Yes you have, yes you are and
 

And I was asking for your "personal" reasons as to why it's not a good idea.

Yes so many are stolen but that's not me. I've verified so many people here some are very VERY important people. I've never once snapped a pic or recorded anything!!! Not my style. As steel mentioned wear glasses or show from the chin down. It's not like you're required to suck a blk dildo on cam. Hell least with skype it's a normal setting. Just a hi and bye.

I'm all for web cam verification. I realize everyone enjoys the site in there own way. For some folks their involvement is purely fantasy, which is fine if your honest about who you are and what your looking for. I my self am not looking to hook up and enjoy erotic chat as a cuck wanna be. I know a lot of folks are looking to hook up and its unfortunate that they have to waste there time with those who aren't up front about who they are and there intensions. Is this "women " your chatting with really a women? Does this cuck really even have a wife? And if so does she know he's on this site? You get what I mean....bottom line, the fakes are harmless and there is room for everyone on this site, but it's nice to know who your rally relating to

Great point. Bc I know for a fact there's fakes that's gonna prey on y'all. Especially those that are looking for a mistress/cucktress or whatever it is that y'all call it. lol. Even y'all have to worry about being taken advantage of.

But you're wrong about one thing. Not all "fakes are harmless" there's a deep dark side and as OBX said "fuckery" about it.

That's why it's important to know that you're actually speaking to the person you think you are!!!'

To the guy with the long, novelesque post it's clearly simple why we demand cam verification on this site. Everything you pointed out is the EXACT reason why. Meaning that it's NOT good enough. Anyone can use the ILI chat room and other accessories the site has; however, people like you can still conceal your true identity nonetheless. 1,000 pics and 1,000 videos and all, yet it still does no good. Catfishing is very commonplace these days and it's disgusting. It ruins the opportunity for the black man to accomplish his goal. I've had it happen to me and I didn't like it. Cam verification should be mandatory. If so, this site will have taken a major step towards gaining credibility.

What about us guys who openly admit this is a turn on for us but our wives aren't interested. I'm not on here trying to fool anybody into thinking they are going to fuck my wife. Would it be nessesary for someone like me to be cam verified??

Nope
 

You right alley. Been wanting to send you a friend request but I know better than doing that without being verified!!

But I have been dieing to ask you about your avatar. Any kind of meaning to it or just something you like?

I wonder if a woman has ever faked being a man who is faking that his wife wants to fuck a black dude??? Lmao

lol
 

Fakes flakes
 

What in the world does this have to do with this threat. Sure you're on the right site???

Yes! If you are going to meet someone for real then you should talk on cam. I personally like to Skype.if you're just on the site for fun and not trying to meet anyone you shouldn't have to be verified....just my opinion

Mean Joe Mustang
 

Awe
 

I know I'm afraid of you. Of course, I'm at least a little bit afraid of most women. I fear that if I pissed you off, you might just hunt me down in real life and beat me with a stick. :):o

Oh, and, I automatically assume that no cam = FAKE, 100% of the time.

False fears
 

Well said my fellow members. Cam verification is the ONLY way to go. I'd love to talk to those guys MA recalled who where suckered by fakers on this site. I know it must hurt traveling by car/plane thousands of miles to realize it's all a lie. Thank goodness that never happened to me.

I've no problem with being verified by cam, and have. I don't go on cam in the chat because I'm not too happy with my appearance just yet and even if I did, too many would simply look at me as being another gay guy wanting to look at a black dick, though I've never tried to look at another man's cam. Anyway, it's a good idea and I appreciate the efforts that Mustang has made to make this happen.

Thoughts..
 

I don't see anywhere on a persons profile where it says "verified". I think if we go through the verification process it should be noted clearly on our profile....rather than on a forum, that seems so cheap. Perhaps you leaders of the verification process should collaborate with the ILI president to have a change in the webpage designed to accommodate this....I would support getting verified more.

Wtf
 

If someone is actually stupid enough to get manipulated or tricked that is on them....before getting too serious about meeting someone you just Skype....it is like online dating...Online dating works just fine as long as you Skype.....so I doubt your little process of verification works better than eharm and the match and POF.....you have to be smart and when the time is right about meeting..you Skype.....don't be a moron about it and get "manipulated" as some say haha.....that is too funny!

Excuse after excuse and now you want a gold star or something?
 

Which profile are you speaking of?? Every profile that I've verified unless it was from a regular chat member (and they don't fck with unverified people so it's not issue with them) but yea I leave a comment in the comment section of their profile. What do you want a gold star??


This is for cam verification not pic verified. Two different things. It's so easy to fake a pic!! So let me get this straight. You're more than willing to use the verified list to pick over but refuse to offer those members the same comfort of knowing that you/y'all are verified?

I could care less if you/y'all/he/she wants to get verified. Here there are two diff classes those that are and those that aren't. Verified members tend to associate with like.

Funny, you come here asking so many questions but when someone offers to help you then they are met with this BS.








You won't think thats so damn funny when something along those lines happens to you. Just explained the type of bs that goes on, a heads up that those members wasn't as fortunate when they first joined.
So where you should be grateful you're NOT.

Can't say I didn't try or warn you. I'm done speaking about this to you. You can go back to asking stupid questions about " being addicted to blk cum and will it hurt". :rolleyes:

yeah the cam barely has a real cpl or women 4 real intent
 

So fake
so fake
so many
to many
way to many

Yeah, what you said.
 

I think I'm with Mustang on this one. We're not just trying to avoid the aggravation at the end of the process; when you try to meet somebody, but they turn out to be fake... What about the time and effort that goes into connecting with somebody in the first place; the whole online get-to-know you process? That can take time, and if you're not sure the person you're exchanging messages with is the real deal -- well that's A LOT of time wasted.

So much righteous waffle in a forum that should be called ifetishiseniggers. (the love is ridiculous, it's lust fuckwits don't confuse the two, the 'interracial' highly misleading given it's dedicated to horse cocked blacks meets uppety white sluts, hardly a spectrum of the races is it).

What great criteria is there on this website to be the 'real dea'l? That you're a slut looking for meaningless emotionally confused sex? That you really like chicken, barbecuing and are willing to fuck any semi-attractive hole? Or that you just absolutely cannot live without fulfilling a deep self and racial loathing complex with a spoilt overly entitled wench and her walking man zombie dildo.

'Oh everybody is different here with different wants and needs, who are you to judge?'

Bullshit, it's meetup for sex addicts, fetish monkeys trading ideas on how to objectify one another.
Get off your high horses and shut the fuck up. Especially you Ms 'oh I need to write all my trite treble the size of everyone else in neon narcissistic purple'.

Ignorance is bliss...
 

keep on being blissful!

Purple purple PURPLE
 

where is my goldstar?
 

You keep mentioning a goldstar? ......When do we get ours?

Fakes and Flakes
 

Down with the Fakes and Flakes. Blast and Chase them Out of here.

Pro Cam
 

I'm with ya. I'm here to look at some of the best amateur porn on the planet and sometimes to jack off to it. Maybe make some online friends along the way.. Not looking to ever hook up with anyone.. Why should I have to get verified.

Duh, I'm Da Real Deal
 

''Sucks for them you say, that will never happen to me because I can spot a fake, or my favorite one "I know who I talk to and they are not fakes." If you believe these lies these lies well then guess what? You actually are a complete idiot that deserves what is coming to them since scammers and these fakes getting off by pretending to be couples, women, or bulls get smarter by learning from mistakes everytime they are busted so that they people like Ally can nit recognie them right away which makes it easier to get even more victims.''

I couldn't agree more, my point is just because you get on a webcam and show that you are indeed the gender and race that you say you are, yay fuckin yay :P, doesn't mean you're still not an objectifying spaz who only cares about getting their genitals off and wouldn't know an abuser if he/she came up and explicitly said it to their face because they are in want of any emotional intelligence. I suppose some people are so dumb on here that it needs to be pointed out you need to thoroughly get to know someone before you actually meet them, but hopping on a web came is hardly thorough is it now.

Noone on this website is after a serious relationship where you get treated like a fellow human, the ones they say they do have their head firmly stuck up their ass and have no sense of a what a deep and true relationship even looks like, if they did they would just do it down the normal avenue not in some very fucked up back alley fetish site on the interweb. Fetishising is the name of the game, so when Joe and Jane Bloggs start getting all high and mighty it just smacks of unpalatable arrogance, are the fakers any worse than the serious people? Only marginally, at least they know they're talking shit unlike the others who take their delusions into a real train wreck of an encounter. 'I'm da real deal, I gots my goldsticker yo' cause I got on cam and seriously spend years seeking out some proper black cock cause me and my husband just can't be intimate like a normal couple with a powerful emotional bond that works their issues out, nor we do have any higher discerning requirements of a relationship than selfish lust (lust doesn't have to be selfish though I would say it shows up here in that form, and when you make lust the basis of your relationship then you are a dumbass truly,that outlook doesn't make any of your encounters the slightest bit meaningful, so all your efforts for sincerity make you sound like an emaciated addict preaching about good vs. bad cocaine.)

As for the uncle tom comment that's just baffling, I suppose any black dude with a brain who doesn't celebrate the 'niggahdom' eticate of being a walking dick is a bit offensive to someone who equates black identity as synonymous with slam dunking their rational faculties into the trash can.

It's cam not a background search