Why do cucks become cucks?
 

A man willingly submits to another man whom is referred to as bull that eventually fucks your girl friend, wife. Who later on end up locking their dicks in a chastity since they’re inferior compared to the bull.

I’m not trying to kink shame, I just don’t understand how this turns someone on. I understand the females perspective as they’ve been sexually deprived due to their previous partners failing to meet their sexual needs. However what do the males gain out of this aside from embarrassment and acknowledging they’re inferior?

Sorry if this is the incorrect section, I wasn’t entirely sure where to post this.

You would not understand unless you have seen your wife submit to a guy who,s cock is much bigger than your even when not aroused. You have a strange feeling in the pit of your stomach but it is all overtaken by the overwhelming urge to see her submit to him

This sort of ties in with a question I had intended to post, but had not gotten around to yet.

As a single black male who has been in several relationships with married white women, there is one aspect of the cuck scene that I just do not get. Some of the "bulls" on this forum have posted that they do not respect "cucks". I have heard some married white women say that they love their husbands even more for tolerating (and in some cases assisting) with their fulfillment, even in a way that the larger society would not approve of. So my question is how the addition of this new dynamic has affected the relationship (sexual and otherwise) between the husband and wife. I would also be interested in hearing if the third party relationship has turned into something that was unexpected in any way (positive or negative).

I have not ever been in a cuckold relationship, and I guess in the back of my head, I don't wish to contribute to the deterioration (or perhaps termination) of an otherwise happy marriage. I know some guys would say, "well, if it's already a happy marriage, they would not be interested in the cuckold scene". I'm not sure if that is always the case. For example, I could see some couples where the man has severe ED problems, but there is still a strong emotional bond, where this might be a way to save the marriage, perhaps moreso than if the wife had an affair. Another possible scenario might be where the wife had a much higher "libido" than the husband.

Comments?

My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We are both in our 40s. Obviously neither one of us were virgins on our wedding day. She admitted to me that she's slept with 8 men before me. Her first lover was in college and she told me his cock was thick and twice as long as mine. She been hooked on large cocks since. She says she loves me because I'm a good father to her son and provide well. She told me that guys like me are hard to find. After a few glasses of wine one night she admitted that I have the smallest cock shes ever seen on a grown man. She said I'm too small to make her orgasm but she gives me sex anytime I want it out of being a good wife. I told her I get turned on about seeing her with other men and when guys check her out I get aroused. Weve decided as a couple that she can play if she wants as long as I know about it and still get sex. She is attracted to many black guys but hasn't tried as of yet. She does have a BBC dildo that she uses along with her bullet after I'm done since I can't make her come with my cock. It's easier to become a cuck and have a mea culpa discussion. With your wife about your inadequate love making abilities then to not communicate and build up resentment and end up her cheating without you knowing and leaving you.

I’ve never felt so much pity up until I came across your post, how can you even justify this as not cheating? She willingly takes multiple men in front of you or behind your back. It’s 2018.. new tactics for alleged growth is out there. Yes it’s 99% likely they’re scams or potentially dangerous to your health yet what do you have to lose? You already lost your pride,ego,and masculinity.

I’m trying to view this from a sympathetic POV yet I just can’t.. I honestly hope you consider my advice since I hate when a man sacrificed himself to keep a female happy. This isn’t your own happiness, it’s hers. You’ve been manipulated, tricked by propaganda.. this isn’t healthy.

I believe cucks enter a set of 3 stages

Stage 1: Pornographic propaganda-
Men who have insecurities + watch porn on a regular basis are more likely to seek a deeper meaning to it. What I mean by that is how they’ll compare an actress to their current lover and compare their size to the male actor in the scene. After the comparison a mindset of inferior is formed.

When comparing their lover to the actress in the scene it isn’t her looks, it’s the following reactions -

A). Her body movement (Obvious example as crawling to the actors cock or less obvious such as her legs shaking from an intense orgasm)

B). The way the actress acts toward the male actor, whether it be obvious as being swooned moment the scene starts or less obvious as to where the female actress submits after being intimidated, overpowered by the male actor.

C). The actress’s tone, which is typically words that strike a nerve with the cuck’s insecurity example being big or word combinations like “Don’t stop”.

During this stage, a man slowly starts to envy another man for not their cock size yet rather the dominant behavior that the cuck lacks.



Stage 2 - Curiosity
The cuck starts to wonder if swinging or an open relationship wouldn’t be all that bad (It always is, never a healthy alternative). So what does the cuck do? Fall for the trap that was set for them since the start.. googling it. Researching into the topic, and 99% of the search results is propaganda that slowly heightens their insecurities. The remaining 1% is attempts to justify the insecurities claiming it as “Not as bad as you’d think”. What really irritates me is how a large proportion of the results were created by females, I’m not trying to be sexist yet there are some topics females shouldn’t even try to tackle.

Mens insecurities are something only an insecure man or previous insecure man would understand.

Stage 3- Experimenting

This is where the man considers sacrificing his masculinity to watch or hear about his lover being pleasured by another. I said consider since it varies on how deep he’s entered into the inferior mindset.

The experiments can be executed in various of different ways yet the most common ways are -

1). Searching for a bull online

2). Your lover has gone through your search history and now she’s become interested in this fantasy of yours

3). You trick your lover into sleeping with another man without her consent.

4). Your lover ends up cheating on you.. yet instead of getting upset you encourage it.

5). Asking her generic questions while watching interracial porn such as “Do you want to fuck that big cock”

This logic has been reversed on females as well, since surprise.. surprise they got insecurities themselves and guess what it is? Bigger asses, bigger chests, being more of a slut in bed.

I’m 99% positive that if the cuck applied the same effect on his lover, she’d get pissed. You would think that since she cheats on him with his consent she wouldn’t care if he cheated on her right? Yeah well.. unfortunately the average cheater is a hypocrite meaning just flirting could strike a nerve with her.

Stage 3 - why,how, and when.

This stage is the moment of truth, you’ve either become a cuck or you’ve realized the error of your ways. Guess what you lost? Your lover.

Your lover no longer respects you, she has found you less attractive, and now views you as weak rather then strong. That doesn’t imply she will divorce or break up with you, since 99% of the bulls are disrespectful assholes that are used as the wifes boytoy.

The remaining 1% of bulls is more than a boytoy, it’s your lovers secondary boyfriend and potentially future husband if he’s only interested in her + if you piss her off enough. Yes that’s right.. she has fallen in love with two men, one she favors over the other.. him. A cuck has literally opened Pandora’s box and now he’s slowly yet unavoidably paying the price.

Yoga Hotwife and Others
 

Don't know how real she was, but I certainly enjoyed watching Yoga Hotwife (YH) in action. (I'm a sociologist, have published a deviance textbook, and also enjoy porn-- although at my age I sort of "curate" it, rather than watch it and masturbate.)

YH was a joy to watch because she seemed like a real person. According to the narrative she and her husband had planned this lifestyle from their first date. Her black partner seemed like a real stud-- and I've always like seeing big dicked guys in action. I liked Holmes and Ron Jeremy, but adding a black person seemed even more exotic and interesting. I like other exotica too. Like older woman - younger man.


But, according to Reddit, YH and her husband busted up, and she's with her black lover now. Hubby may live next door to help with the kids. These are Reddit rumors of course, so can't swear to any of it.


The last thing I'd personally do is let my current wife fuck anyone else, if I knew about it. Yes, I've cheated on her. Last time about four years ago (one off.) My advice is "don't ask, don't tell" is best if either of you do it. In my first marriage we were open for a number of years, but that tends to colonize the primary relationship with fascination for lovers etc. DADT makes you shut up about it at home.


Sex is very primordial. Even very reasonable people can get very swayed by it. The separation and maybe divorce of YH and her husband is not a surprise. We all tend to be attracted by things like youth, strength, feminity, virility, even dick size.

So I won't be taking those risks. Much too old to start over.

Theres nothing to understand about; its another form of gay being disguised as kink. I dont want to see my girl with another man that's bigger than me in hopes of tasting his sperm; what kind of logic is that? I don't want my own sperm on me! My question is; what kind of woman stays with a man that's in to that?

If the cuck willingly licks the bull or does anything with the bull then yes he’s been in the closet.

As for why they stay, that requires a female perspective.. however I believe the wife/gf stays out of pity or past feelings of love. Sometimes the past is strong enough to keep a relationship alive.

Why?
 

A more relevant question the majority of you should be asking is, "Why am I on this site with all the negative feelings I have for it?"

LOL!

:rolleyes:

I don’t hold any negative feelings toward this site, a bull if single is a man looking to fuck or if the bull is taken then he’s a cheater if involved with the cucks wife.

It’s a natural instinct for a man to dominate every woman he possibly can and it’s natural for a woman to seek pleasure. A cuck is basically a 1 sided open relationship with raceplay and torture involved which isn’t normal and has slowly been increasing due to propaganda.

I Like Looking at the Porn
 

I was on FetLife, a BDSM site, for about four years. In the end, I found it too disgusting-- just about all of it, and stopped. I disliked it so much, I felt insincere in looking at it. I don't think interracial sex is disgusting (I had a black girlfriend in the late 60s in LA.) The exoticness of the cuckold idea is weird to me, and I have enjoyed figuring it out. I think there are three types: Orgiasts (Janet Mason's husband e.g.,) Repressed Homosexuals, and Woman Haters (who want to punish women through cuckolding.) We sociologists are nothing if not voyeurs.

There can be no "1 sided open relationship."

Some guys into cucking are the most prejudiced men you will ever meet.

Torture isn't always involved.

Propaganda? By who, and for what purpose?

Lol...well Fet is a whole different animal. Tried it briefly when the SESTA caused many sites to stop or severely limit access options. It wasn't out of disgust being the cause for our leaving it, but the lack of utility and the major emphasis of the site.

To fully determine if it’s a 1 sided relationship or not would require a experiment -
Ask the cuck to pursue another woman, regardless of how much the cuck may love his wife/gf there will always be someone more attractive that could peak their interest.

If you were to survey 100 cuckoldress on average, I guarantee that 80% of the cuckoldress wouldn’t allow her cuck to show another woman attention.

If she refuses to allow her cuck to pursue another female without taking it personal than it’s a 1 sided open relationship. As for who starts the propaganda, it can be spread in a variety of ways. The culprits of spreading this propaganda is your own insecurities and cheaters.

As for what the benefit is think about it from a females pov - You’ve been given the ability to keep a faithful, loyal man that will never disrespect you and will resume the role of a caregiver if deemed necessary while having a boytoy on the side to satisfy you sexually.

Combine those lovers, you’ve got the perfect man. Seperate either of them and you’ve got a flawed man. The only advantage the bull has is size, he isn’t as caring or obedient as the cuck.

The cuckoldress has compared her two lovers, determining if the cuck balances out the bull or not. If the cuck is an asshole like the bull then the cuck is left to be replaced by the bull.

I've known women who did exactly this unknown to their husband. I knew a woman in Portland who didn't allow her husband to have outside relationships while having them herself.

The site is iloveinterracialdotcom not ilovemaleseatingpermdotcom-LOL

Piffle
 

These arguments and hypotheses are specious. There's no cabal of women out to get ya.
The only insecurities apparent in this post are YOURS.
Fear that some man, rockin' a big dick, is gonna steal your baby away junior high school drama. Losing your masculinity, etc.
Sorry, and have a nice holiday season.

You can lol all day, but ya might wanna read the header at log in, tiger. Let me know what that says.

Oh a couples account.. how interesting. I wonder if the cuck or the wife wrote this response. I’d assume the wife since this response was rather too sassy and bold for an insecure males persona to address such a controversial topic.

I’d go further yet I rather not base this response on assumptions since there’s a 1% chance a cuck could’ve written this response.

David Ley wrote a book, "Insatiable Wives," where he praises one sided cuckolding. Not my experience at all, and the book seems fanciful. When Wife 1 and I had an open marriage, we were competitive. I had more and better quality partners than she.

I’d say I’ve waited long enough for a response, was disappointed the cuck or cuckdress decided to end conversation there.


I’ll start off by stating this, a woman chooses who she wants at the moment which could be a long term attraction or short term attraction. Furthermore I don’t fear my bitch falling for another man since just like how she can replace me, I can replace her.(Good advice to cucks)

In all honesty, if your cuck isn’t gay or bisexual than I don’t see a valid excuse for him to remain by your side.

Now here’s my question to the cuckdress, do you respect your cuck or do you treat him like garbage?

im kind of in the same situation as you. she loves fucking me but I just cant hit that spot inside her pussy. her pussy is wide and deep and made for large cocks so I let her fuck bbc

I totally agree with you. that's how I felt