disappointment
 

First time arranged a meeting with BBC for my wife through online adult sites. We were supposed to meet at a local bar. My wife is conservative but I found out she was eager to meet him after reviewing his profile. We had a long discussion about limits as It was our first encounter. She txt him few photos and chatted with him online in my presence before the meeting

On that day, he did show up, but with additional two friends who were not invited. They sat down and started to flirt with her. It was really awkward. She looked at me and was very uncomfortable. That was a sign that we got to leave. Have you ever had such an encounter?

Don't let that experience discourage you. Take it as a learning experience not every meet and greet will be a smashing success it's 50/50 at best. There's no foolproof way to be absolutely sure who you are meeting here, there are some high quality Brothers that you can find that can be a gentleman and give her all the stiff black pipe she can handle. Good Luck

Just wondering ... your wife was uncomfortable but were you? Would you have liked it if your wife was into the idea of all three of them?

Perhaps next time you should have ground rules for the first meeting. It's not too much to ask that the potential BBC come alone along with any other expectations. I know she'll be hooked after the first time but you want it to be memorable.

[QUOTE=teewest;96954]Don't let that experience discourage you. Take it as a learning experience not every meet and greet will be a smashing success it's 50/50 at best. There's no foolproof way to be absolutely sure who you are meeting here, there are some high quality Brothers that you can find that can be a gentleman and give her all the stiff black pipe she can handle. Good Luck[





I agree, but to learn form that encounter, I need to know what they were looking for. Were they playing games? or basically looking for other activities.

Just wondering ... your wife was uncomfortable but were you? Would you have liked it if your wife was into the idea of all three of them?




This was first encounter. For me, I wasn't even comfortable with one person, however, I know she would enjoy the experience and for that I went a long.

That was our expectation. I am not sure why he brought other guys with him. in the future, what happens if we are in a room with one man and someone knocked and all of a sudden we have two or more people show up. I never thought of that but i now, i do.

[QUOTE=generic3;96959]That was our expectation. I am not sure why he brought other guys with him. in the future, what happens if we are in a room with one man and someone knocked and all of a sudden we have two or more people show up. I never thought of that but i now, i do.[/QUOTE
Good question. Once you set ground rules and he agrees prior to meeting, then it's a chance you will have to take. Also, some websites are better then others for that sort of thing. Ashley Madison worked well for me.
Do either of you have black friends or co workers who might be willing to help? Or do you prefer someone you don;t know for this?
You said you weren't comfortable with any of this but going along for her. How do you think you'll feel after it happens? How will it affect your relationship moving forward? What if she wants a weekly meet with a black guy? A long term lover or different guys? If she wants a 3some? How much of a part are you going to play?

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To answer your questions, We prefer someone that we don't know
I have mixed feelings. Although I would enjoy seeing her reaching new sexual intensity, I may regret that it wasn't with me but we have talked about it and we are both looking for the new experience. I am a STAG rather than Cuckold, so we would love to participate in threesome with a black man

I had a situation like that happen when I was in high school. I was in the NJ Pine Barrens with my girlfriend. We noticed three older men watching us, then they each wanted a turn with her. She took them all on but it did make our ride home a bit awkward.

[QUOTE=generic3;96961]I understand mixed feelings. That's something you'll have to with once it happens and depending on how she responds to a black lover. You may want to continue since you want a 3some but you may also experience some jealousy, especially if she liked it and had awesome orgasms. If it's a one time thing just to have a BBC experience you may be okay but if it's going to be a regular thing, you'll need to come to terms with everything, the emotions and all.
I've personally never had a white guy satisfy me like a BBC can. It's a whole 'nother world..

I've seen Kayne describes up here white men who think it will be hot to see their wives with a black man. Maybe even do a threesome btw I prefer the white husband to sit back and watch. I'll do a three some with a brother . But being in the same bed with a white guy doesn't work for me.

I do see so many white men who think their wives will still be happy with them after they've had black cock or think they can control the when and the where. They will have all of these rules you know only with men he approves of . Only when hes around only if he can watch and maybe participate . But like Kayne says here its a whole other world. Once a women starts having the kind of sex she never had before all those rules go out the window. And the Bull will help as well. We'll get her numbers , where she works all kind of things. Buy a burner phone give it to her. We'll find a way to get her alone. Eventually she gets found out. And the guy gets all pissed and every wife says the same thing. Well you started it you wanted me to do this. Then you will have to decide .

Don't know why white guys do this . They should know that their white wife will like black better or why else would she go along with it. I can only think a lot of white men have a pimp fantasy and think by giving their wives over to black men they are kind of like pimps. The other thing is that most white men don't know how powerful a womens orgasm is probably because they never really seen one but once a white women finds she can only get that with her black lovers that will be all she wants.

The reason is not pimping the wife. If you love your partner, you may sacrifice your feelings for her pleasure from different experience. It started with porn movies as they show body builders with unusually large dicks who can fuck for ever. Thats when the fantasy started but to convert to reality, we looked for a pornstar like person with similar performance.

I can tell you why I did it. I never shared my wife with a black man but I did share girlfriends before I got married. In every case, it was not a girlfriend that I ever thought I would end up marrying. I was just dating them to have someone to do things with and for sex. I usually considered them just there for me to use.

Since high school, I have always enjoyed being with women who would be described as sluts. The first several times I had sex in high school was with a girl who would skip school with me and my friends and let us run a train on her. I enjoyed sharing her with friends and she was always very willing.

On of the guys I shared her with was a black guy who dealt drugs. There were times I took her with me to him and he fucked her in exchange for pot. It was a great deal for me and for him. She went along with it every time. A couple of those times, he had a friend or two with them so they all took turns with her. I never participated but just smoked a joint while I sat and watched them. At the time, I was 17, she was 16 and they were all in their 20s or 30s.

I just got to like the idea of handing women over to other men to use. It made them appear more slutty to me. In many cases, it was easier to get them to fuck black guys than white guys. I loved watching them being sluts and I enjoyed watching black guys fucking them. Most of all, I enjoyed the feeling of being able to hand them over to other guys to use as they pleased.

You sound just like a boyfriend I had in high school. Lol. Good times.

Well aguy here is at least honest. Turn out his slutty girl friends and for some drugs as well. So yes he is being honest. But his wife who he does love no way will he do that. I applaud your honesty and commitment to your wife. Though I'm betting at times the idea does cross your mind.
Or you wouldn't be here

One thing I notice white guys will pimp out their wives and girl friends will do it for things. Drugs, Job, Promotion.

You know "I see that manager job is open and I was wondering what do you think of my wife "

Now those white guys who say they do it because they love their wives I'm calling bs on it. I think y'all like the power and control you have . Having a women fuck another man is the ultimate in control . Why you want to be there when she gets fucked why you like to take pictures and videos. Why you almost always the first ones to bring it up. If you really felt that way you would let her go on her own . Find her own black bulls and just come back home and if she wants to share things with you she will. But you all don't do that do you. Though eventually she will and that will piss you off. Because you lost your power.

Oh sure, the idea does cross my mind but I would never do it. The idea also crosses my mind for my daughters but I would not do that either.

Absolutely correct. I have no desire to have that kind of power over my wife. But I loved having that power over other women. The power of being able to trade a woman's body for something you want is just great.

Again I salute your honesty both in fantasizing about your wife and daughters. My guess though is there will be a time when the urge will be to strong for you to resist and you will want control enough to see them with a black man. Having experienced that before I'm sure you remember how exciting and powerful it was.

Yes being able to dominate and control another person so that you can "trade" her is just an amazing experience. I think why so many pimps are black . Our need and ability to dominate and control is strong. And white women who are naturally submissive especially with black men and the current political climate are surprisingly easy to control ae natural for us to make ours

I doubt that. We are both in our mid-60s now and would have done it by now.

When I was in my 20s, I dated and was engaged to a woman who loved fucking black men. She started before we met and made it clear she would not stop. I enjoyed watching her and loved hearing her tell me about the nights she and her best friend went to black clubs to meet guys. I thought I could handle it but could not.

My youngest daughter dates black guys and it would not surprise me if they share her. There have been times the guys she is dating will come to pick her up and will have two or three friends waiting in the car. I do think about it but that's all. You are right about the current state of things. I've overheard some conversations between her and her friends and it seems that fucking black guys has become a sort of status symbol for white girls. I recall hearing her on the phone with a friend when she was still in high school talking about that a third friend had had her first black guy the night before.

Now those white guys who say they do it because they love their wives I'm calling bs on it. I think y'all like the power and control you have . Having a women fuck another man is the ultimate in control . Why you want to be there when she gets fucked why you like to take pictures and videos. Why you almost always the first ones to bring it up. If you really felt that way you would let her go on her own . Find her own black bulls and just come back home and if she wants to share things with you she will. But you all don't do that do you. Though eventually she will and that will piss you off. Because you lost your power.[/QUOTE]



you are absolutely wrong. The only reason to be there is to make sure she is protected. I have no interest in filming the encounter unless she asks for it. I would let her go on her own after she is comfortable with the person. She asked another woman to join us for my 40th birthday, for FFM threesome. is that because she has power over me to see me with another woman? or because she wanted to make it special for me.

Well yeah at you and your wives age definitely not going to happen. To bad think you both missed out on something.

But based on your prior experience it might not have been a good idea for you. Especially if the wife like so many do really like us. Being fucked by us.

Yeah you see more and more white going black. Not just single women but married ones. During the BLM demonstrations plenty of white women were there and it was easy to pick them up and take them home. Most had sworn not to ever call the police on a black man so we were able to do what we wanted to them.

So your daughters ever tell you why they have gone black. You think they will marry a black man and or have a black baby. You ever think of watching her with a brother. Or would that be to much for you.

Sick in the head
 

All you people are sick in the head…

you are absolutely wrong. The only reason to be there is to make sure she is protected. I have no interest in filming the encounter unless she asks for it. I would let her go on her own after she is comfortable with the person. She asked another woman to join us for my 40th birthday, for FFM threesome. is that because she has power over me to see me with another woman? or because she wanted to make it special for me.[/QUOTE]


Maybe your the exception or the exception that proves the rule. maybe your wife is thanking you for letting her have black cock . or maybe she is getting some you don't know about and wants you to not be suspicious. I've had white women tell me they try to be extra nice to their husband before they start fucking around on them. Never start cheating on your spouse after you had a fight or things aren't going well.

Only my youngest daughter has gone black. I have never talked with her about it. I think about watching her but don;t think it would be a good thing to do if the chance ever came up.

Why do you think it would be a bad thing for you to see. Sounds like deep down you would enjoy it. Since she is pretty obvious that she has black lovers and has probably had multiple at the same time you know gang bang and isn't shy about letting you know. I suspect she'd like you to watch her . And I think you'd like to as well. Give in to the dark side my man.

I see that you posted that if you ever came home and saw your wife with a black man it would be a wish come true for you.

My own guess is that at least your daughter knows this gets you off and wants to please you.