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Originally Posted by SteelRat39

There is no such thing as romantic love. It's just a chemical reaction in the brain. No different than eating chocolate. Then again, eating chocolate can be habit forming.

Hey Steelrat... I'm sorry to see that you think there is no such thing as a romantic love between a white woman and her black lover.. After knowing personally a number of white women who have fallen in love with their black lovers, I'm surprised there haven't been any others here that don't admit it.. Although it might have been just sex at the beginning, it didn't take long for me to figure out that I started to have feelings for my black lover and the more we saw each other, the stronger these feelings developed. I was married when it all began, but not trying to make excuses, but my then husband was cheating on me long before I ever thought about dating a black guy.. but once I had my first black experience, I knew right away it was a life-changing experience for me and not long after, divorced my husband. That was more than 20 years ago and my black lover and I are still together,.. ln fact, my black lover and I are living together and have been for a number of years now. It might also interest you to know that my best girlfriend is involved in a relationship with a black guy very similar to mine and I know of a number of other girls who have followed this same path also.. So believe it or not, it's not just for the sex or "chemical reaction to the brain" as you called it.