On IR Personals, and BBC elusiveness.
 

My wife gave me a coupon for ja free sex act, of any kind with no expiri. This is a big deal, I've been trying to get her to try BBC for years, even before we were married. So I start posting on CL, and get many replies. I'm pretty good at explaining that we will have to meet and greet and I try to exchange numbers, that is when the trouble beggins. No one calls to set up a meet and greet and they with great consistancy stop replying to e-mails. Is there something I'm missing, some kind of etiquette I'm breaking or am I just too sensitive. I don't want to feed pic hunters, but I also want everyone to meet before fucking. My wife loves anal nd I want to see her take a huge black cock. One guy was at least 11 inches and seemed perfect, and he liked my wifes pics. When it came time to set up a meet he dropped off the face of the earth. Is it that a lot of these guys are married and cant keep appointments, for fear of reprisals?

thats because they are scare. if it was me i would have meet yall, kick it with yall and if everything goes well i would b fucking her in every single way there is

CL is full of fakes and guys getting off on you pics that your sending them. I dont exchange pics till we talk on the phone and I dont text with them. If they are real it shouldent take more then 3 emails to set something up. Good Luck.

sometimes the husband wants you to jump though too many hoops.

The fantasy online IR slutwife scene is very diff from the real life one.In REAL LIFE most men..even your elusive black men are very freaked out by such offerings.Id say 80 percent of the men we talk to chicken out and cant believe that this kind of thing is actually real and not just in the internet porn world.This doesnt mean there not interested,it just means they more than likely lack the balls to go through with it.
Time and time agin well meet so called macho guys that talk all the smack in the world until we chat face to face or in person...then they become shy and insecure.For newbies to the IR slutwife scene id say stick with black men that are used to swing scene,so they already know what to expect out of an open couple.Just create a profile for a swing club in your area asking for BBC only.You already have one here so maybe youll luck out and meet a local guy.

wish u were closer..
 

Im interested in nsa sex with mature women and would go along with a partner watching if necessary but I find that most who contact me are not serious .

Phonus Baloneysus
 

Welcome to the REAL world. The 'net, as does CL affords anonimity that promotes and exacerbates the fantasizers and wannabes with their and that is ok as long as one takes their interest and availability for what it is....BS. For a fact, horny as men portend and pretend to be, my friends who have one of the most popular and solid recurring member adult sites are constantly faced with no shows on their free sex tours of the states (they are in Aussieland). "She" is a total BBC slut whore and very attractive blonde, great figure and a pussy that NEVER quits (y'all must know who I'm talking about by now) BUT, excuses range from, "It's my mom's b-day. My kid brother got shot. I forgot my HIV, STD test. I don't have a car. My company is sending me to Dubai." etc. ad nauseum When you get down to it, these guys are better off fantasizing and just taking their fantasies out on their spouses, partners or g.f.s for the rest of their days. Oh well, I'm sure some of us still get off reading about others' desires that'll never happen in their lifetimes, but in effect waste others' time and resources who try to give them benefit of the doubt initially. Politicians lie why can't us preverts?

Just an update. We had a really good experience finally. We met a guy through Craigslist that my wife liked. We have had sex meet ups several times, but now that gentleman is deployed. We are looking again and it still seems like only one in ten replies is genuine. I would concur that you should make phone contact as soon as possible. We have been stood up once, and I blame myself for not demanding a phone call. What is interesting is that there are some guys who won't call because they think somehow that will open them up to a scam. I think he's paranoid, it not like I wanted him to call Nigeria. Another guy called from a blocked number and actually spoke with me and my wife, but a few e-mails later he disappeared. Just wanted to get back to all the people who have commiserated with me. We're still looking for more, it was very fun and my wife has never been fucked like that in her life. There is something very hot about fucking your wife and knowing her cunt is bruised and swollen from a black bull pounding she got over a week ago.

post some url to free sites that are worth it please
 

would some body on here post some urls to real site where real people meet and have sex
free sites yes there are alot of fakes its a pity

Yes, It can be difficult on both sides, I know there have been times I've contacted and spoken with couples only to find out it is some flaky guy who just wants to steal pics. Now I have had some success but like you said, you have to make sure you make phone contact and it is smart to agree to meet in public first. I once got stood up outside Pittsburgh and I had provided the room. Live and learn I guess. I've learned not to rush.