any ideas?
 

Ok, I have a strange problem.
First of all, I am a 29 yr old man who married a 23 yr old woman 2 yrs back. Although our married life has been good, the sex life has been ok. Although I try my best, my wife somehow seems unsatisfied. However, she has never mentioned anything to me about it.

I usually go out on company tours and I went to one last week. I was supposed to return yesterday late night but I got an earlier flight and reached home at 1pm (almost 9 hrs earlier than I was supposed to come). My wife wasnt at home and I thought that she might have gone out with a friend or something.

Thats when I checked the phone messages and I saw this 1 message from a guy named Peter. He had a very strong African accent and his message was for my wife. It informed her that he would be waiting for her in a nearby Super 8 at 12:30pm. Initially, I thought it was a wrong number but then I went upstairs and saw her computer was on and the homepage for this site was displayed.

I must admit I felt really nervous fearing that my wife might have found someone. Since she had logged out, I couldnt figure out her login. Since she doesnt like cell phones, I had no way to contact her to figure out what was going.

So out of sheer desperation I got in my car and drove to the motel. I sat in my car for 2 hours
parked on the other side of the street and then to my sheer horror I saw my wife come out of the motel with a tall black man (almost 2 times my size). My wife was wearing a tank top and shorts (something she never wears when she goes out). They got into a truck and drove away.

I waited for sometime and called my home from my cell phone and she was there. I told her I caught an earlier flight and that I would be there in 15 minutes or so. She talked normally.
After I reached home and till now, she has been acting real normal as she usually does.

This has got me worried on 2 counts --
1. is my wife having sex with that black stranger?
2. shall i ask her about this?

I see this site is about white women liking black men so maybe some of you women or even men can offer some advice.

thanks.

Woww... difficult. In my opinion, in a relation everything must can be discussed. There may be no doubt about this. In my opinion your wife goes to far. I should start an openminded chat with her about it.

Please don't be naive. I think she had sex with that guy.

The second question you need to ask yourself: do you forgive her and do you want to get into the IR scene.

Old thread, I know......
 

Did you ever discuss this with her or find out if she was sneaking around with BBC?

CW