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[Heids]

If you want to go bareback with a partner do you ask them to get tested first? The last thing you want is std's. What's the rule of thumb if you don't want to 'play it safe?'?

[lakeman4]

Originally Posted by Heids

If you want to go bareback with a partner do you ask them to get tested first? The last thing you want is std's. What's the rule of thumb if you don't want to 'play it safe?'?

I guess the best answer would be how much are you willing to risk for a few minutes of pleasure. Taking the chance would be either an life altering or life ending experience. So you might want to insist on them, and you, being tested.

[Heids]

Yes I agree, its just awkward asking...

[terryeaton]

The chances of getting anything from straight heterosexual sex, even according to the cdc, is so slim. U just go for it. Without a nice phat cream pie for me to clean up, what's the point.

[blondeforreal_2]

Originally Posted by Heids

Yes I agree, its just awkward asking...

How do you go about that? The men are involved with so many women that I am afraid-I would rather be his only woman-is that even possible?????

[Freya24432]

In this day and age, why would anyone have unprotected sex with someone you barely know. I know things happen if you are drinking and spur of the moment, etc. but AIDS and HIV are not to be taken lightly. Now I like to play around as much as the next girl but if you want to fuck me, make sure you got a condom.

[brickcityhustla]

Im glad to see some honest responses in here. I've met many wives at parties or bars and 20 minutes after meeting her, I'm fucking her bareback and cuming deep inside of her. There never seems to be a request for condoms, and there has to have been over 100 meetings like this. I get tested regularly and so far have been lucky. I thank the stars that the people i've met in this lifestyle have been responsible. All I can do is keep being responsible myself, keep getting tested, and hope for the best. To be honest, the sex isnt worth it with a condom because I cant feel anything and its harder to make a real connection with my partner. Bareback is so much hotter. As a heterosexual man, my chances of getting the HIV are slim.

[Trinidad_Black]

Tell them, "no love without the glove". You are a beautiful girl and you seem like a really cool person too. If they really wantsto get with you badly, they will accomodate any reasonable request you may have. Along with STD's, some women end up getting pregnant. I know you wouldn't do anything like that but others would. I feel such actions are sooo wreckless. Wearing condoms would prevent all that nonsense.

Originally Posted by Heids

If you want to go bareback with a partner do you ask them to get tested first? The last thing you want is std's. What's the rule of thumb if you don't want to 'play it safe?'?

[Heids]

Terry my husbands not a cuckold so I'm not concerned about what gets to eat.

I agree with Trinidad, if its going to be spontantious then its got to be with a glove. If its with a regualar partner then you both should get tested before anything like that is even considered.

[jimbrowski]

I don't trust ANYONE; even if one is getting tested, you would have to get tested every month, especially if it's casual. The best solution is condoms because if someone us having casual sex with you they could be having casual sex with others.