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[Mr Real]

Originally Posted by Black_Stud

Thank you for your comment.

Indeed there are also many insecure men on ILI-Chat based on my observations and Research Data.
One of the ways to spot them is the way they talk. Many times those men would be talking bad things about other chatmembers trying to act tough but are infact hiding their insecurity.

All the information is already included in the Research Data.

Well they are all for it, they say hell to the yeah to having sex with the mans wife or don't give a damn if the woman got a partner but what if he the husband now...yep he'll say hell to the no to that, he'll try lock her in the house and keep her well away from thirsty men, insecurity has sprung up like a blooming flower... he don't trust her as far as he can throw her but will try to apply double standards so she can't do but he wanna do, thats why some of these men fear classy women, he try go for the very low self esteem ones or the ones who not got any respect for themselves and then wanna mould her into a mummy figure( who are usually raised by single mothers)

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by Mr Real

Well they are all for it, they say hell to the yeah to having sex with the mans wife or don't give a damn if the woman got a partner but what if he the husband now...yep he'll say hell to the no to that, he'll try lock her in the house and keep her well away from thirsty men, insecurity has sprung up like a blooming flower... he don't trust her as far as he can throw her but will try to apply double standards so she can't do but he wanna do, thats why some of these men fear classy women, he try go for the very low self esteem ones or the ones who not got any respect for themselves and then wanna mould her into a mummy figure( who are usually raised by single mothers)

Thank you for your comment.

Many men these days aren't the classical Alpha males from the old days; the Alpha males who stand for strength, leadership. Quite a lot of today's men seem to be feminized.
Some causes are: 1. one parenthood where the motherfigure is the only role model, 2. the media; promoting feminine behavior in men as a good thing which is actually destroying the male image and the male role model in it's entirety.

In today's society the classic male role model is replaced by the so-called feminized male role models from tv-series, movies, music-clips, commercials etc. which blurs the line between fact and fiction where the latter is prevailing.
Not saying that feminists and their supporters are to blame; but you can't deny that young men of today are more female than male in mindset and behavior which makes them emotionally highly sensitive.

There are young men out there who seem to live in a fictional (fictive) world disconnected from the real world around them. Many of them have become weak (pushovers). Weak in mindset, weak in leadership etc.

For the insecure young men who are in need of good role models;
the classic (Alpha) male role models have to come forward and take charge again.

Of course for the insecure young women the classical female role models have to come forward as well.

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by bongNJ

just stopping in to say that i approve of the BBC-dome

Thank you for your comment.

Good to see you active at the Forum.

[Black_Stud]

For the insecure women - members who would like to stay anonymous:

This Forum Thread may be intimidating; The truth is, it is meant to confront you to make you look in the mirror and look at yourself. Where do you stand in life?
Don't let anybody scare you into silence.

Feel free to leave a comment, your point of view, your experience.
You don't have to use your (full) name.
The Research Data will not be linked to any names so you can stay Anonymous.

Any kind of comment is welcome as long it stays respectful and on-topic (topic related).

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by mywayintermsofsex

Not quite.

The "alpha males" from the old days did not even have to be strong or worry about their leadership. It was broadly socially accepted for the man to be the head of the family and for the woman to obey and make their children obey his commands, no question.

A simple task for a man to "lead" when the woman depends on him (socially and financially). IMO that`s not an indication of real capability to lead.

Also opressing is not leadership; it`s just aiming for a revolution.
It is not called that just because you call it that. i have never heard the term feminized male role model before.Men who are more female than male? Really? IMO that`s odd psychology.

First you define some "male characteristics" according to the role model of your choice and preference without taking all facets of male characteristics or behavior into account. Then you say, well, everything that differs from this defined set of characteristics is not manly. Same procedure with women. Well, that`s nothing but cliche!

And "women`s liberation" has nothing to do with it at all apart from that it is much harder for a man to be strong and lead when he is already lacking in these fields.

You say, "There are young men out there who seem to live in a fictional (fictive) world disconnected from the real world (...)"

What`s real and what`s fiction is often just a point of view. Some may say it is you, Black_Stud, who lives in a fictional world - or at least in the yester-yesterdays.

i don`t have any problems with any role models as long as roles are willingly taken by aware and consenting adults. i am pretty sure there are lots of women (and men) out there who meet your requirements very well - even today. Good luck!

Thank you for your comment.

1. In today's society males are under pressure by the "political correctness".
Therefore they have to compromise in leading roles.

2. Feminized male role model:
- The classic male role model has been replaced by men who behave (act), think more like women. Although the so-called feminized males are a very small percentage of the male population; they do have a wider reach via media outlets so younger men (boys) are influenced by them on how to behave etc.

3. There is NO problem with any role model as long the roles are willingly taken by aware and consenting "Adults".
- The point is that many young men (boys) these days spend too much time watching television; tv-shows, series, movies etc. Often they aren't aware, don't understand, can't see the difference (can't distinguish) between the various role models. Their parents (if they even have a traditional parenthood (two parents) enviroment) are often not around to spend time and take care of them (children).
The so-called feminized male role models are constantly on tv (the media).

Therefore young men (boys) are influenced daily by them without being aware, not understanding and without consent.
In other words their young minds are (more or less) being programmed.

What's real and what's fiction is often just a point of view.

- What if that point of view has been heavily / strongly influenced by the media without being aware, not understanding and without consent?
There is a (big) chance; media owners are pushing that type of programming. The amount of programming via the media (tv, movies etc) is very worrying

There are many variants of the next quote; in short: - "If you tell (repeat) a lie often enough, it becomes the truth"

[Black_Stud]

"If there is any need and / or interest in further discussion on role-models; suggest to open a new thread"

"This thread is about the field study on insecure women"

Keep the comments and discussion On Topic (Topic related).

[surhutt]

I just did a field study on you man your full of it how can you say just becouse a woman open up her dark's secret she is insecure come on man most women on here are fake even in the chat room they not insecure they are men who sitting at there computer whaling off to your ever question they tell you what they know you would like to hear a field study on insecure women on this site is like having a car show underwater in the middle of the sea it make no sinces please change your field study to why brother patronize this site when they know most here are fake now that's a field study

[Black_Stud]

Originally Posted by surhutt

I just did a field study on you man your full of it how can you say just becouse a woman open up her dark's secret she is insecure come on man most women on here are fake even in the chat room they not insecure they are men who sitting at there computer whaling off to your ever question they tell you what they know you would like to hear a field study on insecure women on this site is like having a car show underwater in the middle of the sea it make no sinces please change your field study to why brother patronize this site when they know most here are fake now that's a field study

Thank you for your comment.

I do research on real - "Verified" female chatmembers (FC). I don't do research on fakes. Over time I have cam "Verified" many FC. There's even a list of verified FC: http://www.iloveinterracial.com/foru...s-couples.html

Of course the identity of the females I'm conducting research on are protected and will not be published.

[Kuno]

Possibly an interesting discussion here, but the yellow font practically caused cataracts.

[syft09]

Originally Posted by Black_Stud

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Your comment will be included in the Research Data.

honestly people have no ears to listen in the real world, u may hear about an issue but you dont know their worlds, a stranger is SOME1 and some1 to listen is greater than a room of def ears, theres a law about chatting most never learned cus they are only about ten years deep online if that, this is fake! all of it it can be a man on the other side or a lady or a bot, theres a bot you can have full conversations with... but back to the point if we get lost on the falsehood we can letgo n cast woes into it, even if its subliminal and a release ofvthe peptides that block #distrust... they come shy wade in the pool then gain confidence... if ur in any room lurking enough u will see progression, but theres the need love too much type n they become victims to themselves... and their trust in this falseness, i learned at 14 chatting is real n the way it opens expressive ways and i was an expert at 16 im 31 now the only thing that has changed speaking with teens as a teen and as a teen with adults and as an adult with adults is this ppl dont change and adults have respect for your your youtheven when you dont ... yrs i know grade a work for u... send me a few bottles of psychotropic meds and some focus meds...but not the adhd kind the real shit