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We do not have a live-in arrangement but I do have a long term black boyfriend who regularly visits our home and sometimes joins us on vacation. I think a live-in situation might pose a few problems socially if friends and family decide to visit at short notice, or where there is a need to be discreet regarding lifestyle choices.

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Think you're hit on something Mustang that could lead to an interesting post. Especially if a woman has two lovers, maybe one of them she's married to. How does everyone set the ground rules and what is expected from everyone.
Hopefully you'll add something about your situation as well. Looking forward this.

I think you are dead on. Why not???? It makes life simpler for everyone involved. So again, why not??????

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Actually the correct answer for my wife was that we did have a live-in lover (we said that he was her co-husband with me). Heywood lived with us for almost 3 years and we split the bills and we all slept in a king size bed with my wife in the middle. We would take vacations together, he would take her out to dinner, movie or night-clubbing and then take her to bed like any other husband at the end of the evening. Sometimes I would join in and some times I would just wait for my turn and sometimes I would just watch, and Heywood would do the same if I took her out for the evening.

Heywood was definitely in the BBC group- slightly over 11" long and as thick as her wrist, with tremendous staying power. She did become pregnant by him once, but she miscarried at about 3 months and we had the baby tested and he was the father. Everyone was disappointed but those things happen and before long she was ready to go again.

Good deal:D

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Okay okay this is the 4th miscarriage I've read that your wife has had. The rest of your reply was fitting to the thread but then you go and add in 4th miscarriage (that I know of) and had the dead fetus tested to see if the blk man was the father.. WHO the FCK DOES THAT???? Not to mention the cost of DNA X 3 .. Now this was years ago (as you remind us often) so DNA testing was so costly!! Plz don't even try and tell me that the doctors just decided to run the test at no charge to help find the reason for the miscarriage.


I was really enjoying your post up until that point sorry but I can't just say awe how sweet and skip right over that. Sigh. :rolleyes:






Now that post was posted in 2013. Wonders why poor Heywood, the live in lover/baby daddy wasn't mentioned in the post a year ago? When clearly the only BLK man that was mentioned was the boss man.

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Mustang Alley, you are quite correct. First my wife only had three miscarriages over the years and it was her boss "Pete" a white man that also lived with us for about 2 years that was the boss that she also lost a baby with. I got he and Heywood mixed up, because they both had lived with us and she had become pregnant by both of them and in both instances a test was requested because there was a question of fatherhood and in all three instances the man involved wanted to know and they each paid any costs that were incurred. And just for the record the third was my boss, he had been married twice and had three girls with those two women and was very disappointed that this one was a boy.

Sometimes I'm not as careful as I need to be when I'm remembering these events that occurred in our marriage. Her diary/journal is full of her life experiences with me and the other men that she enjoyed. I will try to be more accurate in the future when I post about our "shared" wife lifestyle. I actually appreciate the fact that you are closely checking what I post about, I only want to tell things accurately when I relate these events. GTR

yes my wife has black lover we share her ger along fine

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We swing with singles and a few cpls so if we had live in's we'd need a motel or boarding house all with revolving doors!!!! LMAO! !

I suggested this to my wife since we have a basement that needs a lot of work . unfortunately I don't think she likes that idea, but I was thinking more on the lines of a handyman type black guy that she would approve of to live rent free for a period of time while he was sprucing up the place, and since I work at night he could be there to protect her and my teenage stepdaughter...