How Do I Get Started?
 

I'm a 28 year old black male who is trying to get into this scene and I've hit a brick wall. As far as the internet it seems like cuckholding is pretty common, but in real life its a different story...or is it?

How do I find real people in my area who are into this? Craiglist is a complete waste of time and I don't know of any other resources.

I'm young, good looking, and professional but how do I get my foot in the door?

My simple advice:
Location, Location, Location.

Get to the Clubs in your area (big cities are where the action is at) Look for the Cougars, once you know what to look for, you'll find them everywhere.

Swingers clubs are another good place, but those usually require an invite...so you are back to the Social Clubs and hotel bar/dance areas.

Ask your female friends/co-workers if they know of any woman who'd like to party with you.

Remember always: She sets the tempo and the pace of the relationship at the beginning.

There is an 'initiation' to all of this. Know the rules and how to play the game; if you're good at it, you'll be in.