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[jimbrowski]

Over this thanksgiving holiday I was acosted by some of my female friends and was asked when
am I going to settle down, and perhaps get married? They know I'm not in a serious relationship.
I never really gave it that much
thought, and I am getting older. One issue I've always had was that I can't seem to find a woman that thinks like me or at least close to how I think; the main reason is I don't really trust women; why? Well, ever since I've been about 15 years old I've been having sex with married women, even in my teenage yearsthe girls I would have sex with had boyfriends. I want to stress that I wasn't the aggressor in pursuing these women; it was on them or it was mutual.
Statiscally, women cheat almost as much as men, so what's to stop my spouse from cheating on me?
I know every relationship isn't perfect, but if you're doing everything humanly possible to please your spouse, whats really to prevent them from sleeping with another man??? I mean, I've been in other mens homes; I've been in hotels with wives; I've had wives in my home. I do realize that I can't fuck around for the rest of my life, but getting married nowadays just seems like a waste of paper; it seems like people get married just so they can say "I'm married", like a status symbol of some sort.
What are your thoughts? I'm know I'm not the only one.

[hoballoy]

I understand how you feel and totally agree with you !! Not only do women cheat as much as men in todays society it is condoned if not encouraged !! Take Care . Lee

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by hoballoy

I understand how you feel and totally agree with you !! Not only do women cheat as much as men in todays society it is condoned if not encouraged !! Take Care . Lee

I'm not exactly sure when "today's society" began, but this has been quite apparent to me since . . . well . . . since I first ever pondered this as a young man. I mean, all the criticism of men cheating, and you have to stop and think. Well, except for the minority of gay ones, who the hell are they cheating with??? WOMEN!

And as was pointed out, "I'm being neglected" and "my man doesn't pay enough attention to me" can indeed be a cover to justify what the woman is doing. When it comes to relationships, women can be extremely selfish and overly demanding. Also quite manipulative and passive-aggressive. "Sugar and spice and everything nice" is BULLSHIT!

The man can be bending over backwards trying to do everything to make the woman happy. Kissing her ass basically. And it's STILL never enough. Women are horny and want to fuck just like a man does. They just express themselves differently about it. Don't be fooled!

And don't think that women don't care about looks either! They do. A LOT! Again, they have a different modus operandi. On this, I will agree that men care about looks more, but women care about looks enough that they are extremely important to them too. If a man cares about looks 90% of the time, then a woman cares about same at least 80% of the time. And that's still significant.

Whatever one does, don't get married just to get married. You do what works for you and fuck them friends. If you're happy the way you are, then they should be happy for you too. If they aren't or keep hassling you, then they are NOT your friends.

[bongNJ]

to make a long story short: marriage is broken. the only reason to get married nowadays is for tax breaks, which i'm not even sure you get anymore.

just find a decent looking girl that is willing to have your kid, plant some heroin in her house, call the cops, and enjoy the rest of your life as a single dad(which will get you WAAAAAAAYYYYY more pussy than you're getting now).

[Helpgetherthere]

Originally Posted by bongNJ

to make a long story short: marriage is broken. the only reason to get married nowadays is for tax breaks, which i'm not even sure you get anymore.

just find a decent looking girl that is willing to have your kid, plant some heroin in her house, call the cops, and enjoy the rest of your life as a single dad(which will get you WAAAAAAAYYYYY more pussy than you're getting now).

Sounds like you got it all planned out. Lol this made me laugh!

[Mustang Alley]

But once it's signed it's a bitch to get out of so why do it if it goes against your grain?!?

Life is too short to be unhappy and if you're so worried about your wife cheating on you then stay away from that situation. You would always have doubt and be miserable so next time someone starts pushing their lifestyle on you just be honest and tell them that you have no faith in a being woman faithful to you or you could always tell them that you're gay.


Now do you think that you could be 100% faithful to ^ the imaginary wife? Forever and ever till death do y'all part? Same kat for the rest of your life. Not knocking it. Hey some are happy that way but I'm asking would you be happy after your current lifestyle? If not then next time someone gets in your face about not being married then tell them that. Tell them you can have a diff kat every day of the week if you choose. Besides they're prob just want (even a tiny percent) what you have.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Besides they're prob just want (even a tiny percent) what you have.

This is a good point. I've been surprised that even women have told me that they were "jealous" because I wasn't married and "tied down". I really don't understand feelings of jealousy though. I've never been one to get jealous over anything. I just do what works for me, and everybody else should do the same. But, there obviously are jealous people. Because they themselves have told me so.

[dirtygirl]

Oh Alley
You just ruined my dream of meeting mr right and living happily ever after.
one day u will meet someone you want to be with then u wont be scared
or u might not
just live
we could be dead tomorrow

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

But once it's signed it's a bitch to get out of so why do it if it goes against your grain?!?

Life is too short to be unhappy and if you're so worried about your wife cheating on you then stay away from that situation. You would always have doubt and be miserable so next time someone starts pushing their lifestyle on you just be honest and tell them that you have no faith in a being woman faithful to you or you could always tell them that you're gay.


Now do you think that you could be 100% faithful to ^ the imaginary wife? Forever and ever till death do y'all part? Same kat for the rest of your life. Not knocking it. Hey some are happy that way but I'm asking would you be happy after your current lifestyle? If not then next time someone gets in your face about not being married then tell them that. Tell them you can have a diff kat every day of the week if you choose. Besides they're prob just want (even a tiny percent) what you have.

I don't have any problems with "marriage" per se; hell, I don't even have a problem with cheating women (I get a lotta head & pussy from them), but the statistics speak for themselves; I believe its at 48%; thats just about half of all marriages end in divorce. That leads me to think that people are doing it for ALL the wrong reasons. My issues just stems from not finding the right type of woman, and dealing with cheating women that attempt to make themselves out to be Godly when in actuality their just human beings; we're all just human beings.
If I could find a woman that encompasses intelligence, and can make intelligent decisions; has a stable mind set; who's consistent in her actions; can think independently; eats relatively healthy; doesnt mind me leading; constantly striving to do better, and of course has juicy thighs and a fat ass; I wouldn't have a problem with being faithful. I'm not concerned with me, I'm consistent.

[Mustang Alley]

I wish you all the luck with the next family/friends gathering that's right around the corner..

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What's the longest that you've been consistent? Just wondering.