched interracial porn, She said he came on her tits but later she admitted she swallowed it all. He eventually got bored and quit calling her.

First off, can you trust your friend to keep his mouth shut? If so, good, if not, don't. The last thing you want is to have him start talking indiscreetly and bring unwanted attention to the two of you. Threesomes are hot as hell, and if you she is interested in doing one, that's a good place to start. My wife was into FSRP, a real submissive, and while tied I would make her tell me all her desires and fantasies. When I discovered her fantasy of being used as a captive fucktoy by a couple men, it started me thinking about WHO I could involve in it. It had to be someone we BOTH liked, and who she felt was physically attractive. I settled on a former professor of mine who I had became good friends with. I felt he wasn't going to try and fuck things up between my wife and I by becoming possessive of her, and he had made his interest in her known many times by his complimentary comments and just plain leering at her. So, one day at the bar I told him I trusted him and knew he wasn't going to judge or shoot his mouth off, that she was hot as hell, one of her fantasies was about threesomes, and asked him if he wanted to fuck my wife.

He was surprised, but said yes. His only concern was that she was willing (some guys try to pull this off when the woman isn't really into it) and I assured him she was. I can tell you when it happened, it was hot! I shared her a number of times with him, and he never spoke of it with anyone else.

I guess what I'm saying in this roundabout way is that if your woman is willing, your friend is discreet and can be trusted, and there is a mutual physical attraction and some measure of friendship and respect, then it can work.

HTH!

Don't start with a friend
 

You like your friend. You love your wife. If you want to keep both in your life for many years to come, don't let the two intermingle. Find a stranger instead. Use SLS or go to a club (adult) and break into sharing that way. Once you make your friend HER lover, you are going to screw up both relationships.

Dawn
 

I have to admit I have been fucked by some of my husbands friends which he has been aware of , but also off the record some hes not known about. So I'm happy about doing it, and most have been better than my husband .

Only if you want to lose her.