Anyone know of any real, trusted dating apps?
 

Hi all! i'm the newest member here. I'm a femboi. I have a lot of pics and things but i don't want to waste my time on this site if it's not gonna lead to anything. I was introduced to BBC at an early age when i was walking home from my part time job (i had no car) i guess a black guy liked my ass or something and picked me up to give me a ride. He started asking an awful lot of questions and when i realized he passed the place i told him to go what he was interested in. It was obvious to him that i didn't care because i kept chatting him up. I was so horny and already used dildos and i wanted the real thing. Then he asked if i'd ever been with a guy before and i told him no. Then he asked if i've ever played with my ass before i said yes. Anyway long story short we fucked but then he moved. I had a lot of success on Craigslist before that shit happened. Been pussy-free for about 2 years

Try Doublelist, or your state's local r4r subreddit.

I understand where you're coming from, looking for something genuine. I’ve been through the same frustration with dating apps. I tried a site called tosituhma once, and it ended up being a positive experience. I connected with someone who was really open and respectful, and we just clicked right away.

You might try Fetlife
 

Not a lot of black men in my area but might work better where you are.

when it comes to phone apps, i can tell you what my Husband explained to me before about them. So there is a timeframe in which they are useful and that is after release when there are enough people on to actually have a selection and the moment the bots, fakes and unhinged come flooding in. he says the older the app the more unlikel it is to actually find someone on them. because phone apps are much easier pushed aside and forgotten than other platforms.the habit seems to be to download the app, search someone, find someone, delete the app... thanks to that, only bots, fakes and unhinged people remain on those for longer. not sure if this helps you, good luck.

what about popular sites. I matched with a local who offered to show me around via mature gay singles site. What started as a casual hookup turned into three days of exploring the city, trying food, and laughing non-stop. We kept in touch, and now we plan little trips to meet halfway across the globe. It's like having a travel buddy who totally gets me. Gay dating sites make the world feel a lot smaller—in the best way possible.