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[florida hubby]

For me lust would be a better word than love....Becky

[Geraldine]

Originally Posted by florida hubby

For me lust would be a better word than love....Becky

I agree. Love isn't part of it, just straight sex

[midwestmaiden]

Black guys are passionate but they like to dominate too and I like that. There's nothing turns me on more than a muscular black guy holding me down.

[vernon254]

Originally Posted by midwestmaiden

Black guys are passionate but they like to dominate too and I like that. There's nothing turns me on more than a muscular black guy holding me down.

I agree we are passionate definitely

[midwestmaiden]

Originally Posted by vernon254

I agree we are passionate definitely

I have been with 5 black guys and 3 of them were extremely passionate but like to dominate also and I liked that. It felt good having them take charge.

[vernon254]

Originally Posted by midwestmaiden

I have been with 5 black guys and 3 of them were extremely passionate but like to dominate also and I liked that. It felt good having them take charge.

Hmm i bet you did most women like their men to take charge but dominant that's not me im not a pushover but a lot of women tell me i should be more aggressive.

[midwestmaiden]

Originally Posted by vernon254

Hmm i bet you did most women like their men to take charge but dominant that's not me im not a pushover but a lot of women tell me i should be more aggressive.

The first time a guy was dominant with me surprised me at first but I soon started to enjoy it and let him take complete control. You should try it, if your girl doesn't object then keep going with it, we do enjoy it

[vernon254]

Originally Posted by Sunnygal

I've followed this thread for a while, and I hope I have a slightly less "black and white" view of the reason that white women love black men. First, I'm not white - I am an Indian in my mid thirties, with a lot of experience behind me. So my skin colour isn't white, it's kind of coffee coloured, and if I spend time in the sun, I go dark brown. Not a lot of people know that Indians tan!!!
As an independent Indian woman, I long ago developed a preference for black men, quite simply because with black men, you know exactly where you are. White men seem determined to play mind games and those that I have known have been very sneaky in the way they approach the big question, and without fail, every one has felt compelled to ask if I came, and if I enjoyed it! If they don't know if I came, they are doing something wrong!!!!
Black men I have known have all taken control, not necessarily forcefully, but taken control all the same - I have known exactly what they wanted from the word go, and if I didn't like the idea, I had to get up and go.
Yes, I am submissive, and I will always get on my knees for a black man, but I have never done so for a white man, simply because they don't seem to understand how to get a woman to want to go down on her knees.
Every black man I have been with has made me cum several times and not one of them has ever felt the need to ask if I have - they have known that I have! Getting me to do the things they want and like is very easy for them - just a gentle, but firm, grip on my arm or my shoulder or my head, or any part of my body, and i know what to do. No white man that I have been with has ever known how to do that - it's always a case of them asking, or begging snd pleading and eventually getting very rough and trying to force their will on me.
I am a very adventurous woman, and will submit to anything a black man wants, but I have a serious problem relaxing with a white man.
I guess this makes me a racist, but it's my body, my enjoyment, and I have become very choosy when it comes to sex partners. I would think that many white women feel the same way.
Peace!!!!

Actually to me that doesn't make you racist you just have your preference i must say you're hot as well i think the whole dominant thing is a little overblown in my opinion i do believe it depends on the woman honestly some want to fucked rough or some just like for you to direct them an teach them

[vernon254]

Originally Posted by midwestmaiden

The first time a guy was dominant with me surprised me at first but I soon started to enjoy it and let him take complete control. You should try it, if your girl doesn't object then keep going with it, we do enjoy it

Ok i will keep that in mind i think i will keep the approach of directing the woman iam going to please.

[vernon254]

Originally Posted by Sunnygal

I sometimes think there is confusion over the meaning of dominant. At least as far as I am concerned. With me, my men take the lead, they direct me, they move me to where they want me to be, they do it gently but with enough pressure for me to understand that this is what they want me to do.
For example, standing face to face, kissing passionately, he will place a hand on my shoulder and gently push me downwards, and it is instinct that tells me to bend my knees, go down onto my knees. The excitement I feel when he does that is beyond description!!
He has only to place a hand on my hip and gently, but with purpose, move my hip and I know that he wants me to roll onto my belly, and I know that I have to "assume the position"!!! It's all about him leading, taking control but not being over powering, being the dominant partner in the couple but not having to use brute force.
I have never subscribed to view that all women secretly want to be raped. This one certainly does not have any desire to be subjected to brute force fucking. But surrendering to the guy you are with because you want to surrender to him is what it's all about. I have not fucked every black guy who has propositioned me, nor have I rejected every white guy who has done the same. It doesn't take long to know if the guy is going to be fun to be with!!!
So guys, don't make the mistake of thinking that she is keen to be beaten to a pulp because I don't know any woman who does!!! Just be a man!

I would say that making the woman that iam trying to please comfortable is my biggest thing but everybody have their preference on how they like to be fucked