Why I want this
 

A senior member on the site asked me why do I want my wife to experience interracial. He asks most of the white men. Rather then email my response I decided to do a forum post. Although you probably won’t hear anything new, I’m going to explain why it is my belief. Like most people in their 50’s I know life is short. I want my wife to experience the best sex in her life. It’s not just the bbc aspect but more. Being hung is important in my mind to experience the best sex ever, even if you don’t use every inch, but it’s available if needed. Along with the bbc is the skin contrast, like able positive personality, more dominant. Not in a degrading or painful way, but black men know how to take control in the bedroom, both mentally & physically. I’m sure most white women are tired of limited foreplay, making the first move, and having to get their husband hard. The taboo aspect also is present. White women have been brainwashed for centuries by previous generations to stay in their race. So bad that most white women may not reveal to their white husbands if they’ve ever slept with a black man. They also will speak down to all the BLM news, a black on the bachelor show etc as a cover up to falsely show their white husbands that they’re not into black men. They fear humiliation or even abandonment from their white husband if they show a liking of black men. In truth they lust and yearn for black men but can’t show it. It’s not just the bbc, if a white female has sex with 20 guys, 10 white & 10 black, the black males will dominate the top 10-15 if ranked. Even though everyone is equal between the legs, the B/M brings more to the table. Aside from the skin contrast & other reasons listed, the past treatment of the black race deserves reparations. I can’t change history but if we can unite there is no better way then to allow our white wives the sexual freedom to experience interracial love. If my wife told me life is short & she wants me to experience the best sex possible, I would be ecstatic. My history of interracial began when I was 13-14 years old, I’m now in my 50s. I’ve been so to speak in the closet with it most of my life. The first time I saw interracial porn I was hooked. Whenever my family was out of town I couldn’t wait to go to the dvd store and rent interracial videos. Maybe it was partially due to growing up in a all white town. But It was mesmerizing to watch a white female be taken emotionally & physically by black male. Yes porn isn’t quite reality but I’ve done enough research & in the day of podcasts, blogs, and online amatuer porn it’s the real deal. Most cuckolding experts say it’s nothing like porn & that porn is hurting the lifestyle I disagree. I agree it’s more then just the great sex in porn and it doesn’t show the ups & downs of cuckolding. The jealousy, cuck embarrassment & guilt, bulls & wives falling in love with each other etc, but the sex doesn’t lie. The skin contrast, moaning, sloshing noises of a bbc going in and out of a wet white pussy is breathtaking. The bar gets even higher when the husband allows his pride & joy, generally untouchable wife to experience interracial. I’m more of a stag because I love pussy, maybe more of a voyeur, but I really don’t want to participate & prefer to watch. The moaning & sounds of more, yes, harder, why do I want to participate. Why interrupt if I can’t make the experience better. I’m more apt to support if the bbc feels uncomfortable until she’s out of control in ecstasy. Some people resent the fact of these relations, especially black females. They believe we’re using their men for our sexual needs. Ask any bull in the lifestyle & they’d say the more horny wives available the better. They love giving the women what they need and with no real obligation of a daily relationship. It’s far from owning them or using them as sex slaves. If someone was to ask me if I’d like to be periodic sex slave to horny women, I’d ask where do I sign up. In theory a bull is used for a service but it’s a two way street since they both have the same desires. Everyone’s trying to make up for lost time in history. Fast forward 20 years & if a white woman isn’t permanently with a black male, she will have a bbc bull with her husband. That will be the norm. There are many reasons why I want this, but in actuality it isn’t why I want this, it’s all about the wife once she experiences it. She just needs to know it’s okay to want this. My current situation: I’m currently dating a high school sweet heart for the past 5 years. I’m separated and was in a sexless marriage prior to my current relationship. Due to being in a sexless marriage I played around. I had one girlfriend who I proposed the idea of bbc. For about a year I’d Find bbc on craiglist and we’d go to a local hotel. I made love to this gal several times. When watching her with bbc she’d get out of control & squirt everywhere. Never squirted with me. I would only watch and take pictures & videos. I’m slowly trying to see if my current gal will experience a bbc. I’ve got to go slow because I love this women and want to be her lifetime partner. I can’t read her right now and will take baby steps to find out. We live in a mostly white area, nearest city with a mixed population is 4-5 hours away. I’m going to slowly let her know I’m cool with it but it’s probably going to take a tropical vacation, add some drinks, a respectful black guy, my blessing, and see what happens.

I like the way you think. You make some good points.

We're better at sex. We're bigger where it counts. We're stronger and with that strength and ability comes a level of confidence white guys don't have. It's why we can and are dominant in the bedroom. Its something women come to expect from us. Like the saying goes it ain't bragging if its true. And so we use that to gain control of white women and also their husbands who let us into their lives. It's never as simple as just fucking but the dynamics soon lead to a more involved relationship. It won't start out that way but eventually it will become one where one member is dominant over the other.

Like you said you are giving us your beloved your most precious thing and that is so we can make it happy and from then on our possibilities are endless. We will press every advantage. Its the way life is relationships are rarely if ever equal . And one has to be dominant and we will .

Yes you're using our bodies or you think you are. It's important for you to know that we're letting you think that. That pretty soon we will have control.

Black women can feel left out but sometimes they are allowed in but also as a dominant partner. Or they may realize that what is happening isn't love but reparations and control and they are OK with that. Now black women don't like single white women taking their men but this they can handle if the Bull includes them somehow.

Why I want this
 

Great comments. A dream world would be being friends with a black couple where the black bull of the couple rules the roost, both women and the white husband is the gofer boy.

Interesting perspective. Appreciate your honesty.

I do wonder what % of white women are sexually curious about us and want to try us out.

Why I want this
 

Here’s the common percent that I believe is true. I copy/pasted the article.
Rutgers University in New Rochelle, NJ, has concluded that approximately 87 percent of American White women have had or fantasize about having sexual relations with African American males. The study was conducted by the Sexual Sociological Endowment in the Cultural Histology department, at Rutgers University.

The study reveals that a whopping 87% of white women dream of having sex with a Black man and in some cases many already have. Interestingly enough, the same study says only 13% of white women said they would would marry and raise a family with a Black man. Of the 800 involved in the study, 8 percent said they have actually dreamed of having a threesome with Black men.

They’re out there guys. just have to give them a little inclination that you want to give them a life changing sexual experience.

Haha. If true, this explains why I get so many matches with hot white blondes on dating apps, but they don't want a long-term relationship with me.

Take what you can get.

I've read that some eighty percent of white women have fantasies about us. Gives us a big advantage. .

You are right that would be a dream world. Something like that is happening already .

Why I want this
 

Stay single my friend. Maybe post on the dating sites what your looking. Maybe a long term relationship but someone who’s open to you satisfying hotwifes. They’re cuck queens I believe. They love you but like watching you put the pipe to hungry women and watch. They watch and think “that’s my man & he’s all of mine emotionally” I was married for 28 years, not regretting it but lost a lot of time sexually. Search the word sunken cost fallicy and you’ll understand my point. Life is short and people stay in relationships for all the wrong reasons. If I was single I’d post exactly what I want, a vixen who is my life partner but I’m down for her getting some good experiences. Variety is the spice of life. There’s a girl out there that would be loyal to you and let you get out and play without all the normal things like jealousy etc. listen to the interracial swingers podcast. The guy is cool, got a wife he loves but can hook up too. Granite his wife plays occasionally but if you don’t want your mate to play there’s one out there that will let you play. Go for some type of open relationship or one of you with get shortchanged.

Agreed on staying single. Hey if you're getting a lot of interest on dating sites for "single" white women why bother being tied down. I suspect a lot of the single white women you're seeing aren't single but married white women looking for men like us. No sense in tying yourself down.

Damm dude, we must be related
 

Your comments are so similar to my thinking and attitude. It's like you've been present when my friends and I have had this discussion. I could'nt agree more with you.

Why I want this observation
 

All the comments above are accurate and on point. I'm not the most debonair or handsome
Man to enter the club. But I've always been confident in my stability to charm a white lady to
Bed. These comments above, pretty much explain why.

Why women love us for our confidence . So long as you bring it they ignore the other shit. Seen some really ugly brothers with some very hot white women .

I must be extremely superficial but the only reason I have wanted to see my wife fucked by black men is that I enjoy seeing women beings fucked hard and enjoying it.

In college, I saw a girlfriend ganged by four black football players who lived next door to me. It remains the hottest sight I have ever seen and I have always wanted a replay.

No social reasons. Nothing other than I like to see it.

VERY common on college campuses!

How long did she last with them?

Colleges have girls usually attractive white ones whose job it is . They get scholarships for this, is to show Football and Basketball players around campus on their visits they are set up with nice apartments where the recruits can be taken to. So early on the athletes know that women will be one of the benefits of going there. Sometimes they will put the Athletes dorms next to the white sororities . And yeah there will some good gang bangs after wards.

They started about midnight. I watched for about an hour, then went back to my room. She stayed there all night and came back to my room the next morning.

I knew some of the women who did that. In my case, I lived in a dorm next to a suite with four black football players. The girl was my hometown, high school girlfriend who came up for a weekend visit.

When she go there, it was clear that she and I were not staying together so when the guys invited us over, I had a good idea what they wanted and decided to do what I could to help them do it.

I am not sure about the "statistics" but you can bet that most white women are not maybe not being "truthful" about things. As I have looked at this site, I find it amazing the number of Husbands who approve. It also makes me wonder if they are not actually the Husband of the Woman but maybe a "fill in". I do not think there is a single person that wants their marriage "run by someone else." There is a reason that this site exists. There is not a site I am aware of that caters to African American Women searching for white men. I do agree that there is somehting "inate" in white females that make them want what Black men have. We have an abandoned trailer on our property that used to house a "property foreman" during certain times of the year. It has been unused since 2018. Quite frequently a group of my Friends walk the property and go by the trailer on the route. A year ago I walked the property alone and decided to check in on the trailer to see if there was flood or creature concerns. When I walked in and looked through the place, I got aroused for some reason and thought about being alone in the middle of 640 acreas with black men. I actually laid down on the nasty mattress on the floor and "pretended". I know there is something inside that burns most women.

Why I want this
 

This lifestyle is very mainstream. It’s made couples stronger by allowing everyone to get what they truly need & want without the stigma. There are numerous podcasts out there that a very informative. I’ll post an attachment that pretty much sums it up for the female half.

You can't overturn 10,000 years of evolution and biology. Women have long needed and wanted a dominant male both for protection and breeding of their young . More and more now dominant males are black . Men have also wanted sexually desirable women who can be bred to help them keep their blood lines alive culturally those women are white . White women have been considered the most desirable for breeding and for status for years now. This is especially true among men of color. You only have to look at the wives of NFL and NBA players to see this. So like you suggest there is an innate desire of many white women to have a strong dominant black man . As for the white men while they are the losers in this they hope to perhaps get a chance in the breeding process. By giving into their women and their black men they may get a chance to breed or to be part of the process.

I believe it is more what the women want...not the spouse. Just my opinion and I am no expert.

Yes it starts there, what the women want. And you can't overturn years of evolution and biological needs in a couple of years. Referring here to feminism and its attempt to deny all of that.