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Hi, I posted on this website once before asking for advice about cucking my wife. We are young, good looking couple (I'm 24, she's 21). She is very hott, beautiful a girl that could actually be a mode, 5'8" perfect body, 116 lbs, full 34 B cup. So beautiful that I felt very nervous when we first started dated a few years ago. Anyways to give a breif summary it has been my fantasy to have a hott dominant guy w/ a huge cock to fuck the sh*t out of her and make her cum on his cock in front of me. Why? I really don't know. I went through guilt & back, through so many stages (and still am) as to thinking I'm just messed up in the head. I think it's because she's so hott and beautiful that to imagine someone else doing her and violating our commitment & her loyalty is what psychologically turns me on. What makes the situation difficult is we both are deticated to church and go almost every sunday. She feels guilty and gets mad when I talk dirty talk about doing this but its because we both change our minds and feel guilty after talking about it. But she did cum when we were having sex thinking about me and another guy gangbanging her.

So recently I contacted her old bf who would love to f*ck her and I know he would. I got in a fight with him before because we use to be friends but I started dating her and I kicked his ass so bad he went to the hospital. Anyways it's been 2 years since then and I talked to him on aim and he said i was messed up for asking him to do her, but I said it in a jokng way to him. This made me feel like sh*t and like Im a disgusting human being. I really think now I need help to get these thoughts out of my head. Everytime I get off I'm thinking about her getting screwed by other guys while shes wasted. I dont know what to do because we are a very clean cut family and thats what we want. Any opinions please??

To be more specific. Should I follow through with my fantasy, ignore my guilt, possible regret of having another man penetrate my wife & feelings like we are going to go to hell and get my wife to feel the same? OR should I try my hardest to get this out of my head and be the best christian I can be? This is almost a daily conflict for me.

been my fantasy for years she gets very wet and cums quickly when I tell her she is going to have her first bbc then when I try to arrange it she backs down saying if it happens one day it happens I'm still hoping and praying for that day to come. Would love to know how you get on I am considering setting her up maybe take her out for a meal and a few drinks and a bbc would just happen to be there, maybe you could try the same. Good luck

keep trying?
 

I'm in a similar situation, sort of. I'm 32 and she's 30, we've been officially married since '06 and we've been together exclusively since '98, so a long time (effectively married 12 years) . I've fantasized about her cuckolding me with black men for almost that whole time but never said anything about it until about two years ago. Finally, I started introducing the concept through random conversation, through sex fantasies and porn, and finally just spat it out and told her. She was shocked, perhaps didn't believe me immediately. She rejected the idea outright. I still try, most recent this last weekend 1-15-11 but she shuts me down as soon as it becomes a subject. What's weird is the sex is still good after such a conversation, maybe better than before, but I can't tell if my persistence has had any effect whatsoever either good or bad. I wish I could give you better advice and info, but my attempt has failed and resulted in a shutdown of the entire subject with her. I'd say keep trying but I myself wonder whether it's possible to convince a wife of many years who knows you are honest in your desire to do such a thing.
We aren't religious we are 'devout' agnostics, so there are no religious barriers for us, I don't think religion or faith is the real holdup here.
Good luck, maybe she's different.

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You need 2 take it slow and introduce these thing at the wright time. You have to know when she is ready by observing what she likes and does not. You need to plant the seed in her mind and water it for a while. She will let you know when she is ready. Keep feeding the interracial porn, introduce her to other women that have done it and become good friends with man you would like her 2 try so she feels comfortable with him around. Know what her weaknesses r and use them. U may have to withhold sex from her and when she is vulnerable have your friend try from time to time she might just surprise u someday.

I had the same fantasies when I was your age and it took me a long time (mid 30s) before I discussed them with my wife, and to cut a long story short, she went through with it with a hung black guy whilst I got to watch. I guess the point I'm trying to make is for me the desire to see my wife fucked hard by another guy never went away, but what did go away were the feelings of guilt I once used to have when I thought about it. Whatever happens, if you do this, make sure you do it in a way that doesn't damage you as a couple - if now is not the right time, then wait until you're both ready for this. Was it a good experience for us - absolutely!