Attraction between black men and white women
 

So, this is a question for both the men and women on this site. My black gentlemen, what attracted you to dating white women? What was it that made you instantly aroused by them? Vice-versa, to the lovely white women on this site. What was it that attracted you to dating black men? What was it that aroused you to them instantly?

This attraction goes back to the days of antiquity. The ancient Greeks believed that a big, erect dick was a sign of animalistic, uncontrollable sexuality while a small penis was a sign of civilized restraint and rationality—a notion that endured and spread through Roman philosophy, medieval Christian art, and ultimately early modern proto-science, thanks to Europe’s eternal hard-on for all things Grecian. This view flowed directly into the Atlantic slave trade, as white males used the notion of the well-endowed and thus uncivilizable, unpredictably virile Black man as a justification for their absolute dehumanization and control. This has led to many Modern while women completely rebelling against the dehumanization; replacing it with a sexual deification of Black Men.

I can remember when I first realized that this change was occurring. In 1965 I was living in Gainesville, FL and Sammy Davis had married Mae Britt, a Swedish actress triggering on going diatribes among the local rednecks. I thought it was erotic. My fiancé was also a platinum blonde, and I kept wondering what Marilyn (Photo attached) would look like with Sammy. I wondered how I would handle it.
Marilyn lived in Buffalo and moved to Gainesville with me when we got married in 1967.She had just started a job as a secretary to a politician. The first week there she went outside to eat her lunch and there was a black janitor sitting at the only picnic table eating his lunch. Marilyn sat across from him at the table and struck up a conversation.
Right after lunch the senior secretary at the law firm called her into her office and shut the door. The old bitty berated Marilyn for sitting at the same table as a black man and told her, "Here in the south, we white women don't sit with N-word unless we are sluts."

Marilyn came home in tears that night and told me what happened. I comforted her and told her that they just integrated the University 2 years ago and bigots were all over the place.
I asked Marilyn about her curious about fucking BBC. Specifically, I asked if she had wondered about what it would be like to fuck Corey, the black janitor.
She said "Not until Millicent scolded me."
I knew that over the two years she worked there she continued to have lunch with Corey a couple times a week and we would often drive him home in the evening. I asked him once if he ever had a white girl friend and he said. ‘Hell no. They would cut my balls off if I even thought about it.'"
I am pretty sure that Marilyn never fucked Corey. I am sure that his cock would have resized her pussy because I saw it once in the newly integrated men’s room at the office building. We were taking a piss in adjacent urinals. I thought I was thick but his was long and thick. It had to be at least 10 inches soft; porn star size. In retrospect Marilyn might have been game for it. I think Marilyn would have loved to fuck something that big.
I did see Marilyn actually kiss Corey once. It was the second last day that Marilyn worked there before she quit to have our first son. We drove him home and he asked us in. He had a present for the new baby to be. Marilyn was nearly 7 months pregnant. He gave us a small cradle and Marilyn gave him a kiss to thank him.
It was more than a quick peck, I thought there was a little tongue action on Marilyn's part. It lasted about half a minute. I saw that Corey had a tent in his pants when they broke the kiss and we left. Corey made no attempt to hide it as he helped me put the cradle in the car. Marilyn played with my cock all the way home and. wanted to fuck as soon as we got to our apartment. I did not think anything of it, but now I realize that it was Corey’s cock she was thinking of as we fucked. I knew that Corey had the hots for my wife. Now I knew that the feeling was very mutual.

Was simple for me, the black guy i met was physically attractive without even thinking of his dick. When I finally had sex with him it went from he is good looking to I want to only be with a black guy at that point as the physical connection I think drives attraction.

Nice story. And your wife looks like she was golden fox back then. I bet she still is.

the fact that growing up hey were unobtainable and it was considered taboo. That they generally don't know what great sex is and how thrilled they are when they find out. Once they experience great sex how submissive they become. And in all honesty a bit of revenge for white men's past racism.

Thanks for sharing this.

I've talked with a lot of white women that have been with black men, and they all say the sex is a lot. I wish I know what it was that made it so much better (Well, nevermind).

They have also told me they like to submit to black men, also. So, there is just something black men do that white men don't compete with.

You have no idea how inadequate white men feel when they know their girlfriend has had a black man before. They get jealous. I learned to just accept it and get over it.

The first time I saw what a black guy could do to a woman I knew it was over for me. haha. But I sure do enjoy watching it.

Just feels so much hotter... I always cum more for white women and I'm just more attracted... the skin contrast the anticipation everything drives me wild....

We grew up in neighboring predominately white towns and went to separate colleges. She went to a big city college and met several different cultures and a lot of her girlfriends dated black guys. We said we each could date others as we were quite a ways away but still wanted to have a future. She told me she had gone on a few dates with a few white guys, gave some handjobs, blowjobs, one guy tried to fuck her but she really didn’t like, but I’m sure she did one other guy she was close to, but I was okay with it. She said she was too afraid to date the black guys as her girlfriends told stories of how big they were-she is only 4’11” and 100 lbs and was worried about being hurt so she just kept them as friends. I pressed her to explore and find out, but she said no. One time when I visited she would introduce me to them and they would kiss and hug her, grab her ass and she would reciprocate by grabbing their muscles, butt and drop her hand into their laps on their cocks in front of me, saying that’s just what they do as they’re all friends.
She did admit she liked that some were pretty big and she likes feeling their muscles, but that’s all she did was rub and stroke them.
After college we married and started a family, but still have a few friends that would swing with off and on. One couple had a BBC they saw, he wasn’t a large man, but was a good bull and they convinced Kellie to talk with him online. She thought back to the guys from college and soon we met up with him. She enjoyed feeling his body, and his stamina thrilled her and she allowed him to unload in her multiple times, where she made other use condoms or pull out. Surprised by this I asked on the way home and she said he just made her feel so good and I didn’t want to stop and and his cum felt good when he went off inside me. I’m on the pill so it should be ok.
So since then she has been pretty much exclusive with black bulls. She enjoys the feel of them and the control they take knowing what they are going to be giving her. Once I. Awhile she thinks back to her college days wondering where some of those guys are now.

We just look good together
Black men like white women and white women crave the black man

I totally agree , white women look good with black men