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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 69260)

But once it's signed it's a bitch to get out of so why do it if it goes against your grain?!?

Life is too short to be unhappy and if you're so worried about your wife cheating on you then stay away from that situation. You would always have doubt and be miserable so next time someone starts pushing their lifestyle on you just be honest and tell them that you have no faith in a being woman faithful to you or you could always tell them that you're gay. :p

Now do you think that you could be 100% faithful to ^ the imaginary wife? Forever and ever till death do y'all part? Same kat for the rest of your life. Not knocking it. Hey some are happy that way but I'm asking would you be happy after your current lifestyle? If not then next time someone gets in your face about not being married then tell them that. Tell them you can have a diff kat every day of the week if you choose. Besides they're prob just want (even a tiny percent) what you have.

I don't have any problems with "marriage" per se; hell, I don't even have a problem with cheating women (I get a lotta head & pussy from them), but the statistics speak for themselves; I believe its at 48%; thats just about half of all marriages end in divorce. That leads me to think that people are doing it for ALL the wrong reasons. My issues just stems from not finding the right type of woman, and dealing with cheating women that attempt to make themselves out to be Godly when in actuality their just human beings; we're all just human beings.
If I could find a woman that encompasses intelligence, and can make intelligent decisions; has a stable mind set; who's consistent in her actions; can think independently; eats relatively healthy; doesnt mind me leading; constantly striving to do better, and of course has juicy thighs and a fat ass; I wouldn't have a problem with being faithful. I'm not concerned with me, I'm consistent.

Ahhh Christmas time

I wish you all the luck with the next family/friends gathering that's right around the corner.. :)

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What's the longest that you've been consistent? Just wondering.

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Originally Posted by jimbrowski (Post 69204)

Over this thanksgiving holiday I was acosted by some of my female friends and was asked when
am I going to settle down, and perhaps get married? They know I'm not in a serious relationship.
I never really gave it that much
thought, and I am getting older. One issue I've always had was that I can't seem to find a woman that thinks like me or at least close to how I think; the main reason is I don't really trust women; why? Well, ever since I've been about 15 years old I've been having sex with married women, even in my teenage yearsthe girls I would have sex with had boyfriends. I want to stress that I wasn't the aggressor in pursuing these women; it was on them or it was mutual.
Statiscally, women cheat almost as much as men, so what's to stop my spouse from cheating on me?
I know every relationship isn't perfect, but if you're doing everything humanly possible to please your spouse, whats really to prevent them from sleeping with another man??? I mean, I've been in other mens homes; I've been in hotels with wives; I've had wives in my home. I do realize that I can't fuck around for the rest of my life, but getting married nowadays just seems like a waste of paper; it seems like people get married just so they can say "I'm married", like a status symbol of some sort.
What are your thoughts? I'm know I'm not the only one.

Hey man. If you really aren't feeling it, don't get married. I thing marriage is more of a social thing nowadays rather than a personal thing. People seem to get married to show off now.
Anyways, there's no shame in not getting married. Only thing is people would probably look at you funny when they realize, but who's to say you can't give them a goofy look back!?

Im pretty young, but I already know marriage isn't for me. The whole concept of getting papers done and other tedious process to show my love just isn't my cup of tea. And I also want to experience different girls my for the rest of my life (even when I'm old and gray).

I digressed a bit, but to try and answer your concern, this is something I would do if I were to get married: I would be really open to my wife, and make sure she's fine with telling me all her fantasy. If you're into more power to you, If you aren't, well at least it wouldn't be behind your back.

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Originally Posted by bongNJ (Post 69207)

to make a long story short: marriage is broken. the only reason to get married nowadays is for tax breaks, which i'm not even sure you get anymore.

just find a decent looking girl that is willing to have your kid, plant some heroin in her house, call the cops, and enjoy the rest of your life as a single dad(which will get you WAAAAAAAYYYYY more pussy than you're getting now).

Haha. Is this from experience?

Oh Alley
You just ruined my dream of meeting mr right and living happily ever after.
one day u will meet someone you want to be with then u wont be scared
or u might not
just live
we could be dead tomorrow:D

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 69429)

I wish you all the luck with the next family/friends gathering that's right around the corner.. :)

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What's the longest that you've been consistent? Just wondering.

LOL, I don't celebrate christmas, so I will be resting; on their behalf I don't know, but I don't think they just want me to get married; I think it's more of them wanting me to settle down with one female eventually to be married. Some of these girls I've been knowing for 15+ years, and I've pretty much been the same way since a teenager. My female cousins do this as well, except they do it more often; like every 3-6 months. The funny thing is they will introduce me to even more females and 50% of the time I end up having sex with them, and the whole damn process starts all over again. In terms of my mentality; my goals; my intentions, and the like; I would state that I'm very consistent; out of the 9 (if I'm not mistaken) females I've had sex with this year; I've been having sex with 6 of them for about 3-6 years now, give or take; shit, thats longer then some marriages, lol. I just can't find a female that can keep me intrigued mentally. They all seem to be the same, more or less, regardless of race.