What should I do?
 

I want to see my wife with another man but I'm not sure how to bring this up to her. I want to make sure she is interested first. We were talking the other day about porn and she said that she can't watch it. I asked why and she said it made her think about sex too much. I asked what kind of porn and she said interracial and some other kinds. So I know it turns her on so much that it scares her. I just don't know if she would be interested in inviting another man in bed. I don't want to breach the subject directly right away but I do want to plant the seed and see how she reacts. Figure out some way to cleverly get her thinking about it. Any ideas? By the way. We are in Orlando. She is a bigger girl but is still very attractive and carries her weight well. She is very classy and is 40 years old.

Thank you for the warning. I understand that things could possibly go wrong but I do trust my wife and I think this would just spice up our relationship.

Just ask her
 

Tell her it turns you on. I knew my wife had fucked black men before we got married so it was easier for me. We talk about it she knows it turns me on but can't get her to do it in front of me. Says she isn't like that anymore and just likes to fantasize about it.
Oh how they change after we marry them. Damn it!

Lol yeah that sure can change. My wife is different in that though. She has never been with a black man before. When I've asked her about it she acts like she was never interested in it but when she watches the porn she gets so turned on it bothers her. I have to get her to understand that it's ok and it turns me on too.

My Shitty Advice
 

1. Ask to find out.

2. Realize porn and fantasy are not deciding factors in life decisions.

3. Ask her in an adult conversation.

4. Realize you may get an answer you don't want.

5. Fantasy and porn aren't true.

6. Talk about it (seeing a pattern here?).

7. Think it over.

8. Think about it again.

9. Talk in a honest conversation about it.

10. Have a nice holiday season!