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Black_Stud 08-17-2014 09:24 AM

Taking advantage of emotional neglected (Older) Women
 
This topic is about: Taking advantage of emotional neglected (older) women.

As part of my Research in the Female Behavior in relation to the interracial lifestyle - black men; I would like to get as much info to get a realistic view on this topic.

Questions to the men:
- Have you ever taken advantage of an emotional neglected (older) woman?
- Would you ever take advantage of an emotional neglected (older) woman if you had the chance?

Questions to the women:
- Have you ever been in a situation you have been taken advantage of because at some point in life you was emotional neglected?
- Would you actually intentionally allow men to take advantage of you when you're emotional neglected?

Question to both men and women:
- What is your honest opinion about men taking advantage of emotional neglected (older) women?

Que-Jay201 08-17-2014 11:20 AM

could you please define "TAKING ADVANTAGE OF"????

Black_Stud 08-17-2014 01:53 PM

Taking Advantage Of - definition in context
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Que-Jay201 (Post 66993)
could you please define "TAKING ADVANTAGE OF"????

"Taking Advantage Of" in this case - in context = take Sexual advantage of a woman. In a broader sense, even financial if the woman in question is rich and so on.

I am aware that this is a sensitive issue and topic to discuss and or talk about. Probably not many men and women would dare to anwser and or share their personal experience(s). Yet it's very important to know to what extent emotional neglected (older) women are exposed to this type of situations (taken advantage of by (opportunistic) men in sexual, financial way).

jimbrowski 08-18-2014 03:17 PM

This is a tough question to answer because a lot, and I do mean a lot, are emotionally neglected, and then you have a lot of those are emotionally challenged; where they're emotionally needy tonthe point of being a lunatic. Then they wont tell you that they're neglected until and if you spend a lot of time with them.
It's hard to tell in the beginning. I tell females what they want to hear, whether I think it or not; I don't do it to be malicious though; on every female you'll find something on them or about them that you'll find appealing because for the most part all females want to hear that they're beautiful, or that they have beautiful bodies, or that they're pussy is the best, or that they suck dick the best.

Mustang Alley 08-19-2014 12:12 AM

First off STUD!!! Muah!!!
 



Not throwing stones, just my personal POV.

I'm a firm believer in karma!!! Young, old, men, women it's all the same to me. I could never take advantage of anyone and honestly would give karma a helping hand if they tried that BS with me.

But with that being said, I do know that some women love to be used and taken advantage of even open theirselves up to it. Crazy. So I guess it only makes sense that others have learned how to take advantage of those type situations.

Ha but if she's emotionally unstable I advise ya to stay away and hide your bunny rabbits. Crazy women out there.



Black_Stud 08-19-2014 06:33 AM

Thank you for your personal POV Mustang Alley
 
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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 67028)



Not throwing stones, just my personal POV.

I'm a firm believer in karma!!! Young, old, men, women it's all the same to me. I could never take advantage of anyone and honestly would give karma a helping hand if they tried that BS with me.

But with that being said, I do know that some women love to be used and taken advantage of even open theirselves up to it. Crazy. So I guess it only makes sense that others have learned how to take advantage of those type situations.

Ha but if she's emotionally unstable I advise ya to stay away and hide your bunny rabbits. Crazy women out there.



It does seem there are a lot of women with emotional problems (neglected, unstable) these days. Probable cause: Breakups - divorce, one-parent moms, low self-esteem (result of emotional abuse and or due media promoting a certain look how a woman should look like, etc.).

Others can learn how to take advantage of those type of situations. Therefore it's important to know to what extent this phenomenon is taking place to prevent women being victimized.

It's good advise for men to stay away from women who are emotional unstable - crazy women as you call them.

For women who are emotional neglected and unstable who wouldn't like to get advantage of; perhaps you should try to talk about it with family, friends or doctor (psychiatrist) and build up your self-esteem.

Black_Stud 08-19-2014 07:06 AM

Thank you for your anwser @ jim
 
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Originally Posted by jimbrowski (Post 67015)
This is a tough question to answer because a lot, and I do mean a lot, are emotionally neglected, and then you have a lot of those are emotionally challenged; where they're emotionally needy tonthe point of being a lunatic. Then they wont tell you that they're neglected until and if you spend a lot of time with them.
It's hard to tell in the beginning. I tell females what they want to hear, whether I think it or not; I don't do it to be malicious though; on every female you'll find something on them or about them that you'll find appealing because for the most part all females want to hear that they're beautiful, or that they have beautiful bodies, or that they're pussy is the best, or that they suck dick the best.

Indeed it's hard to tell if a woman is emotional neglected; especially in chatrooms. Most women seem to be very spontanious in chatrooms. In real life it's maybe harder for emotional neglected women to act spontanious.

Being an active chatter on ILI-Chat; I did came across several women (not telling who out of privacy and respect) who you could consider being emotional neglected - unstable. In their case they told about their low self-esteem and their need of attention.
That need of attention can have an possitive outcome "if" they find someone who understands their situation, respect them, not take advantage and help women get self-esteem.
Unfortunately they end up being used; often in sexual ways.

Some might say; you're a hypocrite and not helping the emotional neglected women (on iloveinterracial chat).
Maybe I can't help them in a professional way but this forum topic can be used in "their" advantage and even give them the moral support knowing people do care about them.

Black_Stud 10-31-2014 09:47 AM

Large amount of emotional neglected Women active on ILI-Chat - October 31, 2014
 
LARGE AMOUNT OF EMOTIONAL NEGLECTED WOMEN ACTIVE ON ILI-CHAT

Over the past few months I have been talking to many "new" Female ILI-Chat members (FICM) and included them into the field study.

After studying the collected Research Data (RD); thus far shows atleast 75% of the FICM are emotionally neglected. The outcome will most likely be much higher. This high amount of emotional neglected women (ENW) is very alarming.

To what extent FICM are emotionally neglected is hard to say. They all often have a very good way of hiding their (real) problems. It takes time to study all the RD to come to a conclusion.

goku714 10-31-2014 02:31 PM

not my style
 
i wouldn't be comfortable taking advantage of a woman who is or isn't emotionally neglected

Black_Stud 10-31-2014 02:43 PM

Thank you for your comment. - October 31, 2014
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by goku714 (Post 68522)
i wouldn't be comfortable taking advantage of a woman who is or isn't emotionally neglected

Thank you for your comment.

On average there aren't many men who will take advantage of any woman; emotionally neglected or not.

The fact remains; there will always be opportunists who will try their best to take advantage of women; especially emotionally neglected women.

Glad you're on the good side.
Keep up the good work.

Pistolero 10-31-2014 02:53 PM

Many of the women that are seeking "extracurricular" sexual activity are emotionally compromised. They want to be wanted and desired... in some cases, loved.

Most of what goes on in extramarital activity is because of sexual and mostly emotional compromise. I suppose that whether or not someone is being taken advantage of depends on two things: The intent of the person who is the taker... is he just looking to get laid? if so, and if he is straight up about it, no harm done. The other thing is how deep does the needy person plan to go ?

Example: I have been sleeping with a woman for about 5 years, who is emotionally and sexually needy. We get together every three or four months and spend a day... I fucked the bejeezus out of her a few times, she lays in my arms and talks about her unhappiness... I tell her what a great woman she is (and she really is), and send her home happy until we meet again.

Am I taking advantage? Sure, because that big titty white woman is a rocket in bed (at age 56), and fucking her is like the fourth of July.... I can make that woman cum and squirt in minutes and she just keeps repeating. She gets what she needs, and so do I.

Black_Stud 10-31-2014 04:27 PM

Thank you for sharing your experience - October 31, 2014
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Pistolero (Post 68524)
Many of the women that are seeking "extracurricular" sexual activity are emotionally compromised. They want to be wanted and desired... in some cases, loved.

Most of what goes on in extramarital activity is because of sexual and mostly emotional compromise. I suppose that whether or not someone is being taken advantage of depends on two things: The intent of the person who is the taker... is he just looking to get laid? if so, and if he is straight up about it, no harm done. The other thing is how deep does the needy person plan to go ?

Example: I have been sleeping with a woman for about 5 years, who is emotionally and sexually needy. We get together every three or four months and spend a day... I fucked the bejeezus out of her a few times, she lays in my arms and talks about her unhappiness... I tell her what a great woman she is (and she really is), and send her home happy until we meet again.

Am I taking advantage? Sure, because that big titty white woman is a rocket in bed (at age 56), and fucking her is like the fourth of July.... I can make that woman cum and squirt in minutes and she just keeps repeating. She gets what she needs, and so do I.


Thank you for your comment and thank you for sharing your experience.

You have provided a good example of a certain type of emotionally neglected woman.

The experience you have in this case has a positive outcome (result) for both the neglected and the opportunist. It's a mutual attraction and need. Therefore "no harm" is done.

It's very courageous of you to share your experience.
Normally you can expect many negative comments regarding your story; as some Chatmembers at Forum Threads will try to degrade you and ridicule you.

Your comment / experience will be included in the Research Data.

Ronnie 22 10-31-2014 08:02 PM

Pains me to say this. When Dad died suddenly Mom was distraught. Sought consolation from/with parish priest. Developed into sexual relatkship that lasted a year or so. Mom eventually recognized his duplicitous behavior. Nevertheless maintains to this day that it was what she needed at the time and remains a churchgoer.

Black_Stud 10-31-2014 08:14 PM

Thank you for your comment.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Ronnie 22 (Post 68530)
Pains me to say this. When Dad died suddenly Mom was distraught. Sought consolation from/with parish priest. Developed into sexual relatkship that lasted a year or so. Mom eventually recognized his duplicitous behavior. Nevertheless maintains to this day that it was what she needed at the time and remains a churchgoer.

Thank you for your comment and thank you for sharing your experience.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Your comment / experience is another example of the different types of emotional neglected women who are out there and similar women who are active on ILI-Chat.

All women seem to seek (and find) comfort in a man who's there for her at times in need.
To what extent and what type of comfort they're looking for depends on the personal situation they're in.

Your comment / epxerience will be included in the Research Data.

Pistolero 10-23-2015 08:17 PM

I have a similar situation. This woman was emotionally compromised. Fucked like a tiger and was likewise 56 when we started.. I can make her come like a freight train... and she loves to suck my dick while I play with her big titties.

Even after her husband passed, she kept coming back. She has a life and friends, and every other month or so, I fuck her until she can't see straight,

dilligaf698969 10-24-2015 02:16 AM

Take advantage of emotional neglected(older) women
 
I think that it is being done but some people do not know they actually are doing it. I find that a lot of women who in someway emotionally neglected will gravitate to any man that will tell them what they want to hear, White or black. If you look at a majority of these types of women they tend to go for the same type of men. Just like a lot of women who tend to go from one abusive relationship to another. There are a lot of women out there who do not realize that they really don't need a man in their life to get thru it. The are afraid that if they go somewhere for a booty call they will be looked down upon. So instead of getting a booty call they prefer to have someone in their life who takes advantage of them.

PaulRuth 10-24-2015 06:50 AM

Priest or not still a male, makes the point that '[]a standing prick has no conscience[]' if there is a hole needing to be filled there is a willing cock to fill it neglected or vulnerable woman or not.
Paul

Mustang Alley 10-25-2015 08:03 PM

Okayyyyyyy as time goes on
 




And this thread gets bumped up again.

Knowing what I now know (the back story of ILI) I'm LMAO while I'm reading this thread. HAHAHA. oh and my post~ I would like to add that it's not only women who boil little bunnies (at the time was a joke, a knee jerk reply) I had once glanced over this thread but now after reading it in detail I find it to be very entertaining!!








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