White guy here: insecure about my girlfriend
 

Since this is an anonymous forum, good place to vent and be totally honest. I'm a 31-year old white male, successful professional, good shape, living in Los Angeles. Been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. We are not at the stage where we want to get married, but it's definitely a serious relationship.

In past few months, she's been openly talking about how hot black guys are when we're out at santa monica beach or other places outdoors where there's lot of muscular athletic black guys. At first, I just laughed it off, but it became obvious that she's sexually attracted to them. Those comments continued, with her saying that she's "curious" about trying black cock. And this past weekend she said that she thinks about how "beautiful those milk chocolate babies" would be, if she had babies with a black man. I lost it, and we got into a heated argument about this.

A few questions:

1. To save this relationship, what should I do? Should I let her fuck a black guy and get it off her chest so we can move on? She brought up wanting to try this, but I initially said hell no. Am I being narrow minded?

2. My girl wondered whether she's too petite and not thick enough for black men. I don't know what black men like, but according to her, they like women who are very curvy and huge asses. She's fit and athletic, but that's not her body type so she's wondering whether she can attract the athletic, handsome, muscular black men she's attracted to. I attached her pics (with her permission). Honest thoughts on her would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

More pics below

Bro, friendly advice. Your insecurity is going to kill the relationship. She's obviously not satisfied sexually and looking elsewhere. You're only making this worse. And as someone who lives in L.A., I can tell you for a FACT that hot white women here prefer black men.

As for your second question, your girl is GORGEOUS. She can have her pick of brothers. You probably were hoping that we found her unattractive. Lol.

Most of us dream of our wives wanting to fuck BBC. I think if you give her a chance to fulfill her fantasy, you may end up closer. Let her go on a date, when she gets home lick that pussy. In time you will be wanting her to go out more and more.

The answer depends on you. What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend/wife who has sex with black guys while you watch? Does that turn you on or not? If so, then the two of you need to sit down and have a serious talk about fantasies and sex games before you start arguing and break up.

She's obviously into black guys and laying down hints. Now, it's up to you to either tell her no and break up with her or tell her that you're willing to try it with her.

My advice is to do something small at first to see if you both like it. Have a black guy over and have her give him a hand job and massage. Have her put on something sexy, have a few drinks with him and then have her give him a massage and hand job until he cums while you watch. That way, if you don't like it, it was only a hand job and you're not too traumatized. But if you do like it, you can do more the next time such as allow her to give him a blowjob. Slowly work your way up to watching her have full on sex with black guys. Take small steps to reach that point, even if it takes you a year to build up to that point.

That's how my wife and I did it. We did small things at first to test the waters. We didn't know if it was just a fantasy or something we would enjoy in real life. So we had a guy come over and she gave hiim a massage while I watched. We both liked it and were very turned on. Over time, she now has sex with black guys and I enjoy watching. We have a great sex life.

If you find that you don't like watching, you should break up with her and keep it on a friendly basis. It's just not a match. She wants someone she can swing with and if that's not something you want, go find someone else.

You have come to the right place, if you want to see your girlfriend take big black cocks. We are all here because we believe white women want need and deserve big black cock. If she is telling you she is attracted to black men and wants to try black cock,it's going to happen with or without you, and once it does she will be hooked and will want as much black cock as she can get. She is telling you this because she is already planning for you to be her cuckold boyfriend /husband. If you think it's hot to watch her getting fucked by a black man or multiple black men, then you will have a long happy cuckold relationship, if not she will move on until she finds a boyfriend who she can cuckold with black men. She may already be cuckolding you with black men and this is her way of telling you that you are her cuckold. You may have already licked their cum from her pussy. So you have to decide if you want to be her cuckold or not. If the answer is no,you may have to move on. If it's yes the sit back and enjoy the ride, it will be a wild one. Black men will knock the stuffing out of her,and leave her leaking cum from every hole she has. My guess is she has already made you her cuckold! This is the future of modern white relationships and marriage. There will be huge cocked black men in your sexlife. It's what modern white women want. Girlfriends, wives,daughters,sisters! moms,and even grandmother's all want the forbidden fruit their ancestors were denied!

Seems like she's not black men's type? Lol.

Girlfriend’s needs
 

Your girlfriend wants to be with a black guy so bad , let her embrace it or walk away. She must be a with watching tons of IR porn and probably has a membership WITH BLACKED. What was said on this tread. There are some many SMOKING HOT WHITE GIRLS IN LA WITH BLACK GUYS IT’S THE NEW NORMAL. That’s very hot , she sees this and now she wants to one of those white girls with a black man on her arm.. It happened to me and some of my friends and thousands of other white guys . Good luck and it will happen with her and you can’t stop it.

She has been thinking major about this and she is wanting to have mixed babies… you don’t know how lucky you are. She is a good looking woman who knows what she wants. If you allow and join in and such you will find a wild hot relationship and a good time. My wife did it once and I’ve had a difficult time convincing her interests to do it again but the one time we both agree it was the best thing to our bond and relationship and made our sex life really hot. Your girlfriend is a dream come true you have it made if you will accept it. I like her interest in becoming pregnant with a black lover and she is looking to take it bare and creamy deep if she already hasn’t… if I was in your shoes and she came up to me and confessed this I’d be hard as a brick and ready to help her find a lover or more!

Lol this is bullshit. VAST majority of hot white women in LA are with white men.

You clearly are to insecure to be in a relationship with her if this is how you trash the anwser's YOU ASKED FOR

I live in L.A. and this is factually inaccurate.

Take a hint dude. Your GF isnt happy with you. Especially sexually . Now you may say your in good shape but compare yourself to the black men she sees on the beach . You probably don't compare to them. Some things don't change women have always wanted the strongest, most capable most virile men to have a relationship with both to breed them and to protect them once they have their babies. So your girlfriend is telling you she thinks she has a much better chance of having a baby with a black man and having a black man protect her when she has his babies. Question is will you stick around while she does this or will you let her go with black men and get bred. But basically your relationship is kind of over . Get over it. She doesn't look that petite nice long sexy legs very fit. She will be great breeding material for us.

Either way it sounds like shes made up her mind and wants some bbc, you can either be there with her or shes going to do it behind your back anyway. Let her fuck a bbc and maybe you should fuck one of her friends haha that way you wont feel to bad about it.

As most of the other replies have said my advise is to go with it and let her try it out, she’s so hot that she’ll have no problems getting it and will do it anyway. If it helps you rationlize it, her making you a cuckold is a pretty common lifestyle choice these days for white couples and will help you protect your relationship - which is obviously important to you. In fact it made ours stronger. Few pieces of practical advice, talk a lot, make sure that you have clear rules ( what’s acceptable to you both, rough/soft, pussy only or all holes, condom/bareback that type of stuff) ideally get her agree to let you watch (you’ll really love it and you’ll grow closer) and agree what type of man (professional/non-professional) - there are no right or wrong answers here! Be aware though that this will change your relationship, once she’s been blacked she will 100% want to repeat it, and she’ll be hooked, you’ll love it more than you can imagine now and you’ll encourage her to continue. As I say it will change your relationship m, but 100% for the better.

We started six years ago and it’s served us well (we have clear rules, she loves being the centre of attention, everything is available to her black friends, I watch but don’t normally participate and as professionals we tend to go for non- professional black men that treat and fuck her roughly).

Embrace being a cuckold, many many white men ( including this one) have��

UPDATE

My girl has been going on dates with black men she met through dating apps. She hasn't fucked them yet but will pretty soon, as there is 1 guy she is really into. These guys are all 6'3''+, very muscular, and very dark. I would say they have that masculine "thuggish" look. I think that's what shocked me the most. I thought she would go for the very light skinned harmless looking black guy, someone who looks like say Obama or Matt James from the Bachelor. She tells me that when she goes out on dates with these guys, they get TON of stares. She is confused by this and doesn't know why.

I'm definitely not happy about this, but this is out of my control.

LOL . She's been fucking them. You think some thug is not going to fuck your gf on the first date.

She gets fucked every time she goes out. If she tells you otherwise the bitch is lying. Just tell her you're OK with it and then she will tell you the truth . Maybe . Maybe she just likes playing you for the cuck you are .

Insecure about girlfriend
 

I wish you well but I think you know how this will end
She either has had BBC or had a friend in her ear telling her to try it along with watching porn.

If you feel there is something worth building with her then explore this lifestyle.
You can have fun I'm assuming ?.

Her honesty about what she wants is bold and scary, lol.

She's a hot girl and it would be hot seeing the contrast .

Keep us updated. And good luck.

She comes home after each date. Out for like 2 hours. So no, she hasn't fucked them.

How long you think it takes for a fuck . A good hour should be enough.