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[tarababy]

I'm a bigger white women who only has limited clothing options. Can't always wear a tight shirt and see through shirts. Which I've read to be most popular. Just wanted to get a few ideas from black men or other bigger women

[olivian]

ha, umm, a gym membership?

[Mr Real]

Originally Posted by olivian

ha, umm, a gym membership?

I got kicked out of site just for saying i have a preference for slim women so be careful what you say...gotta keep it within the social order realms or consequences occur

[bongNJ]

i'd have see some pics and stats to be 100% sure but this should help any girl that classifies themselves as 'big'.
as a general rule of thumb: big girls look better with their clothes on; slim girls look better with their clothes off

that being said, same rules apply with you as with anyone when it comes to fashion: cover up weaknesses, emphasize strengths. high heels to make you taller and your weight more evenly distributed, low cut tops to show off tits, and belts to give the illusion of a waistline are good places to start.

oh, and if you're not comfortable with your weight, then change it. don't listen to people telling you 'real women have curves', 'every woman is beautiful', 'you're perfect', and the like because most of the time their projecting their own insecurities or just outright lying. fact is not everyone can pull off being big, just like not everyone can pull off being slim; anyone who's seen carmella bing after she blew up or oprah in her skinny days can tell you that
at the end of the day being confident in your looks will attract way more black men than anything you're wearing

TL;DR: confidence in your looks > actually being good looking > clothes

[tarababy]

Yeah def makes sense to cover up what you are insecure about and excentuate what you think is best about yourself. I guess when it comes down to it I need to wear what makes me comfortable.

[tarababy]

Thanks for telling that person off. Lol I was thinking about it but I think they just wanted to get a rise out of me. I'm new to this website and whole idea actually. Have any insights or suggestions.

[funnguyy]

Buy or make up some QOS type clothing. No direct words but the black guys will know while others won't and wear to clubs to the grocery store etc. Along with a QOS necklace bracelet anklet or earrings.

[Mustang Alley]

Okay I'm thinking this is one of those cases where a pic is worth a thousand words bc your first post conjures up images of very large LARGE woman where as your avatar gives a totally different impression. Maybe you're just too hard on yourself? Is that you in the avatar? Is it possible to see an upper body shot, blocking your face of course. Hell I wouldn't ask but your the one asking for fashion direction. Soooo kinda hard for anyone to make suggestions if they have no clue what they're working with. Just saying.



Oh and honestly I just wear what I want to wear. I let my eyes speak for me.

[tarababy]

Yes that is me in the avatar. I admit I don't look very very large in the picture, and maybe I can be a little hard on myself. But I can't just walk into a store and buy anything, usually I buy maybe 1 out of every 10 things I try on because everything else looks horrible on my figure. This picture im wearing a tight skirt that hides my belly and a loose shirt to hide the tightness of the shirt haha.

[newblkman22]

You shouldn't be hard on yourself. Beauty comes in all sizes and shapes.