Need advice
 

Hi all,
Found this forum a couple days ago and I thought that maybe this could be the place to ask a question that I have had for a year or so.

First, I am 32 and my wife is 28,29 in a few weeks. married 6 years. After a night out while we were making out about a month ago we started talking about our fantasies. There was one that my wife was very hesitant about. I manage to get her to tell me. It was about making out with a black guy. She asked if this made me mad. I just said that it was normal and that I sometimes I imagine her having sex with a black guy, She was surprised but we left it at that. ( this is why I am on this forum). We continued talking but she stopped talking and went to sleep. We often talk about been a little more adventurous to spice up our sex life. I also know that some guys at work flirts with her.She is nice looking so it is not a surprise.

The more I think about that the more it turns me on. So my question: how can I convince her that she can make out with a black guy and it would be ok and that it would not break our relationship.
She is a little insecure so I have to be careful about the way I bring this up.

I also have my own conditions. It could not be someone I know or someone that knows us. A good way could be like on vacation etc . We will be going in Jamaica next winter (Montego bay)
That would be perfect.

So how do I bring this up without breaking our relationship ?

Well, you already know this is her fantasy, so ask her if she's ready!! If not, just let it go!!

And one more thing!
 

Also, you should know that if she makes out with him, she may want to make love and latter have other black boyfriends!! When that happens, the best plan is to agree and enjoy the new lifestyle!!
My wife and I had our white sexuality undone and now we have black sexuality!! We are both very happy as she makes love with her black men and I wait my turn and get sloppy seconds!! It's wonderful!!

you could always start some pillow talk with "I keep thinking about our conversation, and have had a constant hardon ever since. The thought of you and other guys...ESP BBC.? see if she carries the tune.....might be best while splitting a bottle of whatever apertiff you indulge in to split her lips..

Bobforfun I sent you some advice in your DMs.

its sounds like she already has the thought in the back of her head.

when i was 19 and in college, I was dating this girl a year younger than me and one night we stayed up all night on adderal and weed and had sex. after a few hours we were laying there in bed talking about random stuff and somehow the topic came up of how when she was in highschool she would go on omegele and chat with older guys who would end up showing her their dicks. the conversation lasted all night into the morning and one thing led to another and about a month later her and I were at this 45 year old black man's house and she ended up having sex with him.

My advice is to not be afraid of having those big conversations and assuring her it won't break your relationship, if its what you truly want.