Interracial cuckold question
 

hello I'm new here
it's been for years I watch interracial cuckold videos and never wanted to speak about my fantasy to anyone due to people judging and calling me things. so I became a member to be able to talk about it sometimes and let it out but the main reasons I like it is because i love seeing my wife or girlfriend enjoying and i like the contrast between the two of them but I don't like to be dominated or having my girl belonging to the bulls not letting me fuck her and fall in love with how good they fuck or how bigger they are like I'm nothing. is this my view even called cuckold. is it weird that I like to watch my girl with BBC but mostly darker skins because the contrast is amazing and I think she would probably love it too and I wouldn't want her to do this every day or week just once in a while for fun and more joy and excitement . I'm not gay or unable to perform or small I'm 5.5 inch almost 14 cm i don't even see black guys or females as an object . should I even speak to my gf or wife about it someday or will they freak out and leave me.. it's just i cant let go of this fantasy and people are so judgmental.

Wide range of cuckold type relationships. A lot are like yours where they guy gets turned on seeing his wife/gf with someone with darker skin. Especially if your wife/gf has very white skin thats definitely a turn on. . Myself i like very light skinned white women . I do like the contrast when im with one.

now as for having a women who wont think you're weird for wanting to see her with another man you will have to look for them in advance you don't want to get involved with someone and spring that on them . so look here and other sites and you will find one soon enough.

thank you for your reply but even looking on websites isn't that easy. most websites just want money to be able to use chat or forums or post or even want verification with pictures or signature. virtual world can't be too safe. you know what I mean
even for a website like this not many people reply or can't see much online but like you said it will take time

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My thoughts are almost the same as yours and refreshing to hear from a real person on here. As far as speaking with your wife. I cant advice you on that, I know my wife is more open minded than most and she knows of my desires and like you and I she is attracted to dark skinned black men, We didn't meet until mid life and she admits to have been with black men and knows it turns me on. So far I have never been able to see her with another man, been close but no cigar.

Wide range in the term cuckold. Yes, there is the simpering sissy that is exploited and that sells on porn. The cuck is humiliated.

However, there is also another facet where the "cuck" enjoys his wife getting off to another man just relishing in her joy, the term is compersion. This doesn't sell porn and that's why you don't see it.

A hotwife can totally love and enjoy sex with her cuck. She knows that he could dump her and move on. She gets to enjoy sex with other men and her partner is content to have sex only with her. He supports her needs. She has no need to humiliate her partner and won't tolerate another trying to belittle him.

From a bull's perspective, he gets to have sex with a woman, no strings attached, going to follow the couple's rules.

Check out the Keys and Anklets podcast.

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guess it's gonna take a while to finally convince her to do it good luck to both of you
i actually don't have a wife or GF my life has been full of problems and still is i have barely been trough a few relationships and I'm not ready for another relationship yet. i need someone I can trust with my thoughts and desires without being judged and afraid and someone who can trust me
it's not easy to find that but I'll be trying to find that

I think there are a lot of people on here like you. My BF doesn't like the "cuckold" part and neither do I. I couldn't imagine making fun of him or treating him bad. That's honestly why I'm ok with this is because it's more of a living out crazy fantasies then dominating someone. Also I feel that the cuckold part can become more overtaking of a relationship. How do you just turn that off and on and go from a dominating relationship to a normal one? Kinda feel like it's an all or nothing lifestyle. Just be open and honest with her about what you want, but also be understanding if it's not for her. It's can be an exhilarating lifestyle if open and honest with each other or it can be the end of a relationship. Just let it unfold naturally and don't try and force it to happen.

well I don't have any GF /wife
I came here wanted to know what others think and what to do for the future. most people are judgmental and it's hard to find an open minded partner takes time I suppose but thank you for sharing your thoughts it's good to finally let those thoughts out where people are open minded :)

There are others cause I’m a lot the same! My wife I mentioned it to her about 6 years ago or a little more and she would ask questions and we would slowly talk about it while making love… then 3 years ago she was on a business trip and called me to tell me a black guy was hitting on her and I asked if she liked it… she said yes and I asked what she wanted she said “well I won’t lie I am really horny and I wanna fuck” I said then go get it and have a good time than she deserves it. She was nervous but very excited and thankful and said she was gonna fuck him… it was so hot and he filled her married white unprotected womb twice that night and sent me pics. The sex when she got back was awesome. And the bug thing is to open up a trust and line of communication with it when you start discussing it

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There are many types of cuckolds from what I've found experienced.
I never considered myself one, as we have been swingers on and off since we have been married, but we have over the past few years become more of this type of relationship as it's easier to find a BBC to service her than to find a couple to be compatible with, physically and emotionally.
We experimented with BBC at the urging of swinger friends, who set us up with a friend and Kellie really enjoyed his thickness. I found myself in a daze watching her white skin hand wrapped around his cock and sucking his cock head and then his dark skin covering hers body as he fucked her.

I found myself becoming a voyeur and taking pics and vids of each new BBC she experienced. We never spoke of me being degraded or talked down to as they fucked, as it was never about that. This has been about her experiencing different sizes, deep pleasure and different ways of being fucked. I guess as I am a cuckold, but I am never disrespected.