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[humanbehaviorwatcher]

A few years ago, my wife (she's a closet freak btw) admitted to me that a black co-worker hit on her and told her that if things didn't work out with her marriage, he would be glad to take her out. I told her by date three, he'd gonna want her in his bed and she said she knew. A few months later we were talking about fantasies and without my asking, she said race wasn't an issue for her. Occasionally I would send her IR porn pics or gifs and she would reply back if she liked it or not, usually she did. Nothing over the top, just erotic or a suggestive tease type thing. Then we went on vacation. I was checking us into the hotel and was told the rooms weren't ready so when I went back over to her, she was getting hit on by two black guys who left when I walked up. I'm an amateur photographer so I took the chance to get pics of her and suggested she open her shirt a little since those guys were the only ones near us, which she did. Their room became available before ours and they left, then our room became available and she wanted sex as soon as we got in the room. We never saw them again. Since that time, I've gotten her a black dildo, made it clear if she wanted to try sex with a black guy I was okay with it, and she has gone completely cold on the topic. I see her occasionally check out a black guy when she doesn't think I'm looking so I know her curiosity is still there but even with permission, she won't act on it at all. She doesn't even use the toy I got her, it's collecting dust. What gives? Why the hot and cold? I'm confident in myself and our relationship and know she's not going behind my back since she's a very type A direct person. if you have actual advice, I'm all ears.