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tarababy 11-15-2014 05:08 PM

What should bigger white women wear to attract black guys?!
 
I'm a bigger white women who only has limited clothing options. Can't always wear a tight shirt and see through shirts. Which I've read to be most popular. Just wanted to get a few ideas from black men or other bigger women :)

olivian 11-15-2014 06:45 PM

ha, umm, a gym membership?

tarababy 11-16-2014 12:25 AM

Thanks for telling that person off. Lol I was thinking about it but I think they just wanted to get a rise out of me. I'm new to this website and whole idea actually. Have any insights or suggestions.

funnguyy 11-16-2014 12:27 AM

QOS clothing or jewelry
 
Buy or make up some QOS type clothing. No direct words but the black guys will know while others won't and wear to clubs to the grocery store etc. Along with a QOS necklace bracelet anklet or earrings.

Mustang Alley 11-16-2014 01:12 AM

ili fashion show.
 




Okay I'm thinking this is one of those cases where a pic is worth a thousand words bc your first post conjures up images of very large LARGE woman where as your avatar gives a totally different impression. Maybe you're just too hard on yourself? Is that you in the avatar? Is it possible to see an upper body shot, blocking your face of course. Hell I wouldn't ask but your the one asking for fashion direction. Soooo kinda hard for anyone to make suggestions if they have no clue what they're working with. Just saying.



Oh and honestly I just wear what I want to wear. I let my eyes speak for me.



tarababy 11-16-2014 02:30 AM

Yes that is me in the avatar. I admit I don't look very very large in the picture, and maybe I can be a little hard on myself. But I can't just walk into a store and buy anything, usually I buy maybe 1 out of every 10 things I try on because everything else looks horrible on my figure. This picture im wearing a tight skirt that hides my belly and a loose shirt to hide the tightness of the shirt haha.

newblkman22 11-16-2014 02:35 AM

You shouldn't be hard on yourself. Beauty comes in all sizes and shapes.

tarababy 11-16-2014 02:58 AM

Aw, thanks everyone. You are all being sweet and a good help to me. But anymore suggestion on outfits I could try to see how I like them on me. Maybe suggestions of wedsites I could go to for clothing and/or QOS/bbc jewerly, clothing ect...

phaquue 11-16-2014 03:17 AM

My girl is ample .. she loves to dress for cock and can't just put on a mini and a top. But it's not that difficult either.. tank top and skirt ... anything that shows some flesh.. and fishnets. you cannot go wrong advertising your desire for cocks if you are wearing fishnets. Of course the heels as well. The hair and make up is the icing on the cake. Make the hair big and slutty and the make up bright and whorish... red cocksucking lipstick will always get the point across. And dont be afraid to show flesh..

Mustang Alley 11-16-2014 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by phaquue (Post 68844)

The hair and make up is the icing on the cake. Make the hair big and slutty and the make up bright and whorish... red cocksucking lipstick will always get the point across. And dont be afraid to show flesh..





Oh my "Whorish makeup" bloody hell. okay I've never had to do any of the above ^ and I know a good many of blk men who don't care for a lot of makeup or really any at all on their women but hey if it makes ya feel sexy then go for it... Just saying it's not always needed. ;)

Sometimes less is more.




tarababy 11-16-2014 02:22 PM

hm. not to big on a lot of makeup, but ill try the fishnets! lol maybe some lipstick :D i guess there are a lot of different options of clothing i could try out

Mr Real 11-16-2014 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by olivian (Post 68831)
ha, umm, a gym membership?

I got kicked out of site just for saying i have a preference for slim women so be careful what you say...gotta keep it within the social order realms or consequences occur

bongNJ 11-16-2014 07:55 PM

i'd have see some pics and stats to be 100% sure but this should help any girl that classifies themselves as 'big'.
as a general rule of thumb: big girls look better with their clothes on; slim girls look better with their clothes off

that being said, same rules apply with you as with anyone when it comes to fashion: cover up weaknesses, emphasize strengths. high heels to make you taller and your weight more evenly distributed, low cut tops to show off tits, and belts to give the illusion of a waistline are good places to start.

oh, and if you're not comfortable with your weight, then change it. don't listen to people telling you 'real women have curves', 'every woman is beautiful', 'you're perfect', and the like because most of the time their projecting their own insecurities or just outright lying. fact is not everyone can pull off being big, just like not everyone can pull off being slim; anyone who's seen carmella bing after she blew up or oprah in her skinny days can tell you that
at the end of the day being confident in your looks will attract way more black men than anything you're wearing

TL;DR: confidence in your looks > actually being good looking > clothes

tarababy 11-16-2014 08:38 PM

Yeah def makes sense to cover up what you are insecure about and excentuate what you think is best about yourself. I guess when it comes down to it I need to wear what makes me comfortable.

phaquue 11-17-2014 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 68852)




Oh my "Whorish makeup" bloody hell. okay I've never had to do any of the above ^ and I know a good many of blk men who don't care for a lot of makeup or really any at all on their women but hey if it makes ya feel sexy then go for it... Just saying it's not always needed. ;)

Sometimes less is more.





Thats actually the point yeah... she doesnt need to.. but thats what makes her feel most sexy. Especially when trolling for black cock.... Whorish make up, slutty skirt and heels, showing flesh and talking like a tramp... basically just 'putting it out there'.. but different approaches work just fine too.

phaquue 11-17-2014 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 68852)




Oh my "Whorish makeup" bloody hell. okay I've never had to do any of the above ^ and I know a good many of blk men who don't care for a lot of makeup or really any at all on their women but hey if it makes ya feel sexy then go for it... Just saying it's not always needed. ;)

Sometimes less is more.





Thats actually the point yeah... she doesnt need to.. but thats what makes her feel most sexy. Especially when trolling for black cock.... Whorish make up, slutty skirt and heels, showing flesh and talking like a tramp... basically just 'putting it out there'.. but different approaches work just fine too.

phaquue 11-17-2014 02:08 AM

oops
 
oops... sorry I think I clicked twice.

wine might be to blame

whitepussy for BBC 11-17-2014 07:11 PM

Bbw or twigs
 
I enjoy all women small or a little extra! ! I will say the greatest sex I've had is from BBW .

jimbrowski 11-18-2014 11:15 AM

I'm not speaking for all African men; just me and my friends.
Now 98% of my squad likes juicy thighs and fat asses when it comes to sex, so if you don't have them then don't wear tight bottoms (pants, dresses). When a man meets a women he goes right to what he's attracted to first, and then to what he's attracted to next; so if he can't find what he's attracted to he'll either move on to the next female or he'll take chances on your bedroom skills, which would put you in a powerless position, and no man or woman should put themselves in such a position when dealing with the opposite sex; you always want to be in a position where there's mutual respect, and attraction regardless of the [sexual or monogamous] nature of your relationship.
Whatever's your best feature ( face, breast, character), accentuate it; remember, you can't and won't be able to please every man.

syft09 11-21-2014 05:18 AM

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Originally Posted by tarababy (Post 68842)
Aw, thanks everyone. You are all being sweet and a good help to me. But anymore suggestion on outfits I could try to see how I like them on me. Maybe suggestions of wedsites I could go to for clothing and/or QOS/bbc jewerly, clothing ect...

do u really as a woman not know what to wear out n public Or are ya asking what to wear to attract black men? if ur in the presence, be noticed being chased might not happen, but be forward, if your really looking for bbc it has to be known men dont have special senses to tell, open conversation... hint BLUNTLY ask if they like "fill n the blank" ask em how much they like it... trust me you could be wearing a potato sack and a guy wouldn't care, what are ur best assets, lips eyes? work those if you feel other parts dont gravitate ... honestly a great pair of lips can be imagined around a bbc with ease, no need to overly pucker or anything but during the convo.. a subtle lick n stare can set it off


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