Help-Turning My Extremely Hot Wife to the Darkside
 

I know there are lots of threads about this subject already. I've read them all. None of these threads really captures all my hurdles in getting my wife into the swinging scene, preferably with a black man.

She is 25 and actually quite naive when it comes to sex. She had low libdo for a long time and we finally figured out that her birth control was destroying her sex drive. Shes been off it for months and we are having sex once or twice a day.

She is somewhat prudish and has a small fear of bodily fluids. She is getting better. Actually, once you get her turned on she is quite good in bed. You can imagine she doesn't give the best bj's and definately doesn't swallow.

I have taken some steps already. First I have been getting her to watch porn and read stories from Literotica. Just trying to increase her threshold for sexual inhibitions. Most of the porn she doesn't like to much, but she was very attentive for interracial sex scenes, to include ganbangs. She REALLY enjoyed them, and made lots of comments about the size of some of the black guys. In fact she was gravatating to these scene on her own.

I have been trying to introduce a larger dildo than myself 8 inches or so into our sex life. She is giving alot of pushback to the idea. Any ideas on getting her more interested. I definately think this would be possible.

I think sex would be great introducing a dildo. I am on the big side of average just about 6.5 inches, with above average girth at barely under 6 inches circumference. She has a spot deep inside that I can feel with the tip of my penis. If I grind that spot she will come like a maniac. I can't always reach it though, I have to get the right angle and I will just barely get it. I literally need like a quarter inch more. I really want to see what happens if I use a larger dildo than myself.

I also got her to let me take some amatuer pictures, and she was very surprised how many people liked her pictures. She has a lower self esteem than she deserves, even through my attempts to boost her confidence.

I would really like to get her addicted to interracial porn, but so far no luck. She says she doesn't watch porn in general often because she doesn't want to depend on it for arousal.

I have absolutely no idea how to bridge the gap get her into an interracial encounter. Right now she is definately to reserved to even consider it, and would probably be shocked if I suggested it.

I would particularly like to hear from some of the women in the forums, however suggestions from anyone would be great.

Here are a few pics as well. She does have a pretty face to go with the body.

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She is a very pretty girl and you are lucky to have her. She will become less inhibited over time but you can't expect it to happen overnight. Build her confidence, tell her how sexy she is and get her into situations where other people tell her she is sexy. Let her go out drinking with her friends and guys will flirt with her and hit on her and make her feel hot. Tell her your friends want to fuck her or that her guy friends all want to fuck her. I guarantee it's true.

My wife use to hang out with a guy she had been friends with since jr high. They would party and drink and talk about comics and pal around. I told her that he wanted to fuck her and she didn't believe me. We made a bet about it and she had to put herself in a position where it would be easy for him to make a move on her. He made his move and fucked her all night long. Seriously like six hours of constant sex. She lost the bet but we all won. He fucked her almost every day for about a year. I learned to LOVE sloppy seconds because it was pretty much all I got after that. Are you ready to only get sloppy seconds from your beautiful wife?

Take it easy. Slow down and gently encourage her. These things sometimes take time -

keep doing what you have been; maybe fuck her with a big black dildo and encouarge her to fantasy about a film star, pop star, co-worker fucking her - get her to name the dildo. Spent a lot of time of foreplay and oral sex for her and encourage her to fantasy about black men... Then speak to her about it and make sure you tell her that you will be faithful if she cucks you- make that point explicit! Good luck.

I look forward to hearing what others have to say on this too.