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Bareback and risks?
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If you want to go bareback with a partner do you ask them to get tested first? The last thing you want is std's. What's the rule of thumb if you don't want to 'play it safe?'?
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Yes I agree, its just awkward asking...
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The chances of getting anything from straight heterosexual sex, even according to the cdc, is so slim. U just go for it. Without a nice phat cream pie for me to clean up, what's the point.
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"No love without the glove"
Tell them, "no love without the glove". You are a beautiful girl and you seem like a really cool person too. If they really wantsto get with you badly, they will accomodate any reasonable request you may have. Along with STD's, some women end up getting pregnant. I know you wouldn't do anything like that but others would. I feel such actions are sooo wreckless. Wearing condoms would prevent all that nonsense.
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Terry my husbands not a cuckold so I'm not concerned about what gets to eat.
I agree with Trinidad, if its going to be spontantious then its got to be with a glove. If its with a regualar partner then you both should get tested before anything like that is even considered. |
I don't trust ANYONE; even if one is getting tested, you would have to get tested every month, especially if it's casual. The best solution is condoms because if someone us having casual sex with you they could be having casual sex with others.
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If you don't know your partner, ask if he has an hiv test. In either case have him wear a condom. Bareback sex is nice, but should be with someone you know to be hiv/aids negative. It isn't worth the risk.
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Both very valid points, bottom line is be safe first, then have fun... Very good advice...
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We're lucky to afford the std test kits with online results for the guys my wife meets. some have backed out, even though we'd pay. sure it takes a week or so to get the kit, then back to the labs with online-login results soon. now my wife has a steady black bull so we don't have to do it except when she wants a new taste now and then. bad part is when we're out, she sees a hot guy and wants to fuck him immediately so spontaneity is gone, but she'll always end up on her knees before it. if not fuck it. . tstd org
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There are about one mil that have hiv in the Uk that we no about and they say its about 500,000 that we dont no about with a pop of 68 mil I think we need to cover up and the risk of making a bump as well that you have all forgot about above, yes its fun without a condom but No your partner first and well!! Have fun good people
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they are easier going doesn't seem to bother them they insist that I cum in them just my bit Vern |
My wife prefers to have sex bareback. She is into pleasing her man and likes to feel the proof of his enjoyment. She has an advantage in that she can see the medical records of the men she has selected as lovers. She is not really into the one time flings so she gets to know her men and get comfortable with them. She is 50 and starting the change so she probably could not get pregnant but I know that the slight possibility excites the hell out of her. I like that she is willing to take the guy completely. Probably like many of the cuck men on here, it is so damn hot to see her with a big cock balls deep with her legs wrapped around him and her hands holding his ass tight. Then to hear her tell him that she is open and ready for him, she can take it all and don't hold back.
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I agree it's not a good idea to have unprotected sex with strangers or people you dont know very well. But the level of excitement (and sobriety) plays a huge part in that decision for me.
this year I've already fucked over 20 strangers without protection. I dont even think about risk of STD's much. I havnt used any birth control for almost a year and I mostly think about getting pregnant. |
Unless we meaning the and me take a big-time STD test fuck no I will not fuck with out a condom
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Bare and risk
To me I personally love having a black man cum in me but the risk is high unless you know the man is STD free and very dangerous for women like myself who are married and cheating. But if I believe he is std free or he can prove it or is married himself I will go bare and accept the risk.
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There have been times in the heat of the moment when it was bareback. If I'm actually seeing someone I insist on getting tested because I prefer bareback.
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Drunk and horny
Being married I don't get out much and when I get a chance to go out and party and find a hot black guy, I am usually to drunk and horny to care, just want that hot sex I get from black men. been lucky so far, but the sex is worth it.
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In this day and age, why would anyone have unprotected sex with someone you barely know. I know things happen if you are drinking and spur of the moment, etc. but AIDS and HIV are not to be taken lightly. Now I like to play around as much as the next girl but if you want to fuck me, make sure you got a condom.
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Im glad to see some honest responses in here. I've met many wives at parties or bars and 20 minutes after meeting her, I'm fucking her bareback and cuming deep inside of her. There never seems to be a request for condoms, and there has to have been over 100 meetings like this. I get tested regularly and so far have been lucky. I thank the stars that the people i've met in this lifestyle have been responsible. All I can do is keep being responsible myself, keep getting tested, and hope for the best. To be honest, the sex isnt worth it with a condom because I cant feel anything and its harder to make a real connection with my partner. Bareback is so much hotter. As a heterosexual man, my chances of getting the HIV are slim.
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My wife truly "hated" condoms. We started in the lifestyle in 1970, I can honestly say that we were very lucky that we never caught anything. We tried to be very, very careful who she got involved with, she would pass on the guys that always seemed to be trying to "hustle" any woman that they were around. The bottom line for her was she loved to feel a man pump her full of cum. Always. gatrordw
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I would hope any man without having a vasectomy would pass on bareback sex. I couldn't care less what two consenting adults do together to get their kinks off however why would you want to take the chance involving an unwanted pregnancy? I understand the woman could be on birth control but I also understand she wouldn't be the first woman to lie about it either.
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It is not just about getting pregnant though that is not a minor issue but also about VD which is another not so minor issue. I can understand getting lost in the moment and wanting him and to give yourself completely. I have done that and while the sex was really great, the next few weeks were tense.
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Too risky!
We have one bbc who we regularly play with. He is married, a doctor and is also very concerned with hiv. He is the only one to go bareback because we have both been tested I have another regular and he must wear a condom or no sex. You just have to be extra careful.
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One of the men I bareback is a doctor also. Met him at the VA when I was getting a physical. The other is a black married man who had been watching me look through dresses at Macy's in the mall. I love having a man's seed inside me and wish I could bareback all the time, but it just isn't worth the risk. Married men are usually the safest, but you have to know they are in fact married. Other than that they have to put on the raincoat.
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She is so right!
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there are not many white women that does'nt think about bareback with a Bro yes be careful But enjoy! |
Besides...why would anyone put themselves at risk like that?
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Yes , if u want to bareback my wife , have to be tested first . Other wise using a rubber!
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Be careful and enjoy!
Bare is best if both have been checked for disease. There is nothing quite like having black inside! White wives are a good option for black men! |
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Even if both of you get tested do you know where he goes after fucking you. If he remains faithful to you then I would say go for it. If he is fucking you on the side what's to say he doesn't have others on the side. Where have they been. Safety first last and always.
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Maybe its just in my culture but we hardly ever use condoms. There's nothing quite like nutting deep inside a woman with no condom restricting my cock.
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Once sure of std free partner, I'd rather do bareback using the rythmn method of birth control.
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In an ideal world I would want a guy to get tested but sometimes you just get swept up in things and take the risk. Even if he does get tested thoguh that does mean hes not gong to sleep around.
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I can't help myself......
I get so turned on with Black Lvoers that the LAST thing I am thinking about is a condom!! I jsut WANT that cock inme NOW, and once inside I can't help but imagine 'what if" I get pregnant which only make it BETTER!!
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