marriage question for women…
 

I understand the basics and sanctity of marriage and even a monogomous relationship and though sex isnt the only part it is an integral part. I mean you're with this person day after day-month after month-year after year. So if your husband or even boyfriend in the past or present wasn't/isnt satisfying you sexually why are you with him? Have you settled or become complacent? Are you scared to be alone? Do you lack resources? Do you feel trapped? What is it?
Dont be shy even though I know some will be.
I just cant imagine being involved with a female that's either not fucking me enough and not satasfying me.

Consider that I've been married to my wife for 36 years. I have 3 grown children. My wife is very educated, three degrees and is a professional women. She has been having an extra-marital sex for about 30 years of our marriage. I figured that being a virgin when I married her and then five years later being seduced by another man she could not resist. To this day she loves when a man takes her. The wife loves every man's attention. She loves to dance. I do not dance. She loves to go to plays. I don't. I love that I am married to a hot woman. I love that she is experiencing her sexuality beyond what I can give her. I have ED and can no longer satisfy her. I am not jealous in any way. I am proud of her. I love her. Now, the wife does not need me but she stays with me. The wife comes home and tells me all about her extra-marital sex. I've seen her beautiful expressions while she gets fucked. Better than porn. She just got naked and let an old friend play with her while we were outside (Lower 48.) She is hot and I'm proud to be married to her. Looking forward to talking to her in less than an hour. She is flying back home at this time.

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Your "wife" couldnt answer the question? Because everything you typed didnt ANSWER the question.
"Hot" is extremely subjective because what may be hot to you may not be to me and vice versa.
I have 2 degrees and I'm a professional plus I have a part-time business and I still wouldnt stay with someone who's physical able to satisfy me but just won't; plus, to this date I have never had a female from any race fuck me because I have degrees and are a professional.
Greater than any of that you have an actual problem so this wouldnt pertain to you; I shouldve clarified that.

My husband does a great job of pleasing me, but what if something happened and he couldn't? Would I leave him? No. I love my husband and would never leave him, also there are plenty of men available to fulfill those needs should a woman need assistance. For my husband and I we've always looked at sex with others as recreational sex. For me there is a distinct difference. We are both also professionals and travel sometimes gets in the way. If I feel so inclined I've never had a problem finding a cock to help me out!

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Sometimes
 

You mentioned that your husband pleases you; does he satisfy you? Theres a difference in being pleased and satisfied. If you were indeed satisfied then there would be no need to look at subcontracting out the sexual aspect and if sex wasnt that important in your relationship then you guys wouldnt need to subcontract out the sexual aspect.
Now you mentioned being a "professional"; I wanted to ask what does that mean to you and how that correlates to a lifestyle? I've had sex with women that make more money than me; I've had sex with women who make less money than me; I've had sex with women that own their own businesses and I wouldnt marry ANY of them! So does that tie in to your decision making???

Mustang you've actually touched on something that I found out marriage.
Since putting the post up I've asked 20+ women that have either complained about their husband in major or minor detail, including the married women that I have sex with; their issues were cheating; impregnating another woman; physical & emotional abuse; lackluster sex; controlling; incompatability and a lot of minor issues.
You stated that your husband knows you like the back of your hand; that means that he knows the positives and all the negatives about you.
When I asked the women why do they stay with someone who's doing the aforementioned they would say they didnt know then they would say "but I love him". Then they alluded to what you touched on and what I've believed for years; women like to play it safe and it's not to state that women don't leave their husbands because both genders leave, but when you've been in a relationship for any amount of years you know that person and vice versa; women lack adaptability and patience when it comes to the developmental stage of a relationship; they want everything done and over with already. So if an opportunity to get with a new man who may or may not be better than their current spouse they would rather stick with what they're used to rather than a potential to be; and lets be honest, a half ass dude, unless he's a pushover, would not put up with a womans negativities and baggage from prevoius relationships and women know that; so they say love but I think it has more to do with settling and laziness (not meaning to judge).
The next time you're around some women that are married ask them to describe a man that they think is attractive then look at their spouse and notice the difference between the two, lol. Eighty percent of the women I fuck around with are what I'm atracted to.
Most women dont marry the man that they're attracted to because those men will not marry them. BTW, it only takes me one night to get to know a womens body like the back of my hand because I actually respect the female anatomy and I take the time to explore their zones.

My reason
 

I haven't cheated on my husband but cheated on a fiance and boyfriends at university. The black men who fucked me would not have fitted into my life. Having white boyfriends to take home and have romantic nights in and met with my friends but my black lover for fantastic sex was a perfect situation

On your page you state that if you find out that your husband has ulterior motives then your "sex" life is over but what about your "marriage"? Will your marriage be over? If not, why not?
Also, why did you find a want to cheat in your fiance?