Wife admits attraction to black men but nothing more.
 

Tried IR movies, dildo and although both are now the only way she orgasms I can't get it to the next step. What am I doing wrong?

Some people just don't change the way you want them too. The same situation got between an ex and I and no matter what she never could commit to trying IR.

I like the same thing as your wife, but surely its her choice........and I wouldnt want to sacrifice my marraige on that basis.....me and my husband get a great deal of satisfaction from the fantasy and role play.....and yes I have a 10" Black dildo....my hubby sometimes wears my panties....

So respect what she wants and likes, lets be honest here some partners and wifes wouldnt go as far as we have (there loss me thinks).......

Give it more time!

still trying to get wife to try. almost given up. :(

Slow Down Sport!!
 

You are at the final destination!!! Pump your brakes!! Sure you want to see a Slab of Black Pipe stuffed completely in her!!! Just slow your roll some! Introduce her to a Brother with some charm and skill, and see what happens. She just might not be ready yet, so you might as well try another approach. Just remember as bad as you want to see her with some Black Pipe there are Brothers who want to give her some JUST AS BAD. Good Luck!!

I have the same problem.
 

Mine luvs talking about it and I think she has had a couple of black men before we were married and I suspect one afterward but she won't admit it. She is in her late 50s but still very attractive. Every time we have sex I tell her she needs to have a big young hard black one in her and she goes into lala land fantasizing about it but for some reason won't do it.

I have the same problem.
 

Mine luvs talking about it and I think she has had a couple of black men before we were married and I suspect one afterward but she won't admit it. She is in her late 50s but still very attractive. Every time we have sex I tell her she needs to have a big young hard black one in her and she goes into lala land fantasizing about it but for some reason won't do it.

Same here
 

My wife was very promiscuous as a teen, I knew some of the men she had been with, and we used her sex life in our role play for many years. I was not smart enough to ask if any of the men were black, untill the computer became a household item. She admitted freely that she had mostly black sex partners, and many times multiple black men at once. I get off just hearing her talk about her love for bbc... But there is the rub she will not even think about taking another bbc, for me... she tells me that if she were to start with black cocks again she knows she would not be able to controll her lust.. so she won't ....

pushing boundaries
 

Take her to an IR club/party just to watch and continue encouraging but not insisting