Ladies, Better alone or in the same room?
 

I have a question for the ladies. We've had a few experiences and they have been great. But I can't help but wonder if she may enjoy it more if I wasn't in the room? I'll talk to her about it too but wanted to ask other women? So please let me know what you think.

I love being alone I can make hot love to my lover and hubby can just wonder what we did plus I get into it better

same room
 

i wantedd my husband in same room so he could see just howw much i enjoyed first bbc. He liked watching.

Katlin..... have you been with any more bbc since 3-15.....?? My wife loves bbc now.. very reluctant at first, now... an experience lover of black

I prefer alone
 

That way I can concentrate on my lover without thinking about my husband watching over me. I'll tell hubby all the fun details later. Being able to let loose with my lover is such a rush.

allways
 

Allways in the room, that way hubby can see what a bull can do to a little white pussy

Alone? Mistake for us
 

We agreed we would always do this together whether with a couple or single. Well we bent the rules and it turned to shit. Something happened. Either he tried to break a boundary (no anal) or she did it on her own a. Either way she is full of guilt and shame. Says she is done with the lifestyle. Whatever you agree upon stick to it. I know she felt like she wanted to get wilder and be more slutty which is crazy because she has done nearly everything with black and white guys except anal. Something happened not sure what. Dude won't return our calls and its fucking with my head.

I could never have my husband in the room - period!

My husband wanted me to fulfill his fantasy of being with a black man but I refused, at first, because I thought it was just to justify him going with other women, but I realised that was not it.. Eventually I did and my eyes were opened and now I cannot stop, and don't want to. I know my husband wants to watch but I cannot let myself go when he is in the room, so I am going with black men alone and I tell him he started this and I am not stopping, so I do let him watch if I go with the first guy he set me up with, but I have moved on from him and find that I get SO turned on by really black guys. I sometimes orgasm before he penetrates me. My husband never ever made me orgasm. I have had different guys since we started and never had one that did not leave me sore and satisfied. I am 38 and horny all the time now. I think about it constantly. Alecia

No set rules. Sometimes he watches or joins in. Sometimes he listens in the next room. Sometimes he gets a picture at work. .

im fine... (hubby) but she can do whatever....
 

she always has had me in the room, but I'm 100% open to doing whatever.. not sure how I would feel about her meeting someone by herself at a hotel or something .. from a safety point of view, not a jealousy thing. But I'm happy to leave the room or drop her off and wait in the lobby / bar .. whatever. So far, she has always preferred I be in the room - so far we have playing 99% of the time in our own home - very few times have we gone to a hotel and so far never to his place. I actually asked her to try it once to see if it made her more comfortable.. I can certainly understand how that could be a thing.

Alone at first
 

I prefer the first few meeting to be without cucky there. That way I can get to know my new man without the distraction of hubby looking and both of us having the feeling that we need to 'perform'.
After we are comfortable then hubby can watch. Because we have a family that isn't always possible anyway and I guess cucky only gets to see about a quarter of the time.
With the men I've been seeing for a long time, the dates are often without hubby and I do stay over night reasonably regularly which means that hubby has to be at home.
Always send texts and sometimes pics and on occasion I've phoned cucky while I've been with a lover.

What a very common-sense post from Fun...9999. I can certainly agree from the safety standpoint, which is one of the strongest considerations any white couple should factor in when they're trying to consummate the wife's natural urges for black cock.

The biggest impediment to a successful blacking is finding the suitable bull...and one you both can trust. However, once you do,,,the wife (as well as her understanding hubby) can be free to enjoy the thrills she so much deserves, and for which she's been so long denied.

Alone is same room
 

Although I'm not married any more, I'm like you Alicia. I'd never be able to let myself go if I knew anyone was watching. I'm just not the exhibitionist type of person. I have been watched before but that's only happened a few times when our other friends an us couldn't get separate rooms and had to share a hotel room. One time when I didn't know they were actually watching, she later commented on how sexy I was while my black boyfriend and I was getting it on and she especially noticed the number of orgasms she thought I had. I was somewhat embarrassed when she told me this but after we talked about it, I felt more comfortable about it and told her I was going to get even with her and watch her next time, in which it was exciting for my black boyfriend and I to play the voyeur part. Other than her and her black boyfriend, they are the only ones who have ever watched us and sometimes lead us into swapping partners,.. which is a totally different story..

My husband used to like to watch and take pics and videos. Now he doesn't participate at all and there are times he's not even in the same state let alone the same room....Becky

Not bashful any more
 

When we were first married I wasn't wild about having the lights on during sex. But that ended while I was pregnant with our second child because I was so horny I slipped into our family room one night and suprised him and took out his cock and started sucking him off. But the suprise was on me because four of his buddy's were sitting in the room. I know my face was red but I could they all had hardons . So from that time on I've not been bashful about who's in the room and how many people are watching.

my husband knows nothing about it

Let's Skype
 

Bc I want to see if the wife knows about it. :rolleyes:

I say stay in the room. The whole focus is on her and in order to convey with words that can only be moaned and groaned-screamed or weaned-it is done in front of the husband-the cuchold. The black man must take her in front of him-that starts the decentralization process in him-then when she is ravaged and given back with a pussy that he knows truly does not belong to him anymore-the final string is cut which once belonged to the white man-it is also very symbolic in many different ways.