MY cheating wife ran off and is living with her boyfriend
 

Two weeks ago, I confronted my wife about her secretly seeing an older black man. Because of the open lifestyle that we lived before COVID, I thought that telling her I know about him was something that needed to be done. That was a stupid thought for sure. One minute in to the conversation and I knew it was not going to end well. My wife Amanda is a very easy going, nice woman, but when she feels cornered, her claws come out like a pissed off tiger. She started fired back at me with some real shit, like asking me why this is suddenly a problem for me, it didn't bother you before, I thought you liked me being with black men? It was your idea, or don't you remember that?

Bottom line, she walking out during our argument and didn't came home that night. The next day, she showed up and didn't acknowledge that I was there, she just went through the house gathering some of her stuff, then walked right back out. I haven’t seen her since, but I know she’s staying with him. Who knows what the hell he's telling her, but now she's avoiding me and coming home for things while I’m at work. Yeah she's mad, but, come on, she’s the one that got caught fucking. Not one and done, but she's been going out of her way every day after work to be with him.

I wasn't going to do it, but, I texted her today and she replied " I have nothing to say right now."

time to...
 

change the locks. that is, unless, you like what she is doing. being a wimp never helps.

he is telling a real man would fight for her. he also tells her he would never let her get away from him. she needs areal man.

good luck.

You ran this story last week.
Change the locks, freeze the joint accounts, kill the atm cards.

Being a cuckold or a wittol is fine but being a doormat isn't it.

She needs to communicate with you otherwise end the damn relationship and move on.

If you want to be a doormat go ahead, it's your sorry-ass life.
gw3n

Since she won't talk about it, I'm planning on changing our front and back door locks ASAP. If she wants to get any of the stuff she left behind, she'll have to go through me. I'm sure you're right that he's filling her head with bullshit. But, it's hard to fight for someone that's avoiding you. If she's willing to throw away 23 years of marriage for him, than I'm not going to let her get shit from me. I don't know what she really needs, but the dude is complete opposite of me. He's ex military, ex-correctional officer, he rides a Harley and looks like a football player.