How to introduce wife to IR porn
 

My wife and I do not watch porn together nor has it ever come up in question and I don't know if I want her to be with a black man, but I do know I want her in on my fetish. I exclusively watch bbc porn. What's the best way to introduce her? I have never caught her watching any type of porn nor has she talked about it, but I know she masturbates and I can assume she watches some kind of porn...

Hey I was that wife.. I think firstly mention you want to watch porn with her, tell her what you like about it, women like to be included, it’s more sexy to know someone intimate thoughts, it’s almose like fire play to us girls.

I’m afraid she will think my fetish is racist or that it’ll change her view of me...
I was thinking I could ask her to watch porn with me then ‘stumble upon IR’ so to speak with a popular star in it (I.E. say let’s watch this Riley Reid vid and she just so happens to be with a hung black costar) and slowly build up to it being our exclusive thing if she’s responsive or claim ignorance if she says why are we watching so much IR

Thoughts?

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I'm not sure how to approach my wife about ir porn and maybe have bbc in her ( cus that's my fetish ) I also pretty much watch bbc in white women esp white wife's that's my ultamte fetish :D my wife is half South American half black though but she is really light skin :confused: so idk but I mentioned to her that we get some blindfold and ropes and I mentioned to her bought getting a dildo. She said she only wants my dick but I came up with a good comeback and said well that's kind of what sex stuff was made for dildos insertated in there pussy and would really turn me on :cool:

She has been what I think are subtitle hints that she wants big cock in here ( mine is over 4 1/2 inces prob close to 6 but anyway we are going to stay in hotal and possible go out to club or bar but we don't drink or use drugs. That is a way to tell ur partner or let her know ur in to doing other stuff good luck I believe it's pretty much every body fantasy to have sex with a big dick unfortunate I don't have 1 of those

I think that’s a great idea! Let me know how you go?

At first, my Filipina , Bay Area born, wife, rejected any sort of porn, because her first husband watched it behind her back, without her knowing, making her feel as though he liked the women in the videos better than her. She was jealous more than she was repulsed by the video content. When I came along, I just wanted to watch it with her, not behind her back . I wanted to include her in it, she could decide what to watch. We went to adult book stores together, not separately. When she wanted a toy or two, I bought them for her. When she dressed up in her thigh high stockings and heels, I told her that she was beautiful, that she was my porn star. Better than the chicks in the video. When she was no longer threatened by the good looking women in the videos and felt like she was just as nice looking as they were, she began to enjoy the videos. Women on women is her favorite video topic, but black men on white women, is a close 2nd. Today, watching a xxx video has become second nature, no big deal.

Brought it up, she does watch porn but isn't familiar with any stars/starlets. I suggested some and we're gonna watch tonight and masturbate together. I definitely think she's gonna quickly turn it into sex, but if it doesn't go that way, I'm gonna bring up a video with Riley Reid in it or some other similar built starlet to her and pick a random video. Not sure if I should go straight for bbc tonight after watching a vanilla video for a little bit or not...

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Is your ultimate goal to turn her on to IR porn or are you hoping to get her into the lifestyle? You're a member of this site so obviously it's a turn on for you. I think you really want to eventually see your wife with a black man. There are lots of white husbands out there just like you....Becky:p

Try to find something with a woman that looks a LOT like your wife doing something interesting.

That might give her some idea what she'd look like on the receiving end.

I know a wife that her husband showed a lady who looks exactly like her glasses and all blowing 3 different black guys, then they all fucked her brains out. Apparently she found it interesting....

Update:
Last night we watched a part of a vanilla Riley Reid video before I said this looks good and clicked her with a bbc (turned out to be mandingo) and she immediately pointed out that it was IR and was astonished by how big his dick was, but it didn't seem like she was any more or less into it than vanilla porn during the video, eventually she dragged me away to the bed so the video was left on about halfway through. I'm not sure what to think...

That's what happens when a lady gets exited.

introducing wife to porn
 

you may be closer than realize. many women do watch porn and according to research more women are being drawn to its unique fantasies it provides. Do you known for sure if your wife masturbates? This may be a real opportunity for you to explore with her. Couples masturbating can be a very beautiful intimate experience finding each other sexually. Be honesty with your wife telling her you enjoy watching porn and would love for her to join you.

Did she fuck you when she took you to bed?

Yes, we had sex when we went to bed.

Update:
We have watched porn twice since and last night she picked out Mia Khalifa with a huge bbc and we watched the whole thing (it was rather short) and Mia struggled with it and she said "I'd probably struggle with that too" but I'm thinking we're making progress since she picked it out. I didn't ask why she picked that video specifically yet I might give her another chance to pick a video and see if she goes with IR again

When she says something like that, ask her if she ever thought about or fantasized about trying it? Go from there if she says yes. Or say, I wouldn't blame you if you wanted to try that sometime.

Also, try buying a Penthouse Letters magazine. Try finding one with a lot of interracial stories.

My wife is a bbw and want her to tryout her 1st bbc I don't know how to go about but want to see her in action,we are from south africa please add me on facebook with name lekker lekker

If you really want to do it, you should definitely talk to your wife. I think she will support such an initiative and you will be glad. In addition, it will have a great effect on your relationship because you will diversify your sex life. I'm with my girlfriend and tried everything possible in sex. My wife is a wise woman and constantly delighted me with something new. She recently ordered me an erotic massage here http://www.ladybirdsweb.co.uk/. Initially, I couldn't believe it, but my wife convinced me to go for a session.

I thought my wife would not really be into interracial porn, but boy was i wrong. She had seen some before and some porn before but was not super into it.

I then showed her a video of Alexa Grace and Juli Gomez and that started to get her into it. Her first time watching it she said "His cock is so huge" and could not take her eyes off the screen.

I showed her other IR movies, but the one she has liked consistently is with Dredd and Kristen Scott. It is where Kristen Scott has like 10 orgasms in the scene and mentions how deep and stretched she is feeling.

It really tuned her on because it showed how much pleasure a woman could get from a big cock and was not degrading to women. It was really almost all about the woman's pleasure with a really big cock.

I am sure she has thought about taking a BBC, but I would ask her during these movies if she thinks she could take the actors cock. She does not reply, but i know the thought is going through her head. I also mentioned that I fantasized about her taking a BBC. I thought she would be like "No way" but was surprised when she was l like "it is totally ok, it is just a fantasy" in a really positive tone.

She also gets wetter and looser after watching BBC porn and there is a noticeable difference compared to when we don't.

She is usually up for watching IR porn and we watch IR porn (BBC white woman) exclusively. I showed he porn with average white guys and she was not into it. She mentioned that their dicks were a lot smaller and later called it bad porn.

When I first thought about showing her BBC porn, I never thought she would be so into it. Her eyes are liked glued to the screen watching it.

It is a difficult question; try to talk to her and tell her about your fetish. Say you want to watch BBC porn with her to get as excited as possible. I think if she loves you and understands, then she will agree. For example, I am bisexual and sometimes offer my girlfriend to watch gay porn on this website with me. And she agreed, by the way, to my surprise! First, we masturbated and then had wild sex all night. I remember those days. It's a pity I'm not dating her anymore. The girl was just on fire.