Getting better at this thing
 

I heard of this site and others like this where brothers come here to get their sex on and after looking at it (in between shakes of my head), I gotta ask the brothers when did they start to aim so low?

I'm talking about allowing them to come here and use you as some sexual creature to get their freak on, whilst at the same time maintaining a respectable distance in real life.

I don't have anything against interracial in of itself. What baffles me is how in public these same people keep black people practically at arms length with. Sure they come here to run after BBC and all the accompanying grotesque crude racial stereotypes that come with it. However when it comes to things such as dating or marrying into their families, marrying or dating their sons or daughters or other family members, close acquaintances, friends lunch buddies, neighbours, or guests to country or private clubs etc, they have this very common but never spoken aloud "ABB" mentality, Anything But Black. Meaning, they seem much more at ease and welcoming of people of other races and nationalities, even people who are very foreign, with whom they have not much in common. These seem to them to be more acceptable options that they generally are able to accommodate in one some way or another. As far as black people are concerned, it is usually a policy of minimum social contact i.e., deal with them only when necessary and to the minimum extent possible. Unless of course they are popular entertainers or athletes who are keeping their college and pro teams at the top of the rankings, who are always considered to be different, and their race becomes irrelevant.

I get why white people come to this site. Obviously they come to have their cake and eat it too. Avail themselves of "BBC" and all the primitive and brutish sexual connotations that come with it, while at the same time, avoiding these same people in real life when it matters and maintaining one's respectability.

I just don't get why our men allow themselves to be used in such a cynical way. It's almost like using something when it's handy and then placing it under the kitchen sink when done to keep it out of the way and comfortably out of sight.

It's a kink. The whole taboo thing. Sex is, what, 90 percent mental, 10 percent physical?

Sub pink males like myself get off on it, with no feeling of obligation to justify it.

To each their own.

You write with a sort of British accent, if you will, so I'd assume you're from the UK, Australia, New Zealand, or possibly South Africa.

If you're in any of those lands, you probably realize that white women going Black is nothing new anymore. Get over it. It's only going to get bigger in the future.

A grain of salt
 

You can't believe everything you read on this site and not all (speaking for myself) treat blk men as a piece if meat. :( same as I don't want to be treated like a white whatever. Trust me when I say my heart is more in this than anything else. Well heart first Lol But that applies to many areas.

I've seen these type of threads get ugly back and forth between the guys and then sometimes they all together just ignore them. I just wanted you to know that not everyone is as you believe them to be here. :)

I understand what you saying, these brothers being degraded but find it exciting anyhow, there brains is right in their dicks and thinking a big dick will propell them in life, these fakes are laughing and literally toying with them and these brothers are giving them something for them to toy with, i have said it and many brothers already deployed and attack me for saying it. I seen it for myself some brothers are way too dependant on these women like they are still babies and need a dummy. :rolleyes:

Black Bull
 

I hate the whole "black bull" thing. White couple seeking "black bull" or I'm a "black bull" seeking blah, blah, blah. What, the black male is just some beast of an animal now who you want to see "defile" your wife, girlfriend, or daughter??? I remember a white couple approaching me in a chat room years ago talking about they were looking for a "black bull" for sex with the wife. Told them that I was not an animal, and then they're gonna try to act all pissy with me and say they were no longer interested. Yeah well, that feeling was mutual, so we had some balance there! Gets ta steppiiiiiiiin' LOL!

I just want to reiterate what some have said, not all people that come here degrade themselves or confirm to negative and nasty stereotypes or like mindless sex. Some men and women here do actually respect each other and see each others as human beings and not sexual objects.

Muah
 

Get to steppin'. Good for you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Great comment! I sooo hate the whole "black bull" thing. I'm not a "bull"; instead I'm a highly educated and fairly successful black MAN.

It's is petty easy to be judgmental. Live and let live is my motto and if someone offends you, drop it and move on.

I thought I was the only one that felt this way regarding that terminology. Great post

Nobody's holding a gun to anyones head; I can't speak for others, but I don't give a shit about another mans fantasy, I do what benefits me. My mind set wouldn't allow me to cater to man; I could cater to a woman up to a certain dergree, but NEVER a man. On the topic of being used, as a human being you're going to be used for & by sex at some point on your life unless you're not getting any; women use men for sex and vice versa; theres no getting around that, its human.

In light of all the recent happenings on ili
 

Erm...
 

Skype me!... as in Bite me!

No need to be so defensive
 

Preach! Thank god for the likes of you. The sooner we put this grotesque BBC caricature out to pasture, the better. Obviously there are those who thrive of it. I'm sure you can figure out why.

Not A Marriage Site....lol
 

You'd probably be better off on a chat or dating site for finding relationships and marriage.
This is pretty much sex. Sex has a lot of facets. I don't care how the husband is commonly labeled as a cuck or sissy; but if that works for all the people involved, then have at it. Get your freak on...lmao.:D

No, I certainly wouldn't be on here looking for a partner. I was just agreeing with someone who made an important contribution to the thread.

You have to be aware that what you say it can really irritate some people and i do agree with what you are saying, i have said this kind of thing myself and been venomously attacked.

What is this malarkey about?
 

Second time you've done this in my thread. Care to explain what this is all about?

Amazing, the short-sightedness of some people, isn't it? I suppose some don't like being told the truth. Well, I said it anyway.

More like pure blind, some of the screen names these thirsty brothers come up with i smh...they might as well just marry their own penises. :rolleyes:

Funny
 

That was hilarious.

They do say ignorance is bliss. I'm sure there are a lot of contentedly blissful people around these parts.