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White guy here: insecure about my girlfriend
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Old 09-27-2021, 12:41 AM
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Since this is an anonymous forum, good place to vent and be totally honest. I'm a 31-year old white male, successful professional, good shape, living in Los Angeles. Been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. We are not at the stage where we want to get married, but it's definitely a serious relationship.

In past few months, she's been openly talking about how hot black guys are when we're out at santa monica beach or other places outdoors where there's lot of muscular athletic black guys. At first, I just laughed it off, but it became obvious that she's sexually attracted to them. Those comments continued, with her saying that she's "curious" about trying black cock. And this past weekend she said that she thinks about how "beautiful those milk chocolate babies" would be, if she had babies with a black man. I lost it, and we got into a heated argument about this.

A few questions:

1. To save this relationship, what should I do? Should I let her fuck a black guy and get it off her chest so we can move on? She brought up wanting to try this, but I initially said hell no. Am I being narrow minded?

2. My girl wondered whether she's too petite and not thick enough for black men. I don't know what black men like, but according to her, they like women who are very curvy and huge asses. She's fit and athletic, but that's not her body type so she's wondering whether she can attract the athletic, handsome, muscular black men she's attracted to. I attached her pics (with her permission). Honest thoughts on her would be greatly appreciated.

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Old 09-27-2021, 12:44 AM
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Old 09-28-2021, 05:23 PM
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Bro, friendly advice. Your insecurity is going to kill the relationship. She's obviously not satisfied sexually and looking elsewhere. You're only making this worse. And as someone who lives in L.A., I can tell you for a FACT that hot white women here prefer black men.

As for your second question, your girl is GORGEOUS. She can have her pick of brothers. You probably were hoping that we found her unattractive. Lol.
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Old 09-28-2021, 07:19 PM
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Most of us dream of our wives wanting to fuck BBC. I think if you give her a chance to fulfill her fantasy, you may end up closer. Let her go on a date, when she gets home lick that pussy. In time you will be wanting her to go out more and more.
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Old 09-30-2021, 02:35 PM
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The answer depends on you. What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend/wife who has sex with black guys while you watch? Does that turn you on or not? If so, then the two of you need to sit down and have a serious talk about fantasies and sex games before you start arguing and break up.

She's obviously into black guys and laying down hints. Now, it's up to you to either tell her no and break up with her or tell her that you're willing to try it with her.

My advice is to do something small at first to see if you both like it. Have a black guy over and have her give him a hand job and massage. Have her put on something sexy, have a few drinks with him and then have her give him a massage and hand job until he cums while you watch. That way, if you don't like it, it was only a hand job and you're not too traumatized. But if you do like it, you can do more the next time such as allow her to give him a blowjob. Slowly work your way up to watching her have full on sex with black guys. Take small steps to reach that point, even if it takes you a year to build up to that point.

That's how my wife and I did it. We did small things at first to test the waters. We didn't know if it was just a fantasy or something we would enjoy in real life. So we had a guy come over and she gave hiim a massage while I watched. We both liked it and were very turned on. Over time, she now has sex with black guys and I enjoy watching. We have a great sex life.

If you find that you don't like watching, you should break up with her and keep it on a friendly basis. It's just not a match. She wants someone she can swing with and if that's not something you want, go find someone else.
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Old 09-30-2021, 07:49 PM
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You have come to the right place, if you want to see your girlfriend take big black cocks. We are all here because we believe white women want need and deserve big black cock. If she is telling you she is attracted to black men and wants to try black cock,it's going to happen with or without you, and once it does she will be hooked and will want as much black cock as she can get. She is telling you this because she is already planning for you to be her cuckold boyfriend /husband. If you think it's hot to watch her getting fucked by a black man or multiple black men, then you will have a long happy cuckold relationship, if not she will move on until she finds a boyfriend who she can cuckold with black men. She may already be cuckolding you with black men and this is her way of telling you that you are her cuckold. You may have already licked their cum from her pussy. So you have to decide if you want to be her cuckold or not. If the answer is no,you may have to move on. If it's yes the sit back and enjoy the ride, it will be a wild one. Black men will knock the stuffing out of her,and leave her leaking cum from every hole she has. My guess is she has already made you her cuckold! This is the future of modern white relationships and marriage. There will be huge cocked black men in your sexlife. It's what modern white women want. Girlfriends, wives,daughters,sisters! moms,and even grandmother's all want the forbidden fruit their ancestors were denied!
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Old 10-03-2021, 10:51 PM
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Seems like she's not black men's type? Lol.
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Old 10-09-2021, 07:11 PM
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Your girlfriend wants to be with a black guy so bad , let her embrace it or walk away. She must be a with watching tons of IR porn and probably has a membership WITH BLACKED. What was said on this tread. There are some many SMOKING HOT WHITE GIRLS IN LA WITH BLACK GUYS IT’S THE NEW NORMAL. That’s very hot , she sees this and now she wants to one of those white girls with a black man on her arm.. It happened to me and some of my friends and thousands of other white guys . Good luck and it will happen with her and you can’t stop it.
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Old 10-10-2021, 05:23 AM
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Since this is an anonymous forum, good place to vent and be totally honest. I'm a 31-year old white male, successful professional, good shape, living in Los Angeles. Been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. We are not at the stage where we want to get married, but it's definitely a serious relationship.

In past few months, she's been openly talking about how hot black guys are when we're out at santa monica beach or other places outdoors where there's lot of muscular athletic black guys. At first, I just laughed it off, but it became obvious that she's sexually attracted to them. Those comments continued, with her saying that she's "curious" about trying black cock. And this past weekend she said that she thinks about how "beautiful those milk chocolate babies" would be, if she had babies with a black man. I lost it, and we got into a heated argument about this.

A few questions:

1. To save this relationship, what should I do? Should I let her fuck a black guy and get it off her chest so we can move on? She brought up wanting to try this, but I initially said hell no. Am I being narrow minded?

2. My girl wondered whether she's too petite and not thick enough for black men. I don't know what black men like, but according to her, they like women who are very curvy and huge asses. She's fit and athletic, but that's not her body type so she's wondering whether she can attract the athletic, handsome, muscular black men she's attracted to. I attached her pics (with her permission). Honest thoughts on her would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.
She has been thinking major about this and she is wanting to have mixed babies… you don’t know how lucky you are. She is a good looking woman who knows what she wants. If you allow and join in and such you will find a wild hot relationship and a good time. My wife did it once and I’ve had a difficult time convincing her interests to do it again but the one time we both agree it was the best thing to our bond and relationship and made our sex life really hot. Your girlfriend is a dream come true you have it made if you will accept it. I like her interest in becoming pregnant with a black lover and she is looking to take it bare and creamy deep if she already hasn’t… if I was in your shoes and she came up to me and confessed this I’d be hard as a brick and ready to help her find a lover or more!
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Old 10-10-2021, 06:13 PM
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Your girlfriend wants to be with a black guy so bad , let her embrace it or walk away. She must be a with watching tons of IR porn and probably has a membership WITH BLACKED. What was said on this tread. There are some many SMOKING HOT WHITE GIRLS IN LA WITH BLACK GUYS IT’S THE NEW NORMAL. That’s very hot , she sees this and now she wants to one of those white girls with a black man on her arm.. It happened to me and some of my friends and thousands of other white guys . Good luck and it will happen with her and you can’t stop it.
Lol this is bullshit. VAST majority of hot white women in LA are with white men.
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