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[SteelRat39]

I know I'm afraid of you. Of course, I'm at least a little bit afraid of most women. I fear that if I pissed you off, you might just hunt me down in real life and beat me with a stick.

Oh, and, I automatically assume that no cam = FAKE, 100% of the time.

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

*Bats eyelashes

Who, lil ole me?

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by SteelRat39

I fear that if I pissed you off, you might just hunt me down in real life and beat me with a stick.
.

There's no sticks there, Only rocks and dirt and since they won't let me fly with big whomp em stick, you're safe. Then again I could always stone you to death. KIDDING my gawd I'm kidding. Lol

Silly Steele you're already cam verified. So you're not afraid of me!!

[dashinglad2010]

Well said my fellow members. Cam verification is the ONLY way to go. I'd love to talk to those guys MA recalled who where suckered by fakers on this site. I know it must hurt traveling by car/plane thousands of miles to realize it's all a lie. Thank goodness that never happened to me.

[Mustang Alley]

Know him from chat (yes verified and very real) when it happened but he actually posted a month or so afterwards about it on the forums but I think it was deleted bc so many were bitching and calling out actual fake profiles in that thread.

Actually very thankful that this thread has been allowed to stay active.

[eddie54_nc]

I've no problem with being verified by cam, and have. I don't go on cam in the chat because I'm not too happy with my appearance just yet and even if I did, too many would simply look at me as being another gay guy wanting to look at a black dick, though I've never tried to look at another man's cam. Anyway, it's a good idea and I appreciate the efforts that Mustang has made to make this happen.

[hotwetwife]

I don't see anywhere on a persons profile where it says "verified". I think if we go through the verification process it should be noted clearly on our profile....rather than on a forum, that seems so cheap. Perhaps you leaders of the verification process should collaborate with the ILI president to have a change in the webpage designed to accommodate this....I would support getting verified more.

[hotwetwife]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

I disagree and here's why. Besides not being able to actually meet with you, fakes can harm you in other ways. Yes I said harm. Until it happens to you or someone that's close to you then you're not gonna see a problem with dealing with non verified people. I've been here almost 4 years and I've seen a lot of bs that all had to do with fakes. That's why I and others preach getting cam verified.

There's a few few people that I speak with beyond a hi and bye that haven't been verified. The only reason I speak to them is I watch how they speak/handle themselves. Then in time (usually very quick) they get verified. Never really discuss anything personal. Basically never giving anyone ammo yes I said AMMO. LOL.

FAKES love to

Run scams including blackmail, mental control and abuse, cost you $ by traveling to them (yes I know of men who have flown to meet the woman only to find out it was a fake/set up) they like to gain trust and drain you of info. STALKERS.

Least of the problems is wasting your time.

So like I've said a million times before get verified and only deal with verified members it's the safest way to play!!! That goes for everywhere on the net.

If someone is actually stupid enough to get manipulated or tricked that is on them....before getting too serious about meeting someone you just Skype....it is like online dating...Online dating works just fine as long as you Skype.....so I doubt your little process of verification works better than eharm and the match and POF.....you have to be smart and when the time is right about meeting..you Skype.....don't be a moron about it and get "manipulated" as some say haha.....that is too funny!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by hotwetwife

I don't see anywhere on a persons profile where it says "verified". I think if we go through the verification process it should be noted clearly on our profile....rather than on a forum, that seems so cheap. Perhaps you leaders of the verification process should collaborate with the ILI president to have a change in the webpage designed to accommodate this....I would support getting verified more.

Which profile are you speaking of?? Every profile that I've verified unless it was from a regular chat member (and they don't fck with unverified people so it's not issue with them) but yea I leave a comment in the comment section of their profile. What do you want a gold star??


This is for cam verification not pic verified. Two different things. It's so easy to fake a pic!! So let me get this straight. You're more than willing to use the verified list to pick over but refuse to offer those members the same comfort of knowing that you/y'all are verified?

I could care less if you/y'all/he/she wants to get verified. Here there are two diff classes those that are and those that aren't. Verified members tend to associate with like.

Funny, you come here asking so many questions but when someone offers to help you then they are met with this BS.

Originally Posted by hotwetwife

If someone is actually stupid enough to get manipulated or tricked that is on them....before getting too serious about meeting someone you just Skype....it is like online dating...Online dating works just fine as long as you Skype.....so I doubt your little process of verification works better than eharm and the match and POF.....you have to be smart and when the time is right about meeting..you Skype.....don't be a moron about it and get "manipulated" as some say haha.....that is too funny!

You won't think thats so damn funny when something along those lines happens to you. Just explained the type of bs that goes on, a heads up that those members wasn't as fortunate when they first joined.
So where you should be grateful you're NOT.

Can't say I didn't try or warn you. I'm done speaking about this to you. You can go back to asking stupid questions about " being addicted to blk cum and will it hurt".

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by eddie54_nc

I've no problem with being verified by cam, and have. I don't go on cam in the chat because I'm not too happy with my appearance just yet and even if I did, too many would simply look at me as being another gay guy wanting to look at a black dick, though I've never tried to look at another man's cam. Anyway, it's a good idea and I appreciate the efforts that Mustang has made to make this happen.

Thanks Kathy for being honest and forthcoming about yourself, a quality others could learn to use more of. Looking forward to seeing the end of your journey.

Smooches for the kind words. ��

[YingTantraYang]

So fake
so fake
so many
to many
way to many