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Good opener when messaging ladies
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Old 01-25-2022, 11:49 PM
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Lightbulb Good opener when messaging ladies

Sorry I am a very shy guy I know this is dating forum . But really finding it hard to initiate conversation. I know everyone here is positive but idk it's just new to me. I guess getting a hi message sucks but I'm just trying to figure out how to start a dm conversation. What's some good conversation starters if you don't mind me asking.

Ladies? Gentlemen?
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Old 01-26-2022, 01:28 AM
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Depending on the site your are using and for what purposes you need to be able to have some cut through.
On the Adult site we are on , we get inundated with messages every day , to the point that we just can’t reply to them..

If you’re messaging a couple I would suspect that normally the male half is going to see your message first and he will be running the screening process for them.
Only the type he thinks she will like will get through.

A simple “ Hi” is almost a certain death.
You need to write a polite introduction to them along with some details about yourself.
Pics always help, any messages we get without pics ate instantly disregarded by us.
Same for dick pics, sex for women is between their heads and you need to start there.

Sure once you start chatting , you may get to the more personal pics but until then keep it polite and professional.

Hope that helps
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Old 01-26-2022, 01:39 AM
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Thanks for the info will think more before I start messaging then this was very helpful.
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