You're a dumb-ass.

Wife is into it; you are into it - just DO it!
 

Your wife is saying what she THINKS she is supposed to say to avoid hurting your feelings. But she is obviously into BBC porn which means she'd probably be into the real thing, too, if she knew you'd TRULY be okay with it. Go to an "adult" club (swingers club) and let her see that it is okay for her interact with other men. She'll find the black guys are quicker to approach and more direct about what they want. She'll like that! She just needs to know you are okay with it. Then...let nature take it's course. And even if the guy isn't bigger than you, it won't matter. It will be sexy and exciting for her anyway. She'll enjoy it. It's about the taboo. It's about the contrast with her skin. It's about a mysterious man touching her differently than you do. Penis size is only part of the equation and not even the biggest part, so don't sweat it. Let her enjoy it and show her you are happy for her. If you are into it, she will relax and be into it, too. Life will be GOOD!

I think mine is the same way we do the same stuff as you and wife gets all wet and squirts everywhere and she knows i have a friend with a big black cock and I send him dirty pics of her and screenshot the text messages and she will just give a thumbs up back i think she wants to be a dirty little slut