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Is "dominance " in bed a turn on or off & this goes for Men and Women
I started this thread because recently like yesterday , I was downtown hanging at my cigar spot & lady younger than me with a group of her friends sat next to me on the couch and she had a drink & the lady put her drink on the table next to me & I placed a napkin under it (the water wood thing) & she said "Thanks" & then asked "Did my drink bother you ? "
I said no but if you dropped you drink because it slipped out of your hand that would , so I put the napkin under it to prevent that .It's just in my "Nature" . And she looked at me for about 3 seconds & said "You are pretty Dominate" aren't you ? I just smiled but then it got me to thinking ..what defines dominance ? Is it sexy to everyone ? And are there certain degrees of dominance? Which degrees of it do we like or love & which degrees go to far ? ( Like guys doing the fishhook thing to a girl in doggy-style ) Thoughts & preference from the ladies & gentlemen of ILI ;) |
Its called the century of the wimpyass pampered slut. Or just the delicate liberal PC America at its worst. You shoulda slapped the fuck outa that slob bitch and threw her on the floor and pissed on her face. Then tell the cunt to suck it up and take it face down!
Ill be glad to let you know what I think about bitches like that if you want me to. |
The lady in public but a tiger in bed always works .. & I want her to "dominate " me a little ,
"Just to see what she's made of " ;) |
Imma giver ..and a ..taker in those situations when a woman does that , ..Why hell .. cheap Steve Miller Band imitation :
Some women call me "The Space Cowboy" ..yeah Some call me "The Gangster of Love " ;) |
theres no doubt i love to be dominated in the bedroom big big turnon for me.
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So in the bedroom .what are your "Degrees" of dominance ..
is it the dress belt used as a collar ...or is it "Teeth & Toes" .. while playing with your "Holes" :) or anything goes ? |
maybe a dress belt to tie my hands to the headboaied as to a collar a locked leather or steel collar it has to be the real thing.
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@snowflake.. Ladies & Gentlemen That 's the real deal !!!
Like Evander Holyfield ridin' on a "Big Wheel " while eating a "Happy Meal " !! Flatback fuckin' is just the appetizer before "Dinner " is served with snowflake ! Bless your little heart :) |
somehow i think youve had experience tieing and locking a girl. Ooh dinner indeed.
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i think we all have boundries unfortunatley sometimes we dont know them until after the fact. I was hooded once that caused me to have a panic attack. Terrifying just thinking about it.
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navywifezzz has a good checklist of "Boundaries "
because I want to be "Surprised " & not Scared to death ! Especially with my "Balls" I like em ' to "Bounce" slightly "Bitten" but not "Beaten" !! That just destroys the whole damn "Debauchery" & causes me to lose all creative thoughts :( |
I know some of you ladies have never heard this from a "Man" but let me be the first to tell you.
Some pain is "Acceptable" to a "Degree" .. here is a "Classic" example that all men love & hate The "Strong!! " &.. soft... "Nut-Suck" !! ( * Disclaimer * It is not for the weak or faint of heart !) Now time to "Teach" (Everyone get your pen & pads ) for the guys if you want to experience the best of the "Strong!! " & ..soft.. "Nut -Suck" you will have to eat the "Pussy" this way. "Pay Attention" You must go from the inside if the thigh where it connects to the "Pussy" (Left to Right ) kiss & bite the thigh & then brush your nose against the clit as you move to the other inside of the thigh (There is a reason for that !) Then "Come Back" to the clit & do it sharply ! Then and this takes "Practice" take your top two teeth (The Incisors) that are directly under your nose & put them over the top of the clit , then use your tongue to grab the bottom of the clit & add "Slightly " strong suction until you know for sure that it is "Locked " in place & then start sucking on it "Strong & Soft " Now the "Important " part once you have suction you can "Swirl your tongue "Clockwise " or "Counter clock wise " just mix it up & go fast & slow & she will let you know the best way by just listening to her "Breathe " once you get that cue then you need to do.......... "Two " important things ..Number #1 make Damn sure your upper lip is resting on her "Pelvis " or pelvic bone because she will unintentionally or "Intentionally " (Depending on the Dame" Smother You!) So do that for "Safety!!" Number Two #2 recognize the "Dame" you are going "Down" on !! Is she "Thick " or Thin ?!? If thin you can hold her legs & hands from the "Outside " in and be like the Elephant trunk eating grass & just sway with her motions cause she's gonna move . Now If "Thick " hold her legs & wrists from the "Inside " out & you have to be the "Pit !!" & Lock It Down !! No Mercy !!! When she cums & she will "Hard" Keep sucking & swirling !! Now even faster & she's gonna try to break loose but "Be The Pit !!! " Do Not Let go !! She's gonna bounce her ass on the bed & try to knock you off the "Pussy" but she won't be able to do it if you followed these steps & then when you see her reaching for shit that ain't even there then, ..let her go ... & (*Important step* Guide her to your "Nutz" ) She will do exactly what she felt to her to you ! (Hence~Some "Pain" is acceptable & Be Dom·i·nant !!! ) If you follow what is written you will have a "Pleasurable" Strong !!" & ..Soft.. "Nut-Suck" If she starts sucking you nutz before that happens then you are playing with an "Un-Cut" Deck "Always cut the Cards " then the Odds will be in yo' Favor ! ;) |
I love to be dominted when ever i am with bull/s, i give my whole body and soul to them for the time he is fucking me bettar than anything any white man ever gave me.
My partner has been a caged cuck for a few months now and i have no intention of releasing him any time soon. So my partner loves to be dominated too, except he is sexless obviously. |
For me there’s nothing hotter than a dominant man
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I've been sexually turned on by scenarios of women punishing & dominating males since a very young age. It started in the 1970's & seems to have stemmed from real life experiences & movies.
Back then women's liberation & battle of the sexes was all the rage. Along the way I became turned on by white women denying white boy dick in favor of black men. It's quite common judging by numerous photos and profiles I've seen on this site over the yrs. |
I think that domination is hot, but trying to define exact boundaries would take a lot of time. In general it is hot
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