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[contrastcpl]

My wife asked in the beginning, “What if I get hooked and want to leave?”, are you prepared for that?!” I honestly said, “It’s a risk that comes with the territory, we won’t know unless you try it first.”

In the years of being in this lifestyle she’s had guys who have loved her and she has felt the same, the passion, the long trips away with some of them. Our relationship is strong, and we just have a certain trust, and mutual respect and most importantly a deep love for each other that keeps our marriage strong. I’m not a cuck, I don’t care to be humiliated, guys who think I’m like that don’t last in our circle. I’m a voyeur who enjoys seeing his wife be seduced and pleasured by a black man and vice versa, it’s a rush to see my wife go after a black man and perform all types of sexual pleasures on him.
On her away trips, she’s shared everything on what went on, to wild moments in public, being fingered in restaurants, to spreading herself wide open in the back of an SUV in the parking lot of a club. A few years black she took a trip to Cali and found herself with her friend and his cousin, her first threesome with two black men, how she explained it to me over the phone, “Wow!”

So, I’m not worried about her leaving, she’s got it very good on all fronts.

[Jonswift12345]

As others have said it entirely depends on the couple and the strength of the relationship. We are ultimately talking about the difference between sex and love. As a cuckold all you are doing is accepting that you can’t satisfy her sexually and bringing in someone who can - putting her physical needs above your own. The effect on our relationship was dramatic, most of the arguments melted away and we became a lot closer. Better taking a risk than having everyone being unhappy and eventually divorced.

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by Jonswift12345

As others have said it entirely depends on the couple and the strength of the relationship. We are ultimately talking about the difference between sex and love. As a cuckold all you are doing is accepting that you can’t satisfy her sexually and bringing in someone who can - putting her physical needs above your own. The effect on our relationship was dramatic, most of the arguments melted away and we became a lot closer. Better taking a risk than having everyone being unhappy and eventually divorced.

Great perspective of putting her physical needs above your own. I feel the same. Seeing my wife take her bulls cock in her hands and examine every inch up close then begin licking and pumping it see how big he gets is so erotic. Watching her dip her tongue in the hole and suck out his precum telling him it tastes so good brings the entire scene to a new level. The moment he enters her and begins the stretching to his final thrust and explosion of his cum deep in her, her focus is totally on her own needs. She thanks her bull after but keeps her legs closed to keep the warm cum in her soothing her used pussy. She is so relaxed and feels no stress in our daily lives for days afterwards which does bring us closer and talk more freely about what she liked most about her bulll and when her next visit is.
Love this lifestyle.

[Sorayugiman]

I dont think I would ever leave my husband. I love him so much and even if I get addicted to BBC I will love and take care of him. He also wants what will make me happy. But I definitely want him to see my face when I cum on a black cock for the first time

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by contrastcpl

My wife asked in the beginning, “What if I get hooked and want to leave?”, are you prepared for that?!” I honestly said, “It’s a risk that comes with the territory, we won’t know unless you try it first.”

In the years of being in this lifestyle she’s had guys who have loved her and she has felt the same, the passion, the long trips away with some of them. Our relationship is strong, and we just have a certain trust, and mutual respect and most importantly a deep love for each other that keeps our marriage strong. I’m not a cuck, I don’t care to be humiliated, guys who think I’m like that don’t last in our circle. I’m a voyeur who enjoys seeing his wife be seduced and pleasured by a black man and vice versa, it’s a rush to see my wife go after a black man and perform all types of sexual pleasures on him.
On her away trips, she’s shared everything on what went on, to wild moments in public, being fingered in restaurants, to spreading herself wide open in the back of an SUV in the parking lot of a club. A few years black she took a trip to Cali and found herself with her friend and his cousin, her first threesome with two black men, how she explained it to me over the phone, “Wow!”

So, I’m not worried about her leaving, she’s got it very good on all fronts.

You and I have the same voyeur personality and love seeing our wives pleasured by these big black cocks that brought my wive’s orgasms to a new level. Kellie hasn’t had two at a time yet, has always preferred the one at a time to really connect with her bull which she says makes it more intimate creating a deeper bond and pleasure. Kellie travels quite a bit for work but has never hooked up with a BBC while traveling although I have encouraged her to and have even set up a meeting for her while she was in one city. She had to cancel because of the work and came home early.
I guess it’s a form of being a cuck, which some of her bulls have called me, but I too don’t do the humiliation or clean up his load or touch him. One very alpha bull brought her to me in the hotel room and bent her over and said “Grab my cock and guide it into your wife’s pussy and grab my balls as I cum in her”. “No I don’t do that. Put it in her and give her your big load.” I said.
He was a bit surprised but I said “This is all for her pleasure and I just watch”.
It’s a unique lifestyle but it works for us.

[aguy19047]

My first wife never had any thoughts of leaving me for three reasons. First, she enjoyed the life we had together and had no reason to give that up when she could get all the black cock she wanted with no strings. Second, the guys she was fucking were only interested in white pussy and did not want anything ongoing, Three, she enjoyed fucking different black men and did not want to tie herself to one.

[jimbrowski]

Women tend to think irrational so whenever things got to that juncture I would take a break and allow them to have a cooling off period and for the most part it would work. There were like four instances where the wife did leave the husband but there were other issues affecting the relationships.
I've never met a married woman that I wanted to be in a relationship with. I mean, It would defy the basic order of logic. Then there's the loyalty aspect.
We're not having sex with married women, whether they're cheating or the husbands is aware, because we can't or aren't having sex with other married or single women (at least I'm not); this is mutual recreational sex and we are fulfilling the wifes voids not ours and we play along to whatever the void is. I'm flattered when they tell me that they love me and how they would rather be with me or they want me to impregnate them, or how they want to spend more time, etc., and while I do play along I understand that it's based off of the heat in the moment and irrationality. Most of the women will be older; not in the best shape; not even in the best mental position anyway; so the lover won't be interested in a monogamous relationship with a married woman.